The Ultimate Comeback: How to Respond to Insults

Influential Introvert: Communication Coaching for Professionals with Performance Anxiety

We’ve all had those moments where an insult or offhand comment sticks in our head. Hours later, we’re still replaying it, wishing we’d come up with the perfect comeback. But what if the strongest response isn’t a clever line at all?

In this episode, I explore what the Stoics – and even a surprising scene from Gladiator 2 – can teach us about handling insults and keeping our peace of mind. You’ll hear:

• Why chasing the “upper hand” keeps us stuck.
• How Epictetus, a former slave turned philosopher, framed the danger of being ruled by our emotions.
• A personal story about how even a small, everyday slight can get under our skin – and what to do about it.
• Practical tools to stay grounded when you feel like punching someone.

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I’m your host, Sarah Mikutel, a communication and mindset coach. My work is about helping people like you share your voice, strengthen your relationships, and have more fun.
As an American expat living in the U.K., I value curiosity, courage, and joy. A few things I love: wandering European streets in search of the best vegetarian meal, practicing Italian, and helping my clients design lives that feel rich and meaningful.
If you're ready to have conversations that open doors – in your career, your relationships, and your life – let’s talk.

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Do you ever go blank or start rambling when someone puts you on the spot?

I created a free Conversation Cheat Sheet with simple formulas you can use so you can respond with clarity, whether you’re in a meeting or just talking with friends.

Download it at sarahmikutel.com/blanknomore and start feeling more confident in your conversations today.

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1. The Ultimate Comeback (00:00:00)

2. Worrying about one-upping people keeps you stuck (00:01:15)

3. Follow integrity over impulse (00:03:00)

4. Question the story you’re telling yourself (00:05:15)

5. Respond as your highest self (00:07:02)

6. The best revenge (00:08:06)