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34. I Dated A Narcissist For 6 Years

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Kristy Yee & Angie Yu, Kristy Yee, and Angie Yu에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Kristy Yee & Angie Yu, Kristy Yee, and Angie Yu 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.

What is it like to date a narcissist? What happens when you get triggered by other people’s breakup? Living with depression and bipolar, we sometimes wonder if we are the “bad” person in a relationship. So when a narcissist who seems like the “perfect” person comes along and gaslights you, you might end up believing them. Angie shares how she felt during her 6-year relationship with a narcissist and how she was triggered by a famous YouTube couple that recently broke up.

Takeaway:

  • Narcissistic people will always portray themselves as "perfect" so other ppl will be on their side
  • Always go with your gut feelings; they're there to protect you
  • You can never fully judge the quality of someone else's relationship just by looking from the outside
  • Love bombing: when you're being showered with love and affection only to have the person stop so they can manipulate you with their "love".
  • Trauma bonding: bonding over shared trauma without seeking other perspectives can be harmful
  • Narcissists use tactics to control you and their own image
  • It's better to offer a friend perspectives rather than always agreeing with them
  • Overanalyzing a situation can cause you more pain

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Kristy Yee & Angie Yu, Kristy Yee, and Angie Yu에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Kristy Yee & Angie Yu, Kristy Yee, and Angie Yu 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.

What is it like to date a narcissist? What happens when you get triggered by other people’s breakup? Living with depression and bipolar, we sometimes wonder if we are the “bad” person in a relationship. So when a narcissist who seems like the “perfect” person comes along and gaslights you, you might end up believing them. Angie shares how she felt during her 6-year relationship with a narcissist and how she was triggered by a famous YouTube couple that recently broke up.

Takeaway:

  • Narcissistic people will always portray themselves as "perfect" so other ppl will be on their side
  • Always go with your gut feelings; they're there to protect you
  • You can never fully judge the quality of someone else's relationship just by looking from the outside
  • Love bombing: when you're being showered with love and affection only to have the person stop so they can manipulate you with their "love".
  • Trauma bonding: bonding over shared trauma without seeking other perspectives can be harmful
  • Narcissists use tactics to control you and their own image
  • It's better to offer a friend perspectives rather than always agreeing with them
  • Overanalyzing a situation can cause you more pain

Mentions & Resources:

---

The best way to support this show is by listening and sharing with a friend. If you would like to buy us a bubble tea, we would love that too.

----

Tell us what shit YOU haven’t told your mom and be featured on our next episode!
Website: www.shitwedonttellmom.com

Send us an audio message by clicking here!

Instagram @shitwedonttellmom

Email: shitwedonttellmom@gmail.com

Support us with a bubble tea: www.ko-fi.com/swdtm

----

Interested in creating your own podcast?

We use Buzzsprout as our host because they seamlessly link to major podcast platforms and make it really easy to read analytics. They also have an awesome support team. Sign up today and get a $20 Amazon gift card and we get a little something too. Yes this is an affiliate link because we use them too.

Support the show

The best way to support this show is by listening and sharing with a friend. If you would like to buy a coffee or bubble tea, we would love that too.

----

Instagram @shitwedonttellmom

Email: shitwedonttellmom@gmail.com

www.shitwedonttellmom.com

Send us an audio message by clicking here!

----

We use Buzzsprout as our host because they seamlessly link to major podcast platforms and make it really easy to read analytics. They also have an awesome support team. Sign up today and get a $20 Amazon gift card!

We also use Descript as our editing software because editing with text is much easier than with soundwaves. We are not audio geniuses and want to focus our energy on creating content rather than editing. Sign up today and get your first 3 months free!

Yes these are affiliate links because we like them and we use them too.

  continue reading

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