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Rule Makers and Rule Breakers with Michele Gelfand

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Traci Ruble에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Traci Ruble 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.

Michele Gelfand is a Professor at Stanford University, and an expert on negotiation and cross-cultural psychology. Her book Rule Makers, Rule Breakers explores how tight and loose cultures wire our world, and in doing so offers unique insights on how we might bridge today’s cultural divides.

Michele and Traci chat about the impact of culture on everything from international negotiation to couple’s arguments over chores… in a wide-ranging and fascinating conversation that might just shift how you see yourself and the people around you.

Episode Timeline
  • [00:09] Intro
  • [0:58] Meet Michele
  • [3:33] “Tight” and “loose” culture as a puzzle
  • [5:25] Michele and Traci share traveling stories and how they illuminate cultural differences (and subcultural similarities)
  • [8:58] What is culture?
  • [10:19] How countries develop a tight or loose culture
  • [12:17] How understanding culture can create empathy
  • [16:27] The polarization at play in the USA’s culture
  • [17:40] Why experiencing threat can lead people to want a tighter culture
  • [19:31] Michele shares the behind-the-scenes of a fascinating study challenging the views of people from Pakistan and the USA have of each other
  • [21:33] Cultural intelligence as a way of connecting more deeply
  • [26:32] How tight and loose cultures responded to the pandemic
  • [29:16] Getting curious about psychology in international negotiating
  • [34:07] Negotiations in couples (the impact of leaning tight or loose)
  • [35:45] Household chores and the surprising thing they reveal about attitudes and culture
  • [40:51] The relationship between rules and social class
  • [44:48] Michele’s life advice (including a touching reflection from her late father-in-law)
  • [47:35] Closing
  • [48:01] Outro
Resources Mentioned

Rule Makers, Rule Breakers (Michele’s book)

Standout Quotes
  • “Cultural intelligence is critical for connection because then you're really open-minded to people's lives and why they evolved the way they did. And it's really hard sometimes not to be judgmental.” (Michele)
  • “In the US, individualism and doing your own thing is so part of the culture. And partly it's something that we've inherited because we have more wealth than other cultures and so in contexts where there's not a lot of wealth, you need to have strong support. You need to kind of help out the family. Like, it's just absolutely necessary.” (Michele)
  • “there's less debt and there's less alcoholism, less obesity in tighter cultures.” (Michele)
  • “loose cultures did far worse during COVID. But loose cultures are really open and creative and tolerant.” (Michele)
Connect:

Find | Sidewalk Talk

At sidewalk-talk.org

On Instagram: @sidewalktalkorg

On Twitter: @sidewalktalkorg

Find | Traci Ruble

At Traciruble.com

On Instagram: @TraciRubleMFT

On Twitter: @TraciRubleMFT

On Facebook: @TraciRubleMFT

Find | Michele Gelfand

At https://www.michelegelfand.com/

On Twitter: @MicheleJGefland

SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST

On Apple Podcasts

On Google Podcasts

On Spotify

On YouTube

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Manage episode 344636073 series 2578980
Traci Ruble에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Traci Ruble 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.

Michele Gelfand is a Professor at Stanford University, and an expert on negotiation and cross-cultural psychology. Her book Rule Makers, Rule Breakers explores how tight and loose cultures wire our world, and in doing so offers unique insights on how we might bridge today’s cultural divides.

Michele and Traci chat about the impact of culture on everything from international negotiation to couple’s arguments over chores… in a wide-ranging and fascinating conversation that might just shift how you see yourself and the people around you.

Episode Timeline
  • [00:09] Intro
  • [0:58] Meet Michele
  • [3:33] “Tight” and “loose” culture as a puzzle
  • [5:25] Michele and Traci share traveling stories and how they illuminate cultural differences (and subcultural similarities)
  • [8:58] What is culture?
  • [10:19] How countries develop a tight or loose culture
  • [12:17] How understanding culture can create empathy
  • [16:27] The polarization at play in the USA’s culture
  • [17:40] Why experiencing threat can lead people to want a tighter culture
  • [19:31] Michele shares the behind-the-scenes of a fascinating study challenging the views of people from Pakistan and the USA have of each other
  • [21:33] Cultural intelligence as a way of connecting more deeply
  • [26:32] How tight and loose cultures responded to the pandemic
  • [29:16] Getting curious about psychology in international negotiating
  • [34:07] Negotiations in couples (the impact of leaning tight or loose)
  • [35:45] Household chores and the surprising thing they reveal about attitudes and culture
  • [40:51] The relationship between rules and social class
  • [44:48] Michele’s life advice (including a touching reflection from her late father-in-law)
  • [47:35] Closing
  • [48:01] Outro
Resources Mentioned

Rule Makers, Rule Breakers (Michele’s book)

Standout Quotes
  • “Cultural intelligence is critical for connection because then you're really open-minded to people's lives and why they evolved the way they did. And it's really hard sometimes not to be judgmental.” (Michele)
  • “In the US, individualism and doing your own thing is so part of the culture. And partly it's something that we've inherited because we have more wealth than other cultures and so in contexts where there's not a lot of wealth, you need to have strong support. You need to kind of help out the family. Like, it's just absolutely necessary.” (Michele)
  • “there's less debt and there's less alcoholism, less obesity in tighter cultures.” (Michele)
  • “loose cultures did far worse during COVID. But loose cultures are really open and creative and tolerant.” (Michele)
Connect:

Find | Sidewalk Talk

At sidewalk-talk.org

On Instagram: @sidewalktalkorg

On Twitter: @sidewalktalkorg

Find | Traci Ruble

At Traciruble.com

On Instagram: @TraciRubleMFT

On Twitter: @TraciRubleMFT

On Facebook: @TraciRubleMFT

Find | Michele Gelfand

At https://www.michelegelfand.com/

On Twitter: @MicheleJGefland

SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST

On Apple Podcasts

On Google Podcasts

On Spotify

On YouTube

  continue reading

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