ICYMI - Exit to Excellence: Breaking Free from the Illusion of Wealth with Jerome Myers

Your Next: A Guide to Finding Fulfillment After Your Exit Hosted by Jerome Myers

You got the money. Now what?

That’s the question too many founders face when the wire hits and the silence sets in.

In this episode of Your Next, the mic flips, as Jeroeme sits down with JR Lay for a no-BS conversation about what really happens after you sell your business. Spoiler: it’s not champagne and sunsets.

The discussion revolves around The Founder’s Exit Paradox, that sinking feeling of confusion, disconnection, and loss that arises when the work is gone, yet you're still searching for meaning and worth. This is for every visionary who built a mountain, reached the top, and thought, “Is this it?”

Jerome shares his raw, personal journey through post-exit chaos, identity unraveling, and the scars that success leaves behind, and how he helps other high-achieving founders find meaning after the money.

If you’re building toward an exit, don’t just listen to this episode; study it.

[00:00 – 12:00] Time Over Money

• Why tracking days off beats tracking dollars
• The hidden cost of chasing success
• How entrepreneurs trade presence for provision
• Time is your most valuable asset; treat it like one

[12:01 – 20:00] After the Exit

• What no one tells you about the emotional crash
• The Founder’s Exit Paradox: money in the bank, purpose on empty
• Identity, fear, and the myth of “finally relaxing”
• Why exiting from is never enough, you need an exit to

[20:01 – 33:00] Energy, Identity, and Attachment

• How mismanaged energy leads to implosion
• The trap of tying your self-worth to your business
• Childhood attachment styles are playing out in your exit
• From significance through status, to significance through service

[33:01 – End] Scars, Significance, and Exit Readiness

• The 5 hidden scars driving high achievers
• Why success without purpose leaves you empty
• Exit readiness is personal, not just financial
• Take the free assessment to map your next chapter

Key Quotes:

“Money is just a tool, no different than hammers or saws in a shed.” – Jerome Myers

“The title that you had gave you the illusion of significance.” – Jerome Myers

Connect with JR!

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jrwlay

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LevelUpBusinessVideos

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