It's All Relational
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BLOOPERS!!! At the secret ending lol. And with all that is going on with my mom having a month left to live, I completely forgot if I listened to this episode one time through before I exported. I would love your grace. Thanks so much.
Yvette Erasmus says “Relational wounds must be healed in relation" this means, Relational healing is the idea that because some wounds occur while in relationship with others, those wounds can only be healed through relationships with others. ... It teaches the brain that there is an alternative script for relationships, and a scab can start to form on the emotional wound.
When it comes to the needs that aren't met with my parents or dad, I want that healing and needs to be met by him. And sometimes there are times when we can't get needs met by the people we want to, we may not get to heal that part of us with the person who is in relation to us. There will be a mourning to this. Also is there an opportunity to have this part of me healed in relation with another close friend...? I'm not sure.
In this episode we talk about how there is a reverse in empathy when we are searching to heal in relation with support and the support gets turned around to the other person instead because that person gets triggered or something comes up. And with this happening makes it hard to have needs met for empathy and support. This can happen in families, friendships, or empathy buddies, or at work etc...Navigating this can be hard.
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