I'm Not Good Yet, But I'm Getting Better: Actor Melissa Parker Caron on Music, Motherhood and Following Fear

People at the Core

What happens when you finally stop letting fear dictate your choices? In this heartfelt conversation with actress, improv coach, and former rock star Melissa Parker Caron, we explore the transformative power of facing what scares us most.
Melissa shares her winding path from Orlando's vibrant music scene to New York City, where she's raising a Brooklyn-savvy daughter while rekindling creative passions she once thought unattainable. After years working in record stores and playing in bands, Melissa had almost convinced herself that her childhood dream of acting would remain just that—a dream. But a chance encounter with an agent and a recurring sandwich board advertising improv classes became the universe's not-so-subtle nudge toward her true calling.
The conversation flows through rich territory: the housing crisis threatening Brooklyn's sense of community, the surprising diversity of Florida beyond its stereotypes, and the special magic that keeps New Yorkers anchored despite the challenges of urban living. We laugh about the lost pleasures of midnight album releases and liner notes in a streaming world, and reflect on how parenting in the city shapes remarkably independent children.
But the heart of our talk centers on that pivotal moment in midlife when fear begins losing its grip. There's a liberation in no longer caring what others think, in saying no without explanation, and in finally pursuing passions without the self-judgment that characterized earlier decades.
Whether you're contemplating a creative leap, navigating midlife transitions, or simply curious about reframing the negative self-talk that holds you back, Melissa's journey offers a blueprint for turning "I'm bad at this" into "I'm not good yet, but I'm getting better." Because as she reminds us, we don't fear things we don't care about—our fears might just be signposts pointing toward what matters most.

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1. Introducing Melissa Parker Karen (00:00:00)

2. Housing Crisis in Brooklyn (00:04:02)

3. The Unique Magic of New York City (00:12:04)

4. Florida Roots and Musical Beginnings (00:17:41)

5. Record Store Days and Meeting Matt (00:29:06)

6. The Journey to New York City (00:36:40)

7. Confronting Fear and Finding Improv (00:43:04)

8. Anxiety, Creative Flow, and Moving Forward (00:49:18)