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26. From Love Bombs and Hoovering to Ghosting and Flying Monkeys; Decoding Divorce and Relationship Jargon

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Have you ever found yourself grappling with terms like "gaslighting," "ghosting," or "trauma bonds," unsure of their meanings or implications?

If so, you're not alone.

In this episode, we delve into the complex world of divorce and relationship terminology and lingo…. A bit like an alternative dictionary.

There is so much of this language that has seeped into everyday conversations but often it leaves us feeling confused as to what the hell it all means. From "breadcrumbing" to "gaslighting," this episode is a bit like having your own translator.

TW: Some of the words and terms are complex and can be re-traumatising. If you are experiencing any of the abuse we talked about in today’s episode, please please please seek support.

These are some UK services for supporting domestic abuse:

https://www.womensaid.org.uk/

https://refuge.org.uk/


Remember, you deserve to live a fulfilling and healthy life, free from toxic relationships and abuse.

Sending you SO much love

Sarah 🌸


THE DIVORCE BOOK CLUB

https://patreon.com/thedivorcebookclub
FREE Guide to the 10 MUST read divorce books after divorce
https://thedivorcebookclub.com/free-resources/
INSTAGRAM
https://www.instagram.com/thedivorcechapter

  continue reading

챕터

1. A whole new language needing an interpreter (00:00:00)

2. Closure to Co-dependency to Limerence (00:05:10)

3. Red flags, Pink flags....it's like a poxy circus (00:08:35)

4. Ghosting, Haunting and being on the bench (00:11:43)

5. Gaslighting and toxic relationships (00:12:57)

6. Pain Shopping.... no Gucci in sight (00:15:55)

7. Blame Shifting into Acronyms (00:18:12)

8. No Contact (and grey or yellow rock if you must) (00:20:01)

9. Love-Bombing to Hoovering (00:21:23)

10. Narcissists and The Cycle of Abuse (00:24:02)

11. Trauma Bonds (00:29:02)

12. Word Salad, Flying Monkeys and Triangulation (00:31:45)

13. Breadcrumbing and never getting the whole loaf.... onto baiting as reactive abuse (00:33:51)

14. Coercive Control (00:35:18)

15. Support from each other and from services (00:37:39)

16. New level, new Devil (00:39:36)

69 에피소드

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Sarah Elizabeth에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Sarah Elizabeth 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.

Send us a text

Have you ever found yourself grappling with terms like "gaslighting," "ghosting," or "trauma bonds," unsure of their meanings or implications?

If so, you're not alone.

In this episode, we delve into the complex world of divorce and relationship terminology and lingo…. A bit like an alternative dictionary.

There is so much of this language that has seeped into everyday conversations but often it leaves us feeling confused as to what the hell it all means. From "breadcrumbing" to "gaslighting," this episode is a bit like having your own translator.

TW: Some of the words and terms are complex and can be re-traumatising. If you are experiencing any of the abuse we talked about in today’s episode, please please please seek support.

These are some UK services for supporting domestic abuse:

https://www.womensaid.org.uk/

https://refuge.org.uk/


Remember, you deserve to live a fulfilling and healthy life, free from toxic relationships and abuse.

Sending you SO much love

Sarah 🌸


THE DIVORCE BOOK CLUB

https://patreon.com/thedivorcebookclub
FREE Guide to the 10 MUST read divorce books after divorce
https://thedivorcebookclub.com/free-resources/
INSTAGRAM
https://www.instagram.com/thedivorcechapter

  continue reading

챕터

1. A whole new language needing an interpreter (00:00:00)

2. Closure to Co-dependency to Limerence (00:05:10)

3. Red flags, Pink flags....it's like a poxy circus (00:08:35)

4. Ghosting, Haunting and being on the bench (00:11:43)

5. Gaslighting and toxic relationships (00:12:57)

6. Pain Shopping.... no Gucci in sight (00:15:55)

7. Blame Shifting into Acronyms (00:18:12)

8. No Contact (and grey or yellow rock if you must) (00:20:01)

9. Love-Bombing to Hoovering (00:21:23)

10. Narcissists and The Cycle of Abuse (00:24:02)

11. Trauma Bonds (00:29:02)

12. Word Salad, Flying Monkeys and Triangulation (00:31:45)

13. Breadcrumbing and never getting the whole loaf.... onto baiting as reactive abuse (00:33:51)

14. Coercive Control (00:35:18)

15. Support from each other and from services (00:37:39)

16. New level, new Devil (00:39:36)

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