Red Flags in Teen Relationships: Understanding Relationship Violence, Part 2

It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People

Navigating the Storm of Teen Relationships
In this eye-opening episode of 'It's All Your Fault', hosts Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy from the High Conflict Institute dive into the turbulent world of teen dating and relationship violence. Aimed at understanding and influencing the complexities of young people's interactions, this installment sheds light on how personality disorders could affect adolescent relationships, the emergence of digital violence, and strategies for intervention and prevention.

Understanding Teen Dating Violence
Bill and Megan explore the significance of personality development in adolescents and its potential impact on dating violence. Discussions revolve around impulse control and interpersonal functioning, with a focus on borderline and antisocial personality disorders. The conversation is directed at parents and teens to recognize early signs of high conflict behaviors and the importance of intervention during adolescence. The episode also highlights the effectiveness of dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) and offers resources for those seeking help.

Questions we answer in this episode:

• Do personality disorders matter in teen relationships?
• Can personality traits indicate a proclivity for relationship violence?
• How do peer attitudes influence teen dating violence?
• What role does gender inequality play in teen relationships?
• Why is self-regulation important to address in teens?

Key Takeaways:

• Early personality development impacts adolescent dating behaviors.
• Impulse control and interpersonal dysfunction are key areas in personality disorders.
• Peer attitudes can have a stronger influence on teens than parental behavior.
• Gender inequality beliefs are risk factors for teen dating violence.
• Early intervention can help teens with high conflict behaviors adjust more effectively.

Why This Episode is a Must-Listen
Bill and Megan's discussion is not just insightful—it's critical for understanding the dynamics at play in teen dating violence. This episode provides an essential guide for parents, educators, and teens to recognize and react to high conflict situations. By tuning in, you'll gain the knowledge to identify early warning signs and learn about the resources available to help manage and prevent relationship violence among young people. Don't miss out on this crucial conversation.

Links & Other Notes

• WEBSITES ON TEEN DATING VIOLENCE AND DIALECTICAL BEHAVIOR THERAPY
  • Bloom365
  • Free Dialectical Behavior Therapy courses
  • HopeforBPD
• BOOKS
  • Generations: The Real Differences Between Gen Z, Millennials, Gen X, Boomers, and Silents―and What They Mean for America's Future
  • The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
  • Dating Radar: Why Your Brain Says Yes to "The One" Who Will Make Your Life Hell
• ARTICLES
  • New Research Finds A Connection Between Domestic Violence And These Two Personality Disorders
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• RESEARCH
  • Personality disorders as predictors of intimate partner violence: A meta-analysis
  • Dating Violence
• Our website: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/
• Submit a Question for Bill and Megan
• All of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.
• You can also find these show notes at our site as well.

Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior.

• (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault
• (00:34) - Relationship Violence Part 2: Teen Relationships
• (00:50) - Personality Disorders in Teens
• (03:47) - Hot Reactive Violence vs. Cold Calculating Violence
• (06:17) - Resources
• (07:16) - TDV: Teen Dating Violence
• (12:19) - More Resources
• (14:48) - Digital Violence
• (23:58) - How to Approach Your Teen
• (26:01) - Setting Up Expetations
• (27:03) - TDV in Gen-Z
• (34:24) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: High Conflict at Work

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