351. Why Your "Self-Love" Is Actually Self-Sabotage

The Prime Life Project

I thought self-compassion meant being gentle with myself until I realised I was actually practicing self-sabotage. In this video, I reveal the crucial difference between true self-compassion and self-indulgence that keeps you stuck.

Discover the 3 game-changing tests to identify whether you're making loving choices or self-sabotaging ones. Learn why real self-compassion includes standards and boundaries, how to apply the loving parent test, and the critical difference between explanations and excuses.

If you've been wondering why "being nicer to yourself" isn't creating the change you want, this episode will transform how you approach personal growth and accountability.

What You'll Learn:

The hidden difference between self-compassion and self-sabotage

3 practical tests to identify genuine self-love vs excuses

Why setting boundaries is actually self-compassionate

How to hold yourself accountable from love, not hatred

Key Question: "Is this what someone who truly loves me would encourage me to do?"

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00:00 - Intro

00:05 - Why most people get self-compassion completely wrong

02:23 - The 3 tests to spot real self-compassion vs self-indulgence

02:49 - Test #1: Self-compassion has standards (self-indulgence doesn't)

04:20 - Test #2: The loving parent vs permissive parent approach

05:56 - Test #3: Explanation vs excuse - knowing the difference

08:14 - The one question that changes everything

08:45 - Key takeaway: "Do what's right, not what's easy"