Love vs Lust: What's the Difference?

Love, Life and Lies

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Is your relationship based on Lust or is it Love? Do you know the difference? There are elements of Lust in Love. What is the difference?
Lust is about intense sexual gratification. Love is about an intense feeling of affection. Lust is more about immediacy, whereas Love is more about growth and more complex than Lust.
Lust:

Not interested in the other's personal life
Not interested in long term future
Deep conversations aren't important and/or don't occur
You don't see and/or don't want to see flaws in the other person
Jealous and protective
Obsessive behavior
Hides true self
More Selfish
Doesn't care about others
Isn't interested in being seen as a couple. Only seeks private time.
Nice guy syndrome is a form of lust

Love:

Okay with the process. Doesn't need immediate gratification
Deep, complex conversations are welcomed
Selfless
Based on reality, while Lust is based on fantasy
True partnership
Grows stronger over time. Lust weakens
Comfortable showing vulnerability and accepting the others' faults
Cuddling is okay. Just being with the other person is okay
Sex isn't the overall driving force
Unconditional love exists. Unconditional Lust does not

With Love, a person appreciates and sees the entire painting. Lust is only taking a small piece of the painting.

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