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The greatest risk to your business exit is relational.

When you exit your business, it’s not just a transaction. It is an emotional shift that can ripple through your marriage, your family, and your identity. In this episode, Jerome Myers speaks with Ruschelle Khanna, psychotherapist and author of Inherited Trauma and Family Wealth, about the emotional complexity of exiting a business and why unspoken dynamics can quietly sabotage even the best-laid plans.

Listen now to discover how to protect both your legacy and your relationships.

[00:00 – 13:00] Exit as Emotional Death

  • Why a business exit mirrors grief and identity loss
  • Common signs of resistance: sabotage, denial, and clinging to control
  • The emotional weight on both the exiting founder and the heir

[13:01 – 26:00] Marriage, Misalignment, and Mutual Resentment

  • How exits reveal cracks in communication and shared meaning
  • What Gottman’s 7 Principles reveal about post-exit stress
  • Why many spouses feel excluded, even when they say they’re fine

[26:01 – 36:00] Emotional Needs and Adult Tantrums

  • HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired): decoding emotional outbursts
  • Reparenting your partner: how trauma shows up in conflict
  • Why emotional regulation is critical in post-exit life

[36:01 – 50:00] Family Tension and Generational Distance

  • How adult children emotionally react to legacy decisions
  • Spotting the signs of withdrawal, resentment, or performative agreement
  • Avoidance, silence, and the cost of not asking hard questions

[50:01 – End] Trauma, Transition, and Transcendence

  • The 5 trauma liabilities: chaos, procrastination, fawning, and more
  • Inheriting more than money, modeling emotional clarity
  • Choosing joy, presence, and intentionality in your next chapter

Key Quotes:

“A business exit is a tiny death.” – Ruschelle Khanna

“The definition of a healthy mind is to be able to hold onto two ideas at the same time.” – Ruschelle Khanna

Connect with Ruschelle!

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/ruschelle-khanna-lifestyle-for-legacy

Website: https://www.lifestyleforlegacy.com/

Ready for your next chapter?

Start Your Assessment Now 👉 https://theexitparadox.com/assessment

Leave a Review + Help Others Achieve a Great Legacy

If you found this episode valuable, leave us a review and share it with someone who wants to expand their business growth.

Your Next is more than a podcast—it’s a community that welcomes individuals from all backgrounds and ages, united by a shared passion for personal growth and achieving excellence.

🎧 Explore our previous episodes or learn more about our mission at https://exittoexcellence.com. Your next chapter starts here!

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Jerome Myers - Exit Paradox Advisor and Jerome Myers - Advisor to exiting founders에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Jerome Myers - Exit Paradox Advisor and Jerome Myers - Advisor to exiting founders 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.

The greatest risk to your business exit is relational.

When you exit your business, it’s not just a transaction. It is an emotional shift that can ripple through your marriage, your family, and your identity. In this episode, Jerome Myers speaks with Ruschelle Khanna, psychotherapist and author of Inherited Trauma and Family Wealth, about the emotional complexity of exiting a business and why unspoken dynamics can quietly sabotage even the best-laid plans.

Listen now to discover how to protect both your legacy and your relationships.

[00:00 – 13:00] Exit as Emotional Death

  • Why a business exit mirrors grief and identity loss
  • Common signs of resistance: sabotage, denial, and clinging to control
  • The emotional weight on both the exiting founder and the heir

[13:01 – 26:00] Marriage, Misalignment, and Mutual Resentment

  • How exits reveal cracks in communication and shared meaning
  • What Gottman’s 7 Principles reveal about post-exit stress
  • Why many spouses feel excluded, even when they say they’re fine

[26:01 – 36:00] Emotional Needs and Adult Tantrums

  • HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired): decoding emotional outbursts
  • Reparenting your partner: how trauma shows up in conflict
  • Why emotional regulation is critical in post-exit life

[36:01 – 50:00] Family Tension and Generational Distance

  • How adult children emotionally react to legacy decisions
  • Spotting the signs of withdrawal, resentment, or performative agreement
  • Avoidance, silence, and the cost of not asking hard questions

[50:01 – End] Trauma, Transition, and Transcendence

  • The 5 trauma liabilities: chaos, procrastination, fawning, and more
  • Inheriting more than money, modeling emotional clarity
  • Choosing joy, presence, and intentionality in your next chapter

Key Quotes:

“A business exit is a tiny death.” – Ruschelle Khanna

“The definition of a healthy mind is to be able to hold onto two ideas at the same time.” – Ruschelle Khanna

Connect with Ruschelle!

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/ruschelle-khanna-lifestyle-for-legacy

Website: https://www.lifestyleforlegacy.com/

Ready for your next chapter?

Start Your Assessment Now 👉 https://theexitparadox.com/assessment

Leave a Review + Help Others Achieve a Great Legacy

If you found this episode valuable, leave us a review and share it with someone who wants to expand their business growth.

Your Next is more than a podcast—it’s a community that welcomes individuals from all backgrounds and ages, united by a shared passion for personal growth and achieving excellence.

🎧 Explore our previous episodes or learn more about our mission at https://exittoexcellence.com. Your next chapter starts here!

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  continue reading

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