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Reparent Yourself: Befriending Your Inner Critic to Achieve Gentle Parenting & Heal Generational Trauma | Ep. 39
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Parenthood isn’t just about raising kids – it’s about rewriting your relationship with yourself.
In this transformative episode, we explore how gentle parenting starts from within.
If you’ve ever wondered why staying calm with your kids feels impossible some days, the answer lies in your inner critic.
Together, we uncover how your past parenting experiences shape the way you treat yourself – and how that impacts your children.
Through heartfelt stories and actionable steps, this episode dives deep into:
- The secret connection between self-compassion and parenting success.
- Why your inner child resists change – and how to heal it.
- Practical tools to reframe self-criticism into growth.
By the end, you’ll understand why parenting isn’t just about doing more – it’s about healing yourself to create the family culture you dream of.
TimeStamps
00:00 Welcome to Season Two!
01:29 The Power of Gentle Parenting
07:23 Understanding Self-Criticism
12:51 Breaking the Cycle of Self-Criticism
34:18 Practical Steps for Self-Compassion
47:36 Final Thoughts and Weekly Challenge
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Full Transcript HERE
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Want to take our relationship to the next level?
👉Here are my top Resources
📩 Get in touch with me
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www.markellakaplani.com
e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com
🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review!
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Reparent Yourself: Befriending Your Inner Critic to Achieve Gentle Parenting & Heal Generational Trauma | Ep. 39
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Parenthood isn’t just about raising kids – it’s about rewriting your relationship with yourself.
In this transformative episode, we explore how gentle parenting starts from within.
If you’ve ever wondered why staying calm with your kids feels impossible some days, the answer lies in your inner critic.
Together, we uncover how your past parenting experiences shape the way you treat yourself – and how that impacts your children.
Through heartfelt stories and actionable steps, this episode dives deep into:
- The secret connection between self-compassion and parenting success.
- Why your inner child resists change – and how to heal it.
- Practical tools to reframe self-criticism into growth.
By the end, you’ll understand why parenting isn’t just about doing more – it’s about healing yourself to create the family culture you dream of.
TimeStamps
00:00 Welcome to Season Two!
01:29 The Power of Gentle Parenting
07:23 Understanding Self-Criticism
12:51 Breaking the Cycle of Self-Criticism
34:18 Practical Steps for Self-Compassion
47:36 Final Thoughts and Weekly Challenge
---
Full Transcript HERE
—
Want to take our relationship to the next level?
👉Here are my top Resources
📩 Get in touch with me
instagram.com/markella.kaplani
www.markellakaplani.com
e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com
🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review!
Your support means the world!
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Markella Kaplani, M.A.
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Parenthood & Relationship Coach
48 에피소드
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1 Feeling Lost After Kids? How to Rediscover Yourself in Parenthood | Matrescence | Patrescence | Ep. 47 | [Rediscover You Series 1/3] 31:01
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요You know that moment—you’re cleaning up after your kids, scrolling on your phone, and suddenly it hits you: “Who even am I anymore?” Maybe you used to have hobbies, dreams, and interests. But now, your whole identity seems wrapped up in being a parent. You love your kids, but… where did YOU go? If you’ve ever felt that way, you’re not alone. This parenthood identity crisis is more common than we talk about. And the truth? It’s not your fault. 🎙️ In today’s episode, we’re diving into: What exactly is matrescence and patrescence (aka the massive identity shifts that happen when we become parents) The hidden reasons behind postpartum identity crisis and why so many moms and dads feel like they’ve disappeared How to stop feeling like you’re losing yourself in parenthood The difference between parental guilt and true self-sacrifice—and how to release the shame How to start rediscovering yourself after parenthood in small, guilt-free ways It’s so easy to get stuck in survival mode—especially if you’re a stay-at-home parent feeling unfulfilled or struggling with the transition to parenthood. Maybe you thought you’d naturally “figure it out,” but instead, you’re feeling lost, exhausted, and like you don’t even recognize yourself anymore. But here’s the thing: You are more than “just a parent.” 🌿 So, how do we start reclaiming YOU? ✅ Shift your mindset—Parenthood and identity CAN co-exist. You don’t have to choose between being a great parent and being you . ✅ Rebuild your confidence—Finding purpose outside of parenthood doesn’t mean you love your kids any less. ✅ Let go of the guilt—Overcoming guilt and shame starts with recognizing that self-care isn’t selfish. ✅ Take small, intentional steps—Whether it’s a parental transformation or simply making time for yourself, it’s about reconnection , not reinvention. Parenthood changes you. That’s inevitable. But losing yourself completely? That’s not a requirement. So, if you’re feeling lost as a parent, struggling with balancing parenthood and career, or just wondering if you’ll ever feel like yourself again—this episode is for you. 💌 I’ve also put together a free guided journaling exercise to help you pinpoint what’s missing and start reclaiming YOU today. You can grab it through my newsletter—I’ll share the details at the end of the episode. 🎧 Hit play now, and let’s start the journey back to YOU. #parenthoodidentitycrisis #feelinglostasaparent #rediscovery #matrescence #patrescence –- 🔔 Subscribe for more parenting insights 📩 Join my [FREE] newsletter for extra support - markellakaplani.com/newsletter 👉 Get the [FREE] Calm Parent, Calm Child Guide - markellakaplani.com/calmparentcalmchild 📢 Share this with a parent who needs to hear it! --- Full Transcript HERE . — Want to take our relationship to the next level? 👉Here are my top Resources 👉 Link to my Newsletter 👉 Join the Reconnect with Your Partner Challenge 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 From Crisis to Connection: Andrea Smith on Navigating Parenting & Marriage Challenges | Ep. 46 49:28
49:28 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요49:28
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Parenting can push even the strongest marriages to their limits. In this deeply moving episode, Andrea Smith opens up about navigating parenthood stress while facing family challenges that tested her marriage connection. She shares the raw truth of what happens when one parent carries the emotional load alone—and the powerful shift that helped her and her husband reconnect. If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your partner, trapped in survival mode parenting, or unsure how to support each other through tough times, this episode is for you. Andrea describes her unique journey through matrescence, from being immersed into motherhood fully to then wondering who she is after her children healed and moved from the nest. Andrea’s story is a testament to rebuilding relationships, finding emotional resilience, and breaking free from the patterns that keep couples stuck after parenthood. 💬 Today we uncover: ✅ The silent weight of parental burnout & why sharing the load matters ✅ A game-changing mindset shift that transformed their marriage struggles ✅ Why love alone isn’t enough—and what actually makes a relationship thrive ✅ How to heal from emotional distance in relationships ✅ The unexpected role of playfulness in long-term marriage success If this episode speaks to you, be sure to join my newsletter for deeper insights & a special journaling prompt to help you apply these lessons. Sign up at MarkellaKaplani.com/newsletter 💌 — Andrea Smith is a passionate advocate for mental health and personal growth, blending her experiences as a mother, entrepreneur, and storyteller to inspire others. After an 18-year corporate career in sales, Andrea stepped away to focus on her family's needs, particularly her children's mental health challenges. Now, with her children thriving as young adults, Andrea has channeled her journey into This Way Up , a podcast dedicated to supporting parents and caregivers navigating similar struggles. Andrea is also the co-founder of CarOracle, a woman-owned business revolutionizing the car-buying process with expert guidance and personalized support. With her empathetic approach and commitment to uplifting others, Andrea creates spaces where people can find resources, resilience, and hope. Andrea’s Links: Facebook: @ListentoThisWayUp Instagram: @ListentoThisWayUp You Tube: @ThisWayUpPodcast TikTok: @ThisWayUpPodcastandrea www. caroracle.com — MARKELLA’S LINKS 🔔 Subscribe for more parenting insights 📩 Join my [FREE] newsletter for EXCLUSIVE practical tools - markellakaplani.com/newsletter 👉 Get the [FREE] Calm Parent, Calm Child Guide - markellakaplani.com/calmparentcalmchild 📢 Share this with a parent who needs to hear it! --- Full Transcript HERE . — Want to take our relationship to the next level? 👉Here are my top Resources 👉 Link to my Newsletter 👉 Join the Reconnect with Your Partner Challenge 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 Rethinking Parenthood: Emotional Resilience and Balance in Parenting | Gentle Parenting | Ep 45 32:58
32:58 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요32:58
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요In this episode, we explore the drastic changes in parenting styles over the years. The shift from the tough love approach of past generations to today's hyper-aware and overly-involved parenting has left many feeling emotionally drained and constantly questioning their adequacy as parents. The episode examines how to find a middle ground that allows for both parental and child development without falling into the trap of self-sacrifice or over-correcting to the point of overprotective. By shifting perspectives on guilt and self-care, parents can model a balanced and fulfilling life for their children, fostering resilience and independence without compromising their own well-being. 00:00 Why Modern Parenthood Feels Like Failure 01:31 The Evolution of Parenting Styles 03:39 The Impact of Tough Love on Our Generation 07:42 The Overcorrection: Hyper-Involved Parenting 12:43 Finding Balance in Parenting 16:22 Modeling Healthy Relationships for Our Kids 18:53 Steps to Sustainable Parenting 23:42 The Importance of Self-Care for Parents 31:31 Conclusion: You Are Enough --- Full Transcript HERE . — Want to take our relationship to the next level? 👉Here are my top Resources 👉 Link to my Newsletter 👉 Join the Reconnect with Your Partner Challenge 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 Perfect Parent Syndrome? Attachment Theory on the Dangers of Perfect Parenting vs. Good Enough Parenting | Learn Positive Parenting Tips | Ep. 44 31:17
31:17 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요31:17
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요We all want to do our best as parents, but perfect parenting might not be the gift we think it is. In fact, striving to be a perfect mother or a perfect father can actually create struggles for our kids later in life. This episode dives into why perfect parent syndrome leads to emotional dependence, low frustration tolerance, and unrealistic relationship expectations. So, what is good parenting? Research in attachment theory shows that kids don’t need us to be flawless—they need us to be real. The concept of good enough parenting, first introduced by Donald Winnicott, explains why children benefit more from good enough parenting than from a parent who never makes mistakes. The ability to repair small ruptures in relationships, rather than avoiding them altogether, builds resilience, emotional intelligence, and self-trust. In this episode, I’ll be sharing positive parenting tips to help you shift from trying to figure out how to be a perfect parent to embracing a more balanced approach. You’ll learn why letting go of perfection doesn’t mean lowering your standards but actually making space for connection, growth, and emotional security. I’ll also share a case study about a client, “Michael,” who was raised by a perfect mother. His childhood was full of warmth, attentiveness, and love—but as an adult, he struggled to form meaningful relationships because no one could measure up to that level of emotional perfection. This is why it's so important to rethink how to be a perfect mother or how to be a perfect father and instead embrace good enough parenting. If you’ve ever felt guilty for not getting everything right, this episode will help you reframe your mindset and show you how being “good enough” is actually the best thing you can do for your child. — 🔔 Subscribe for more parenting insights 📩 Join my [FREE] newsletter for extra support 👉 Get the [FREE] Calm Parent, Calm Child Guide 📢 Share this with a parent who needs to hear it! --- Full Transcript HERE . — Want to take our relationship to the next level? 👉Here are my top Resources 👉 Link to my Newsletter 👉 Join the Reconnect with Your Partner Challenge 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 Communication Breakdowns After Baby: Why Couples Stop Talking & How to Fix It | Ep. 43 49:24
49:24 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요49:24
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Feeling distant from your partner after having a baby? You’re not alone. Many couples struggle with communication breakdowns after becoming parents, leaving them feeling disconnected, unheard, and even questioning their relationship. In this episode, we’ll dive into: ✔️ Why couples stop talking after kids (it’s not just sleep deprivation!) ✔️ The hidden reasons behind emotional distance in parenthood ✔️ How to recognize the signs of communication breakdown before it’s too late ✔️ Tested strategies to bring back meaningful conversations and intimacy If your relationship feels like it’s running on autopilot, don’t wait until resentment builds up. Learn how to reset communication, reconnect emotionally, and rebuild your bond as partners—not just co-parents. --- Full Transcript HERE . — Want to take our relationship to the next level? 👉Here are my top Resources 👉 Link to my Newsletter 👉 Join the Reconnect with Your Partner Challenge 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 Overcoming Motherhood Rage: The Matrescence Journey to Healing with Sami Evanson | Ep. 42 56:59
56:59 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요56:59
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Motherhood can be beautiful, but it can also bring unexpected challenges like postpartum rage—a raw and often unspoken aspect of the matrescence journey. In this heartfelt episode, we dive deep into the emotional layers of being an overwhelmed mom and why some moms experience feelings of anger and frustration in the early stages of motherhood. Through Sami's deeply personal story, we explore the intersection of postpartum struggles, motherhood challenges, and the healing power of self-awareness. Together, we uncover how a supportive motherhood community, small pockets of self-care, and honest conversations about emotional burnout can transform rage into growth. ✨ Today, we find out: 🌿 Why postpartum rage isn’t your fault (and how to address it) 🧡 How self-care isn’t selfish but essential for moms 🕊️ The connection between gentle parenting and self-compassion 🌈 The power of repair: How making mistakes can strengthen bonds If you’ve ever felt like an overwhelmed mom on the edge or questioned if your parenting struggles are “normal,” this episode is for you. Discover actionable self-care tips for moms and embark on your own healing journey to find peace amidst the chaos. You’re not alone—tune in and start reclaiming joy in your motherhood experience today. --- Full Episode Transcript HERE --- Sami's Details and Links Sami is a mom of 2 young girls and joyfully shares life with everyone she meets. She's on a mission to help moms have access to resources and tools to make their motherhood journey easier and more fun. She loves being outside and finding ways to enjoy life more with her family. Sami is the master curator of GEMs resource library, bringing the best resources together to help moms find community, support, freedom and fun in motherhood. Website- Www.Goodenoughmatrescence.com IG- @goodenoughmatrescence Free 5 min meditation to find calm during the storm- www.goodenoughmatrescence.com/calm Toolkit of my go tos to break the anger cycle- www.goodenoughmatrescence.com/mama-reset-toolkit --- Want to take our relationship to the next level? 👉Here are my top Resources 👉 Link to my Newsletter 👉 Join the Reconnect with Your Partner Challenge 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 Feeling Anxious After Baby? How to Recognize and Manage Postpartum Anxiety | Ep. 41 33:23
33:23 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요33:23
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Postpartum anxiety affects 1 in 5 mothers, yet many don’t realize what’s happening. You’re not alone, and you’re not failing. Anxiety in new parenthood can feel like an unrelenting fire alarm, keeping you on edge and stealing the joy from those precious first months. This episode unpacks the emotional and physical toll postpartum anxiety takes and how societal pressures can make it worse. But there’s hope! You’ll learn five actionable strategies, from mindfulness practices to reframing anxious thoughts, to help you regain clarity and connection. Today, we’ll uncover: 🌸 What postpartum anxiety really is 🛑 Signs to look for in yourself or a partner 🤲 Ways to seek support without guilt 🧘♀️ Simple tools for grounding yourself Postpartum anxiety doesn’t mean you’re weak or broken. It’s a sign your system needs compassion and care. Listen now and take your first step toward healing—for you and your family. --- Full Transcript HERE . — Want to take our relationship to the next level? 👉Here are my top Resources 👉 Link to my Newsletter 👉 Join the Reconnect with Your Partner Challenge 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 Signs of Drifting Apart in a Relationship: 6-Step Framework to Bridge the Emotional Distance in Parenthood | Ep. 40 32:41
32:41 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요32:41
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Are you worried that your relationship is drifting apart after becoming parents? You’re not alone. Parenthood changes everything, including the way we connect with our partners. In this episode, I dive into the subtle yet powerful signs of emotional distance in relationships, especially for couples navigating the demands of parenthood. Using my 6-step framework, I’ll guide you through how to bridge the emotional gap, rekindle intimacy, and rebuild your connection with simple, intentional actions. We’ll discuss common causes of disconnection, such as the energy drain of parenting, identity shifts in matrescence and patrescence, and unmet expectations that silently grow into resentment. You’ll also learn how to spot early warning signs like reduced communication, a lack of physical affection, and lingering conflicts that never seem to resolve. I’ll share real-life examples and practical tools you can start using today, including journaling prompts to help you reflect on what truly matters in your relationship. Whether you’re dealing with small signs of disconnection or feel like you’re at a breaking point, this episode will give you actionable steps to reignite the closeness you once had. This is perfect for parents who want to strengthen their marriage, create a healthier family dynamic, and ensure their kids grow up in a loving and connected environment. If you’re ready to take the next step, I also introduce my Reconnect with Your Partner Challenge , designed for busy parents who want to reignite their relationship in just seven days. Don’t let emotional distance grow into something bigger—take action today. Subscribe for more content on parenthood, relationships, and creating a life where you can thrive as a couple and a family. Let’s navigate the challenges of parenthood together! --- Full Transcript HERE . — Want to take our relationship to the next level? 👉Here are my top Resources 👉 Link to my Newsletter 👉 Join the Reconnect with Your Partner Challenge 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 Reparent Yourself: Befriending Your Inner Critic to Achieve Gentle Parenting & Heal Generational Trauma | Ep. 39 49:39
49:39 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요49:39
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Parenthood isn’t just about raising kids – it’s about rewriting your relationship with yourself. In this transformative episode, we explore how gentle parenting starts from within. If you’ve ever wondered why staying calm with your kids feels impossible some days, the answer lies in your inner critic. Together, we uncover how your past parenting experiences shape the way you treat yourself – and how that impacts your children. Through heartfelt stories and actionable steps, this episode dives deep into: The secret connection between self-compassion and parenting success. Why your inner child resists change – and how to heal it. Practical tools to reframe self-criticism into growth. By the end, you’ll understand why parenting isn’t just about doing more – it’s about healing yourself to create the family culture you dream of. TimeStamps 00:00 Welcome to Season Two! 01:29 The Power of Gentle Parenting 07:23 Understanding Self-Criticism 12:51 Breaking the Cycle of Self-Criticism 34:18 Practical Steps for Self-Compassion 47:36 Final Thoughts and Weekly Challenge --- Full Transcript HERE — Want to take our relationship to the next level? 👉Here are my top Resources 📩 Get in touch with me instagram.com/markella.kaplani www.markellakaplani.com e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 Motherhood, Boundaries, and Breaking Generational Patterns: Identity, Anxiety, & Letting Go of Control with Gavie Remaly | Coaching Session #4 | Ep. 38 57:08
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요In this coaching session, we explore the complexities of motherhood, identity shifts, and breaking generational patterns with Gavie Remaly, boundaries advocate and host of The Blissfully Bold Podcast . Together, we delve into the struggles working moms face, from navigating anxiety and control to balancing work, family, and self. This episode unpacks the emotional challenges of parenting, including how childhood patterns shape our current roles as parents. Gavie shares her journey of discovering "micro-journaling," a simple yet impactful tool for setting boundaries and finding clarity amidst the chaos of motherhood. Along the way, we uncover the transformative power of self-compassion, letting go of guilt, and creating a safe space for emotional growth. Whether you’re a mom seeking balance or a partner striving to understand and support, this episode offers actionable advice, relatable moments, and profound insights into building deeper connections within your family. Ways to Connect with Gavie Remaly: Podcast: The Blissfully Bold Podcast Instagram: @gavie.remaly DM her to learn more about micro-journaling and boundary-setting. --- Full Transcript HERE . — Want to take our relationship to the next level? 👉Here are my top Resources 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 The 4 Types of Connection & Ways to Rekindle the Romance with Dr. Adam Dorsay | Ep. 37 1:11:14
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요In this insightful episode, we dive into the art of cultivating connection with Dr. Adam Dorsay, licensed psychologist, executive coach, and author of Super Psyched . This conversation is packed with strategies for strengthening relationships, especially for couples navigating the challenges of parenting. Dr. Dorsay shares actionable advice on reconnecting with your partner and the importance of emotional connection in building a thriving relationship. As we explore the shifts that occur in family life, Dr. Dorsay emphasizes how couples can maintain intimacy in marriage and balance the demands of parenthood and relationship. Listeners will gain practical tools for improving family dynamics and creating lasting bonds. Whether you are a parent looking to rekindle romance or simply seeking deeper connections, this episode delivers heartfelt and practical solutions. Dr. Dorsay delves into the significance of relationship advice for parents and the power of small actions in improving family communication. He provides tangible examples of how partners can support each other while also fostering strong bonds with their children. Tune in for extremely effective, yet simple techniques for navigating relationship changes and sustaining strong family bonds. One of the highlights of this discussion is maintaining intimacy after kids. Dr. Dorsay introduces creative approaches to keep passion alive, helping couples reconnect and enjoy a fulfilling relationship. These strategies align beautifully with his insights on enhancing marital satisfaction and ensuring that couples feel united even amidst the chaos of family life. If you’re ready to explore the keys to cultivating connection and living with greater vitality, this episode is for you! Ways to Connect with Dr. Adam Dorsay: Book: Super Psyched Podcast: SuperPsyched Website: DrAdamDorsay.com Email: adam@dradamdorsay.com Don’t miss this powerful conversation on love, connection, and family! --- Full Transcript HERE . — Want to take our relationship to the next level? 👉Here are my top Resources 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 5 Steps to Reset Parental Burnout | Parenting Burnout Symptoms & Treatment | Ep. 36 36:16
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Parenting is one of the most fulfilling roles, but let’s face it—it’s also one of the most exhausting. If you’ve ever felt completely drained or like you’re barely keeping up, you might be experiencing parental burnout. And no, it doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’ve been giving your all without taking time to refill your own cup. In this episode, we’re getting real about parenting burnout—what it looks like, how it sneaks up on us, and what you can do to reset. Whether you’re navigating new parent tiredness, the demands of being a working mom, or even the silent struggles of mom burnout / dad burnout, I’ve got you covered. We’ll explore: ✨ Parental burnout signs in everyday life. ✨ Why things like exhausted mother syndrome or feeling like a tired parent don’t mean you’re weak—it’s a sign to pause. ✨ How to reset parental burnout symptoms create a realistic self-care routine for moms (and dads) to reset and reconnect. I’ll walk you through practical tips for how to recover from parental burnout, including redefining your expectations, building better boundaries, and finding small, doable ways to bring joy back into your day. Parenting doesn’t come with an instruction manual, but burnout happens when we pour from an empty cup for too long. This episode is your permission slip to hit reset—not just for your family, but for YOU. 🎧 Tune in now to learn how to navigate parenting burnout stages, avoid future overwhelm, and start showing up for yourself as much as you do for everyone else. Because you’re not just a parent—you’re a person who deserves care, too. --- Full Transcript HERE . — Want to take our relationship to the next level? 👉Here are my top Resources 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 How to be a Great Parent: Forgive YOUR Parents Using my 5-Step Formula! | Effective Parenting | Ep. 35 43:03
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Do you ever feel like old wounds from your childhood and resentment toward your parents are getting in the way of you being a great parent? Many people struggle with the question of how to forgive your parents because deep inside we all know that it is a stepping stone toward effective parenting. But we are held back by our fear that letting go of the anger and grievances will act as an excuse or a permission slip for more mistreatment. In an attempt to protect us, our inner child refuses to move forward in fear of getting hurt all over again. In this episode we uncover: 🧠 How childhood experiences impact how we parent today ❤️ How forgiveness helps us parent with clarity and intention 🔑 Practical steps to break generational cycles without losing ourselves Whether you’re replaying your parents’ patterns or bending over backward to avoid them, the past can feel like an emotional weight. Forgiveness lightens that load, creating space for joy, connection, and a healthier family dynamic. 🫂 Click play to listen in as we dive into actionable steps, from acknowledging your hurt to deciding what values to keep and what to let go of. Forgiveness isn’t about your parents—it’s about you and the freedom it brings. --- Full Transcript HERE . — Want to take our relationship to the next level? 👉Here are my top Resources 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 Wondering How to Rekindle a Relationship After Children? 3 Stages to “Cure” Lack of Intimacy after Baby | Ep. 34 43:59
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Are you feeling a distance between you and your partner after welcoming your little one? You're not alone. In this week’s episode, we delve into the real struggles of rebuilding intimacy after baby. Parenthood brings immense joy, but it also introduces unexpected relationship changes that can leave you feeling disconnected. Join me as we uncover the journey from exhaustion to connection. We explore why intimacy after children often takes a back seat and how to navigate these parenthood challenges without feeling hurt or misunderstood. Discover practical steps for restoring closeness and reconnecting with your partner amidst sleepless nights and endless responsibilities. Learn how emotional connection and open communication in relationships can reignite the spark you thought was lost. ✨ In this episode, we explore: ❤️ How to understand and adapt to relationship changes after baby 🤗 Small but powerful ways to rebuild emotional connection 🗣️ The importance of open communication in overcoming intimacy issues 🌟 Steps to restore closeness without adding pressure 💞 Embracing a new normal in your relationship journey Don't let the joys of parenthood overshadow the love story that started it all. It's time to rekindle the flame and embrace the journey of overcoming intimacy issues together. This episode is not just a new parents guide; it's a warm, yet realistic conversation about love, understanding, and the courage to rebuild. Your relationship deserves this attention. Let's walk this path together and transform challenges into a deeper emotional connection than ever before. Tune in and take the first step toward a stronger, more intimate relationship today. --- Full Transcript HERE . --- 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
1 Balancing Motherhood and Career: Overcoming Mom Guilt and Finding Purpose | Work Life Balance Mom | Ep. 33 51:27
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Are you struggling to balance motherhood and career aspirations? You’re not alone. In this emotionally charged episode, we sit down with childbirth educator and doula, Hannah Gill, to unpack the deep identity shifts moms face. From grappling with mom guilt to redefining success, Hannah’s story speaks to anyone who has felt torn between being present for their children and pursuing their own passions. Together, we explore: The unspoken pressures moms face as they try to “do it all.” How unresolved childhood dynamics and birth trauma influence our adult decisions. Why compassionate self-reflection is key to overcoming internal conflicts. Hannah also shares her journey from experiencing a traumatic C-section to transforming that pain into a meaningful career helping other women. Her vulnerability will leave you inspired to navigate your own struggles with grace. Today, we find out: 🌟 Why balancing motherhood and career feels so overwhelming 🍼 How birth experiences can shape our identity 💔 What happens when we prioritize everyone but ourselves 💡 Practical ways to reconnect with your true self Whether you’re a mother wrestling with mom guilt, a dad seeking to understand your partner better, or someone navigating your own identity shift, this episode offers a wealth of insights. — Hannah Gill Hannah Gill is a childbirth educator, doula, and passionate advocate for empowering women through informed birth choices. Based in Indiana, she specializes in supporting women pursuing vaginal births after cesareans (VBACs) and helping them reclaim their sense of agency during the birthing process. Through her work, podcast, and educational resources, Hannah inspires women to trust their inner strength and make confident, informed decisions. Website: https://thehannahgill.com Free First 3 Steps to VBAC Guide: https://thehannahgill.com/firststeps VBAC Guide for Doulas: https://thehannahgill.com/newdoulatips Self-study version of my program VBAC Is Your Birth Right: https://thehannahgill.com/course Motherhood Flow Podcast: https://thehannahgill.com/podcast — Learn more about motherhood psychology by listening to Episode 1 on Matrescence and fatherhood psychology by listening to Episode 4 on Patrescence FREE COURSE on MATRESCENCE: https://www.markellakaplani.com/videoseries --- Full Transcript HERE . --- 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
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1 Feeling Left Out as a Dad? 4 Steps to Reconnect for a Happy Marriage after Baby | Fatherhood | Ep. 32 37:35
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Parenthood changes everything, doesn’t it? Suddenly, life revolves around the baby, and for many dads, it can feel like they’ve been pushed into the background. If you’ve ever felt sidelined, like the affection and attention you once shared with your partner has shifted entirely to the kids, this episode is for you. And moms, while this episode speaks directly to dads, it offers insights that benefit you just as much. Many women start to feel as though their husband is jealous of the baby or the kids but the truth lies elsewhere. By understanding what your partner might be feeling, you’ll discover ways to navigate these challenges together with empathy. Moms often feel overwhelmed and under-supported, and this episode will help you see how to bridge the gap, foster empathy, and reconnect as a team—without adding extra pressure to your already full plate. 👉 Today, we uncover: 💔 Why dads often feel invisible after baby 🌀 The resentment cycle that quietly builds in relationships 🛠 Tools to help dads reconnect with their partner and role ❤️ How small shifts create big changes in your connection Parenthood doesn’t have to mean drifting apart. Whether you’re a dad feeling unappreciated or a mom looking to better understand your partner’s perspective, this episode is packed with practical tips to bring you closer. — Mentioned Resources 1. Couples’ Communication Checklist 2. Reconnect With Her CHALLENGE ALSO, learn more about men's psychology in parenthood [ Episode on Patrescence ] as well as moms' psychology [ Episode 1 on Matrescence ] --- Full Transcript HERE . --- 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
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1 Resentment in Marriage: How Parenthood Brings up Old Wounds and Unresolved Issues | Fatherhood | Ep. 31 45:35
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Resentment can be a silent weight in many relationships, and for parents, it often feels intensified. In this episode, we dive into the roots of resentment in marriage , exploring how parenthood can uncover unresolved emotional wounds that surface when life becomes busier and more demanding. Whether it’s unspoken needs going unmet or feeling like one partner is carrying more of the load, resentment can subtly shift how we view each other and impact our closeness. Today we find out why resentment builds, especially after having kids, and how it’s often a signal that something important needs attention. 🧠 More specifically, we take a look at: 💔 How resentment forms when life feels unbalanced 🔍 The surprising role old wounds play in current frustrations ❤️ Practical steps to address resentment and reconnect 💡 Ways to build a partnership that feels fulfilling and balanced This conversation isn’t about blame. It’s about creating a more connected, compassionate partnership and breaking free from resentment’s cycle so you both feel supported. I hope you’ll join me! — Mentioned Resources 1. Google: John and Julie Gottman - Relationship experts who research what makes a healthy relationship. 2. Couples’ Communication Checklist 3. Reconnect With Her CHALLENGE ALSO, Learn more about your psychology in fatherhood [ Episode on Patrescence ] as well as your partner’s [ Episode 1 on Matrescence ] --- Full Transcript HERE . --- 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
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1 Worried About Your Wife's Fatigue? 4 Causes of Mom Burnout & Practical Ways to Support Her | Episode 30 47:47
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Curious about why your partner is so exhausted despite the help you offer? This episode delves into the unseen layers of mom fatigue and provides compassionate strategies to help you support her better whilst acknowledging the tough situation you, too, are in. We’ll explore the emotional and mental loads that weigh heavily on mothers, and how you, as a partner, can make a meaningful difference in her daily life. This episode is packed with insights to help you bridge the gap in understanding, improve communication, and bring renewed connection to your relationship. What You’ll Discover: Why mom fatigue goes beyond physical tiredness and how it impacts your relationship The reasons why you may be triggered and hurt by her exhaustion How societal expectations and “the invisible load” affect her energy levels Practical tips to offer meaningful support without overwhelming or triggering her Ways to reconnect with empathy and strengthen your bond as co-parents How understanding her needs can also bring fulfillment to you Discover small, powerful actions that can make a huge difference in how she feels — and in the strength of your partnership. Listen in for actionable insights and start building a more connected, resilient relationship. --- Reconnect With Her CHALLENGE --- Episode 1 on Matrescence (Apple player) Episode on Patrescence (Apple player) --- Full Transcript HERE . --- 📩 Get in touch with me ( Instagram @markella.kaplani; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
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1 Preparing for Motherhood? Cultivating a Flexible Mindset to Get Ready for a Baby | Embracing Change in a Blended Family | Coaching Session with Lexi | Ep. 29 55:26
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Today's episode is another coaching session, where we discuss how to mentally prepare for motherhood and the arrival of a new family member. Join me as I coach Lexi, a mom-to-be and stepmom of 2, through her journey of embracing a positive mindset and finding balance in a blended family. We discuss essential tips on managing family dynamics, staying flexible, and prioritizing mental health while preparing for a new addition to the family whilst exploring and maintaining how to be a supportive step-parent. Whether you're about to become a new parent or are already navigating the world of step-parenting, this episode is for you! Lexi’s story will resonate with anyone who is balancing different family needs, managing a busy life, and trying to keep a positive mindset along the way. Get ready to take away real-life strategies for keeping a healthy perspective and creating a family culture filled with love, understanding, and flexibility. 💪🧘♀️👶✨ What You’ll Learn in this Episode: 🌈 How to cultivate a flexible and positive mindset 👨👩👧 Tips for managing blended family dynamics 🤔 Ways to address self-sacrifice and set boundaries 📅 Tips for preparing for motherhood 🧠 Mindfulness practices to reduce anxiety 💬 Open communication and family therapy benefits 💡 Realistic expectations when juggling multiple roles -- Lexi's Bio and Links Lexi Kelley Soderberg was burnt out beyond belief when she chose to leave the classroom. She changed her life by switching from classroom teaching to tutoring full-time and now helps other teachers change their lives too. Lexi is on a mission to improve every child's reading ability and empower every adult in the process of helping them. FREE Reading Tracker to set and achieve your reading goals: https://poster.pages.teachertransformers.com/free-guide-1-3232 Interested in seeing if Teacher Transformers is a good fit for you? Book a free call here ( https://link.webbrixx.com/widget/booking/pzTgKr8KyRPr6SYZYT7w ) — Journaling Exercise To reflect on this and find balance in your own life, here is a journaling prompt: In what areas of my life am I feeling stretched thin? What are three small steps that I could take to seek support, create flexibility, or let go of unrealistic expectations? This reflection is designed to help you see where you can introduce some breathing space and allow for a gentler approach to the challenges you're facing. --- Related Resources and Links > FREE Self-Connect Calendar > FREE Guide: Calm Parent Calm Child > (Re)Discover Your Identity in Motherhood [waitlist] > Get in touch with me ( Instagram ; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) > Leave a Podcast Review HERE 😀 > FREE Motherhood Coaching Session: Send an e-mail to info@markellakaplani.com with the subject line “Podcast Guesting” --- Find the full transcript HERE . https://docs.google.com/document/d/11OtZvbKyBPHIUhRK86I7YczpfWJliYaMfAL3A8BtyyE/edit?usp=sharing — 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! 📲 Follow me on Instagram @markella.kaplani for more insights and updates. --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
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The Parenthood and Relationship Podcast | Matrescence | Relationship after baby | Motherhood life
1 The 3 Most Common Communication Issues in Relationships and Marriage after Baby and How to EASILY Fix them | Marriage Problems and Solutions | Episode 28 35:13
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Feeling disconnected in your relationship after having kids? You’re not alone. In this episode, we get real about the communication struggles that many couples face after becoming parents. Parenthood brings new challenges, and it’s common for communication issues to arise, but they don’t have to drive a wedge between you and your partner. We explore the 3 most common communication mistakes couples make after kids, and most importantly, how to fix them. Discover practical ways to reconnect with your partner, establish healthy communication, and create a more harmonious family dynamic. Join me to uncover how parenthood shifts the way we communicate and learn simple, effective strategies to rebuild that bond and strengthen your relationship. Here’s the truth: You and your partner can still have a connected, thriving relationship, even in the chaos of parenthood. My tools will help you enhance your communication and create a stronger, more connected family unit. Today We Find Out: 🧠 3 common communication mistakes that couples make after kids 🔍 How lack of appreciation creates distance in relationships 💡 Practical ways to express your needs clearly 👶 How parenthood affects the way we communicate 💬 How to use “clear and compassionate requests” 🧳 The importance of gratitude and appreciation in maintaining connection 🧘 How to manage stress to avoid damaging conversations This episode will leave you feeling ready to tackle your communication challenges and bring more balance and understanding into your relationship. --- Referenced Links Couple’s Communication Checklist markellakaplani.com/coupleschecklist (Send me a screenshot of your Apple review at info@markellakaplani.com and get it for FREE) Couple’s Communication Workshop markellakaplani.com/CouplesWorkshop Sign up for the waitlist and be the first to know when we go live! — Journaling Exercise As your journaling exercise this week, pick one of the strategies discussed in the episode and put it into practice. Write down in your journal whether you'll be using the daily appreciation ritual or the pausing before you snap, or whether you will be doing the weekly check ins. Each small step helps to build a stronger foundation for your relationship. --- Related Resources and Links > FREE Self-Connect Calendar > FREE Guide: Calm Parent Calm Child > (Re)Discover Your Identity in Motherhood [waitlist] > Get in touch with me ( Instagram ; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) > Leave a Podcast Review HERE 😀 > FREE Motherhood Coaching Session: Send an e-mail to info@markellakaplani.com with the subject line “Podcast Guesting” > Join our community on Facebook: Parenthood and Relationship Group --- Find the full transcript HERE . https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Arefwmg49G5qXmJzzrdzR58MHqvt1zcthjgqeVHds8M/edit?usp=sharing — 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review! Your support means the world! 📲 Follow me on Instagram @markella.kaplani for more insights and updates. --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com…
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The Parenthood and Relationship Podcast | Matrescence | Relationship after baby | Motherhood life
1 Having an Identity Crisis as a Parent? 6 Strategies to Finding Yourself after Motherhood and Fatherhood to Maintain Your Marriage after Children | Matrescence | Patrescence | Episode 27 1:06:27
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Feeling lost in motherhood / fatherhood? You’re not alone. In this episode, we have a warm but honest conversation regarding the struggle to keep a sense of self while being the best parent we can be. Parenthood changes everything, but it doesn’t have to erase who we are. We’ll explore how to navigate the identity shift that comes with becoming a parent and provide 6 powerful insights on how to reclaim your sense of self. Join me so that we discuss the underlying reasons for our loss of identity in motherhood and fatherhood and how, even though you might think it only impacts you as an individual, it CAN erode both your marriage as well as your connection with your children. Here’s the truth: you don’t have to choose between being a good parent and being YOU. My 6 actionable strategies will help you reconnect with your identity and bring more balance and joy into your life. Today We Find Out: 🧠 What it means to lose yourself in parenthood 🔍 How to recognize signs of identity loss 💡 Practical steps to reclaim your sense of self 🧳 Balancing self-care and parenting 💬 How to communicate your needs with your partner This episode will leave you feeling empowered to rediscover yourself while embracing parenthood fully. — Referenced Links Episode 25 - Coaching session with Devan: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gr/podcast/the-parenthood-and-relationship-podcast/id1739098480?i=1000671184664 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5uYoucZEpYQpKCfosPTUzx?si=VF4LbtxDQ6SqDz4pahLK9A Podbean: markellakaplani.podbean.com/e/25 FREE Self-Connect Calendar markellakaplani.com/selfconnectcalendar Couple’s Communication Checklist markellakaplani.com/coupleschecklist (Send me a screenshot of your Apple review at info@markellakaplani.com and get it for FREE) — DOWNLOAD THE FREE MINI VIDEO SERIES ON HOW MOTHERHOOD CHANGES US Find out why and how this happens in key areas of life, including your personality, your relationship, your work, and even your spirituality. Get it here for FREE: https://www.markellakaplani.com/videoseries --- Journaling Exercise Take some time to reflect on these questions to reconnect with yourself: How am I feeling right now? Write honestly about your emotions, both positive and negative. What do I need? Identify your personal needs beyond your role as a parent. What is missing in my life? Explore areas of your life you feel disconnected from or that you want to reintroduce. What part of my old self do I miss the most? Reflect on the hobbies, passions, or personality traits you feel have faded since becoming a parent. This exercise can help you start the journey of rediscovering yourself while embracing your role as a parent. —- Related Resources and Links > FREE Self-Connect Calendar > FREE Guide: Calm Parent Calm Child > (Re)Discover Your Identity in Motherhood [waitlist] > Get in touch with me ( Instagram ; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) > Leave a Podcast Review HERE 😀 > FREE Motherhood Coaching Session: Send an e-mail to info@markellakaplani.com with the subject line “Podcast Guesting” > Join our community on Facebook: Parenthood and Relationship Group --- Find the full transcript HERE . https://docs.google.com/document/d/1oRfx-ftekX7ex7T6Blyo1TkMfoUs87jYUz7N3Irkaio/edit?usp=sharing — 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! 📲 Follow me on Instagram @markella.kaplani for more insights and updates. --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach Matrescence Coach, Facilitator, & Activist www.markellakaplani.com…
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The Parenthood and Relationship Podcast | Matrescence | Relationship after baby | Motherhood life
1 Feeling Unsupported as a Mom? Is it gaslighting or oversensitivity? Real Mom Support vs Expectations | Matrescence 25:46
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Have you ever felt unsupported as a mom? Motherhood is tough, but what makes it even harder is when societal expectations are disguised as support. If you’ve ever asked yourself, "Am I being too sensitive?" or wondered if you’re overreacting to well-meaning advice, you're not alone. In this episode of The Parenthood and Relationship Podcast , we’ll talk about the difference between real support and the subtle pressure that often makes moms feel judged, gaslit, and even burdened by mom guilt. Where do these expectations come from, and how can we start recognizing when advice is more about the other person’s comfort than actual help? More importantly, how do we stop passing down generational expectations and offer moms the kind of support that truly lightens their load? 🎧 In today’s episode, we explore: The emotional toll of societal pressure and how it fuels mom guilt How to offer healing support instead of judgment Why many moms feel unsupported, even by those closest to them The role of past trauma in shaping our expectations of motherhood How to recognize when you’re being gaslit versus being too hard on yourself If you’ve ever struggled with feeling guilty or unsure whether you're receiving true support, this episode is for you. We’ll discuss the small yet powerful shifts that can help both moms and those who care about them offer support in a way that truly makes a difference. --- DOWNLOAD THE FREE MINI VIDEO SERIES ON HOW MOTHERHOOD CHANGES US Get it here for FREE: https://www.markellakaplani.com/videoseries --- Journaling Exercise 1. If you are a mom who feels gaslit or unsupported Think about a recent situation where you felt unsupported, judged, or dismissed. Reflect on how the interaction made you feel. Did you second-guess your emotions or decisions? Ask yourself: Were my feelings invalidated, or was I told I was overreacting? How do I usually respond in moments like these, and what impact does it have on my confidence as a mother? Write down your thoughts and ask yourself: "What do I need in moments like this to feel truly supported?" "Is there a pattern in how I receive feedback or advice from certain people, and how does that impact my sense of self?" "What boundaries can I set to protect my emotional well-being?" 2. If you fear that you may be passing your own trauma as "support" Reflect on a recent time when you gave advice or support to a mom in your life. Was my advice really what she needed, or did it reflect my own unresolved experiences and fears? Was I trying to validate my own choices by encouraging her to follow my path? How can I better tune into her needs and offer support that honors her journey, not mine? Write down your thoughts and explore: "Am I projecting any of my past struggles or unmet needs onto others?" "How can I check in with myself before offering advice to ensure it's about helping her, not validating my own decisions?" "What would true, compassionate support look like from her perspective?" —- Related Resources and Links > FREE Self-Connect Calendar > FREE Guide: Calm Parent Calm Child > (Re)Discover Your Identity in Motherhood [waitlist] > Get in touch with me ( Instagram ; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) > Leave a Podcast Review HERE 😀 > FREE Motherhood Coaching Session: Send an e-mail to info@markellakaplani.com with the subject line “Podcast Guesting” > Join our community on Facebook: Parenthood and Relationship Group --- Find the full transcript HERE . 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! 📲 Follow me on Instagram @markella.kaplani for more insights and updates. --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach Matrescence Coach, Facilitator, & Activist www.markellakaplani.com…
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1 COACHING SESSION #1: Healing from Generational Sacrifice [Motherhood expectations | Working Mom | Mom Burnout] | Episode 25 53:09
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나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요In this heart-opening episode, you’ll witness a live coaching session with Devan, a mother of two young children, who vulnerably shares her struggles around juggling motherhood, work, and personal fulfillment (see her bio below!). As a grief counselor, Devan is no stranger to the emotional landscape of life’s challenges, but in her journey through motherhood, she grapples with feelings of guilt, the pressure to be an “awesome mom,” and the struggle to find balance. Together, we explore Devan’s conflicting identities: the loving mom she wants to be, showing up in every way possible and the business she strives to keep on scaling. Through insightful coaching, we unpack her inner critic, expectations, and fears that most parents will resonate with deeply. Will she find the balance she yearns for, or is there more to the concept of "enough"? Join us on this exploration of self-sacrifice, generational expectations, and redefining success as a parent. In this episode, you’ll gain: 👉 Insight into the emotional struggles of balancing motherhood and career 👉 Practical strategies for managing mom guilt 👉 Real-life examples of handling burnout as a parent 👉 Tools to connect with your children while maintaining your personal identity 👉 An honest look at the internal pressures mothers feel to "do it all" With love, vulnerability, and compassion, this episode is sure to resonate with parents navigating the complexity of modern motherhood. #MomGuilt #ParentingBalance #WorkingMomStruggles #HealingGenerations #MomBurnout #MotherhoodJourney DOWNLOAD THE FREE MINI VIDEO SERIES ON HOW MOTHERHOOD CHANGES US Find out why and how this happens in key areas of life, including your personality, your relationship, your work, and even your spirituality. Get it here for FREE: https://www.markellakaplani.com/videoseries --- Journaling Exercise Take some time to reflect on the emotions that surfaced while listening to this episode. How do you relate to the experiences of balancing motherhood, career, and personal identity? Consider any guilt, expectations, or pressure you feel. What might help you feel more at peace in these areas of your life? How can you balance your identity as a mother or father with your other roles and passions? — More on Devan and her incredible work: Devan, MCP, RCC, is a Registered Clinical Counsellor, owner of DevanCecilia Counselling, and mom of two toddlers. After experiencing 20 deaths before the age of 20, Devan felt called to sit and support others who needed help and connection. With over a decade of clinical experience in grief and loss, end-of-life, caregiving support, and mental health, Devan believes no stories or thoughts are too scary, too much, too big, or too soon to talk about. After working with and supporting others in their grief, Devan felt called to help create a better experience for grievers before life-altering losses. She created The Grief Kit, and Gather Before Goodbye, an online guide to collecting as much as possible about your loved ones before they die. A four-step collection method to memorialize and celebrate a loved one’s life in advance of their death. https://devanceciliacounselling.com/ Facebook and Instagram: @devanceciliacounselling LinkedIn: Devan Christian-Vermeer Podcast guest links: https://www.griefdreams.ca/podcast/98?rq=devan https://www.youtube.com/live/PxVJs4uBcGs?si=WkQzsDGlwBv3jTpF —- Related Resources and Links > FREE Self-Connect Calendar > FREE Guide: Calm Parent Calm Child > (Re)Discover Your Identity in Motherhood [waitlist] > Get in touch with me ( Instagram ; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) > Leave a Podcast Review HERE 😀 > FREE Motherhood Coaching Session: Send an e-mail to info@markellakaplani.com with the subject line “Podcast Guesting” > Join our community on Facebook: Parenthood and Relationship Group --- Find the full transcript HERE . 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! 📲 Follow me on Instagram @markella.kaplani for more insights and updates. --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach Matrescence Coach, Facilitator, & Activist www.markellakaplani.com…
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1 Feeling Loneliness in Motherhood? Here's why! [Gender Roles, Parenthood & Identity] | Episode 24 39:01
39:01 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요39:01
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요In today’s episode, we dive deep into the fascinating topic of the 'othering' of mothers, exploring how motherhood often creates a distinct separation from womanhood and even fatherhood. Inspired by a conversation I recently had with Jennifer Peterkin on her podcast The Human Experience , I question why society separates moms from other women and why similar spaces for dads are rare. Join us as we explore: 🌸 The difference between motherhood and womanhood and how becoming a mom often alters your social identity. 🤔 Why fathers aren't grouped or supported in the same way, and what that says about gender roles. 💡 How loneliness in motherhood may be a result of creating “special” mom groups. 🧠 The emotional impact of being defined by your role as a mom, and the grief many mothers feel for their previous selves. 🎙️ Allyson Felix’s story with Nike, highlighting the societal expectations placed on women post-pregnancy. 👨👩👧 How we can better support both moms and dads, so parenthood enriches rather than confines. If you’ve ever questioned how parenthood shifts societal views on women and men, this episode is for you! Tune in to learn how we can create inclusive spaces for parents that allow them to embrace all aspects of their identity. 💕 DOWNLOAD THE FREE MINI VIDEO SERIES ON HOW MOTHERHOOD CHANGES US Find out why and how this happens in key areas of life, including your personality, your relationship, your work, and even your spirituality. Get it here for FREE: https://www.markellakaplani.com/videoseries *Be sure to check out Jennifer Peterkin’s podcast The Human Experience and follow her on Instagram @thehxpod . --- Journaling Exercise Reflect on Your Identity in Parenthood How has parenthood shaped your identity? Do you feel that your role as a mother/father has changed the way you see yourself, or the way others see you? Do you feel 'othered' or separated from certain aspects of your identity? What parts of yourself, such as hobbies, work, or friendships, feel neglected or overshadowed by parenthood? What does support look like for you? Reflect on whether you feel supported as a parent and what kind of spaces or communities you’d like to see for yourself and your partner. What roles do you see for moms vs. dads in your community? How are fathers acknowledged, or not, in the spaces you navigate as a parent? How are mothers? What steps can you take to reclaim or integrate the parts of yourself that feel distant? How can you balance your identity as a mother or father with your other roles and passions? --- Related Resources and Links > FREE Self-Connect Calendar > FREE Guide: Calm Parent Calm Child > (Re)Discover Your Identity in Motherhood [waitlist] > Get in touch with me ( Instagram ; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) > Leave a Podcast Review HERE 😀 > FREE Motherhood Coaching Session: Send an e-mail to info@markellakaplani.com with the subject line “Podcast Guesting” > Join our community on Facebook: Parenthood and Relationship Group --- Find the full transcript HERE . 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! 📲 Follow me on Instagram @markella.kaplani for more insights and updates. --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach Matrescence Coach, Facilitator, & Activist www.markellakaplani.com…
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1 Healing Generational Trauma: Nervous System Regulation in Parenthood with Holly Logan | Episode 23 1:01:09
1:01:09 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요1:01:09
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요In this heartwarming episode, I welcome special guest Holly Logan, a master’s prepared nurse and family nurse practitioner, to explore the vital topic of nervous system regulation in parenthood. Holly is an advanced practice nurse by education who is currently a stay-at-home mom to three boys. Through her own personal health struggles and transitions into parenting, she grew a passion for family wellness and nervous system health. Our conversation is powerful and insightful as it touches on the importance of managing stress, trauma, and overwhelm as parents, especially when navigating the challenges of parenthood. Holly dives deep into how personal and generational trauma affects our parenting styles, offering practical tips for regulating the nervous system and balancing mental and physical wellness in daily life. Key discussion points include trauma, stress management, mother guilt and shame, recognizing emotional triggers, and how small practices like journaling can help create a more compassionate parenting experience. ⚠️ Content Warning: This episode mentions sensitive topics such as substance abuse, addiction, suicide, and loss. It’s best listened to with earbuds if you’re around children or need a gentler space for these discussions. Be sure to check out Holly Logan’s podcast Lead with Empathy and follow her on Instagram @hollylogan_health. --- Journaling Exercise Sometimes, developing greater self-awareness requires consistent practice and thoughtful reflection. For those of you who may be struggling to recognize patterns in how stress or triggers affect your day-to-day life, I’d like to offer a practical journaling exercise. Take a few days to simply observe yourself. Pay attention to the physical, emotional, and cognitive cues that may lead to feelings of frustration, overwhelm, or emotional withdrawal. You don’t need to immediately associate these moments with deeper triggers—just notice them. What does a typical week look like for you? Write down instances when you may have snapped, felt disconnected, scrolled for longer than you intended, or reacted in a way you weren’t proud of. By observing and documenting these moments, you may begin to uncover patterns that have gone unnoticed due to the routine nature of daily life. This exercise allows you to step back and reflect as an observer, gaining clarity by reviewing your week with fresh eyes. Sometimes, it’s only when we see things on paper that we truly begin to connect the dots. --- Related Resources and Links > FREE Self-Connect Calendar > FREE Guide: Calm Parent Calm Child > (Re)Discover Your Identity in Motherhood [waitlist] > Get in touch with me ( Instagram ; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) > Leave a Podcast Review HERE 😀 > FREE Motherhood Coaching Session: Send an e-mail to info@markellakaplani.com with the subject line “Podcast Guesting” > Join our community on Facebook: Parenthood and Relationship Group --- Find the full transcript HERE . -- 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! 📲 Follow me on Instagram @markella.kaplani for more insights and updates. --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach Matrescence Coach, Facilitator, & Activist www.markellakaplani.com…
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1 Fostering Compassionate Family Culture to Promote Emotional Wellbeing | Cultivating Compassion in Parenthood Series (#5) | Episode 22 22:16
22:16 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요22:16
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Join me in this episode as we discuss how we can establish healthy family dynamics based on sturdy and explicit family values. Learn how to create a positive family environment that nurtures emotional wellbeing and strengthens your parent-child connection. Discover how parenting with compassion can impact your family culture and lead to healthier relationships. What we’ll cover: The benefits of compassionate parenting How to use family rituals to build stronger bonds Effective strategies for managing conflict resolution for kids Understanding the importance of the mother-father relationship in maintaining a supportive family environment Creating the foundations for parenting with compassion So tune in to Episode 22 id you’d like a guide to raising a happy, emotionally healthy family while overcoming the common struggles of modern parenting. --- Journaling Exercise Consider how it is that you want to foster compassion in your family culture. What values it is that you and your partner share and that you want to instill in your children? What kind of ritual or tradition you can start setting up so that you foster openness in communication and in the expression of feelings, trust, compassion, and kindness? --- Related Resources and Links *Love Language Quiz: https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language > FREE Self-Connect Calendar > FREE Guide: Calm Parent Calm Child > (Re)Discover Your Identity in Motherhood [waitlist] > Get in touch with me ( Instagram ; website ; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) > Leave a Podcast Review HERE 😀 > FREE Motherhood Coaching Session: Send an e-mail to info@markellakaplani.com with the subject line “Podcast Guesting” > Join our community on Facebook: Parenthood and Relationship Group --- Find the full transcript HERE . 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! 📲 Follow me on Instagram @markella.kaplani for more insights and updates. --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach Matrescence Coach, Facilitator, & Activist www.markellakaplani.com…
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1 Cultivating Compassion in Children [How to teach a child empathy, kindness and compassion] | Episode 21 16:27
16:27 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요16:27
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Do you ever wonder how to teach your child to be more compassionate and kind? In this episode, we dive into the heart of raising empathetic children by exploring the powerful role modeling plays in their development. We'll talk about how the simple, everyday actions you take can shape your child’s understanding of empathy, kindness, and compassion — without needing to be perfect. Using relatable stories, we’ll look at how even small acts of kindness can have a big impact. Plus, I'll share some easy, practical ways to encourage compassionate behavior in your kids, even when life gets hectic. Here’s a quick peek at what we’ll cover: 🌟 Why modeling compassion is more powerful than simply teaching it 📚 How books about compassion can help your child learn empathy 💬 Simple ways to talk to your child about kindness and feelings 🤝 Tips for handling negative behavior with compassion instead of punishment 🌱 The long-term benefits of raising a compassionate child Whether you're trying to teach your child good manners or wondering how to encourage kindness and empathy, this episode is packed with insights to help you on your parenting journey. Tune in to Episode 21 to discover how you can foster a home environment where compassion thrives! --- Journaling Exercise Reflect on a Recent Moment: Think of a recent time when either you or your child showed kindness or compassion. Write one or two sentences about what happened. How Did It Feel? Jot down a word or two about how that moment made you feel. Set a Simple Intention: Write one small way you can encourage or model compassion in your family this week. --- Related Resources and Links > FREE Self-Connect Calendar | > FREE Guide: Calm Parent Calm Child > (Re)Discover Your Identity in Motherhood [waitlist] > Get in touch with me ( Instagram ; website ; e-mail) > Leave a Podcast Review HERE 😀 > FREE Motherhood Coaching Session: Send an e-mail to info@markellakaplani.com with the subject line “Podcast Guesting” > Join our community on Facebook: Parenthood and Relationship Group --- Find the full transcript HERE . 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! 📲 Follow me on Instagram @markella.kaplani for more insights and updates. --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach Matrescence Coach, Facilitator, & Activist www.markellakaplani.com…
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1 Compassionate Communication for Couples: Building Stronger Relationships after Parenthood [Cultivating Compassion in Parenthood Series #3] | Episode 20 34:18
34:18 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요34:18
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Do you ever feel like parenthood has impacted how you connect with your partner? In this episode, I break down how we can foster compassionate communication in our relationship, even when we’re exhausted and juggling a million things at once. We chat about why it’s so easy to lose sight of our partners when we’re in the thick of parenting, and I’ll share some practical tips on how to keep that connection alive. Using real-life examples we see how small shifts in communication can make a big difference. Here’s a quick rundown of what we’ll cover: 🌟 The impact of self-compassion on your relationship 👂 The art of active listening and why it matters 💬 How to express your needs without blame or judgment 💞 The importance of empathy and understanding your partner’s perspective 🧠 Why regular check-ins can keep your relationship strong 🤝 Tips on navigating tough conversations with kindness and care --- LINKS MENTIONED Episode #1: Matrescence Episode # 4: Patrescence Episode # 9: Communication Skills in Parenting Couples Communication Checklist Get it for FREE by leaving an Apple Podacst review and sending me a screenshot HERE . --- Journaling Exercise Go to your journal and think about one thing that you want to discuss with your partner. Don't pick the most difficult one. Don't pick one that is going to create a lot of tension. Pick something lighter that you think is not resolved that you still think needs a little bit of work. And as a first step, just write it down in your journal. Write down the emotions that you feel and how you would turn the conversation into I statements. Then, you can go and download my communications checklist for couples, review it a little bit, and see how you can incorporate those I statements that you have in your journal into a conversation that you can have with your partner. --- Resources and Links Mentioned > FREE Self-Connect Calendar | > FREE Guide: Calm Parent Calm Child > (Re)Discover Your Identity in Motherhood [waitlist] > Get in touch with me ( Instagram ; website ; e-mail ) > Leave a Podcast Review HERE 😀 > FREE Motherhood Coaching Session: Send an e-mail to info@markellakaplani.com with the subject line “Podcast Guesting” > Join our community on Facebook: Parenthood and Relationship Group --- JOURNALING EXERCISE: Pick one of the suggestions that I made, whether that be the self-connect calendar ( markellakaplani.com/selfconnectcalendar ), whether it be a meditation with a body scan or mindful breathing, whether it's taking a walk, practicing self-forgiveness, etc… take one of these and write how you're going to be implementing it in your journal. --- Find the full transcript HERE . 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! 📲 Follow me on Instagram @markella.kaplani for more insights and updates. --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach Matrescence Coach, Facilitator, & Activist www.markellakaplani.com…
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1 Cultivating Self-Compassion as a Parent: Overcoming Perfectionism and Parental Guilt [Cultivating Compassion in Parenthood Series] | Episode 19 18:24
18:24 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요18:24
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Do you find that though you may be quite good at comforting friends, you are very harsh on yourself and your perceived parental failings? Might you possibly be carrying the belief that if you are hard on yourself for your shortcomings, you are helping yourself improve? If the weight of perfection and high expectations has got you down in parenthood, you are not the only one. Being a perfectionist is one thing. Being a parent and a perfectionist is a whole different ballgame. | Motherhood and fatherhood are calling you to transform; to learn a different path toward self-improvement - one that involves self-compassion at its core. In today’s episode, you will learn practical techniques to cultivate self-compassion, even amidst the challenges of parenthood explore common barriers like perfectionism, parental guilt, and societal expectations — and how to overcome them understand the importance of mindfulness in parenting and how to incorporate simple, parent-friendly self-care practices into your daily routine. Whether you're a new parent or navigating the complexities of raising children, this episode offers valuable insights to help you nurture yourself and those you love. Don't miss out on the tips and tools to create a more compassionate and fulfilling parenting journey. 🔗 Tune in now and share with other parents who might benefit! --- Resources and Links Mentioned > FREE Self-Connect Calendar | > FREE Guide: Calm Parent Calm Child > (Re)Discover Your Identity in Motherhood [waitlist] > Get in touch with me ( Instagram ; website ; e-mail ) > Leave a Podcast Review HERE 😀 > FREE Motherhood Coaching Session: Send an e-mail to info@markellakaplani.com with the subject line “Podcast Guesting” > Join our community on Facebook: Parenthood and Relationship Group --- JOURNALING EXERCISE: Pick one of the suggestions that I made, whether that be the self-connect calendar ( markellakaplani.com/selfconnectcalendar ), whether it be a meditation with a body scan or mindful breathing, whether it's taking a walk, practicing self-forgiveness, etc… take one of these and write how you're going to be implementing it in your journal. --- Find the full transcript HERE . 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! 📲 Follow me on Instagram @markella.kaplani for more insights and updates. --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach Matrescence Coach, Facilitator, & Activist www.markellakaplani.com…
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1 The Power of Compassion in Parenting: Nurture Yourself, Your Partner, and Your Children [Cultivating Compassion in Parenthood Series] | Episode 18 17:04
17:04 나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요17:04
나중에 재생 나중에 재생 리스트 좋아요 좋아요Do you ever find yourself overwhelmed with guilt, feeling like you’re too hard on yourself as a parent or partner? Trust me, you’re not alone. In this first episode of the special August series on Cultivating Compassion in Parenthood, we break down what compassion is, its benefits, and how to take baby steps in developing it more authentically. We’re not just talking about compassion for others, but for yourself, too. Imagine what it would feel like to have that harsh inner critic embrace you, to give yourself a break, and to truly nurture the relationships that mean the most to you. In this episode, I share personal stories, practical tips, and a whole lot of heart about how compassion can soften the edges of those tough parenting days. We’ll explore how being kinder to yourself can ripple out and transform your relationships with your partner and your kids. Parenting isn’t about being perfect—it's about showing up with love, even when things get messy. So grab a cup of coffee or tea, get comfy, and let’s chat about how you can embrace compassion and make your journey a little lighter, a little kinder, and a whole lot more fulfilling. You deserve this! -- Resources and Links Mentioned > FREE Self-Connect Calendar | > FREE Guide: Calm Parent Calm Child > (Re)Discover Your Identity in Motherhood [waitlist] > Get in touch with me ( Instagram ; website ; e-mail ) > Leave a Podcast Review HERE 😀 > FREE Motherhood Coaching Session: Send an e-mail to info@markellakaplani.com with the subject line “Podcast Guesting” > Join our community on Facebook: Parenthood and Relationship Group JOURNALING EXERCISE: Take your journal and write down something that you did today that was a proud parenting moment or something that was compassionate toward yourself or someone else. This will help you start to notice those positive and beautiful things that happen throughout the day. Our brain has the tendency, it's its natural tendency, to focus on the negatives. Through this exercise, we retrain it so that it can start to focus on the positives as well. Find the full transcript HERE . 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review ! Your support means the world! 📲 Follow me on Instagram @markella.kaplani for more insights and updates. --- Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach Matrescence Coach, Facilitator, & Activist www.markellakaplani.com…
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