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1) The Petulant borderline vs, Hermit borderline. How BPD + PAPD = Petulant and Hermit, but some Hermits can have a second comorbidity, which is BPD + PAPD + OCPD = Hermit.
2) Sharing examples of the Petulant/Hermit as a parent, including a famous man in history whose mother was the Petulant/Hermit borderline.
3) BPD + HPD = Impulsive. The highly sexual borderline who not only love bombs, but sex bombs too. The overshare of their past relationships are confessions that are forewarnings of the unpredictable roller coaster relationship. Extreme highs and extreme lows.
4) BPD + NPD = Queen. The entitled borderline who wants to be mirrored. Or one could see this one as the narcissist who emotionally overreacts (borderline trait) to inconsequentials.
5) BPD + ASPD = Malignant (Witch). What happens when ASPD's excessive need to unleash their wrath on others blends with BPD's excessive need for co-regulation and validation? The most obvious unstable borderline and the greatest threat to your physical safety.
6) Bonus link to the very history comic mentioned in this episode. https://defeatingchildhoodtrauma.com/debunking-the-spin-doctors-with-george-washington/

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Send us a text Educating and empowering both victims and survivors on physical abuse, from what it's like in its covert stage, to how it escalates. The emotional and body sensations that will clue you in on understanding you're being abused and the lasting effects physical abuse has on the victim. How do we heal from physical abuse? Find out here and let's explore this topic together! *Explicit material marked because I couldn't resist addressing the physical abuser and calling them a piece of s***. Otherwise, it's clean. Reading an excerpt from my article on covert abuse. Link here https://defeatingchildhoodtrauma.com/covert-abuse-7-types-you-need-to-know/ https://linktr.ee/defeating_childhood_trauma…

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Send us a text Kicking off this brand new series talking about covert abuse, how each escalates, and the lasting effects of each one. In this one we are talking about emotional abuse. The emotional abuser is self-absorbed and emotionally immature. From emotional neglect to full contempt, find out the indicators for emotional abuse and how to heal from it. Also reading an excerpt from my article on covert abuse, link here. https://defeatingchildhoodtrauma.com/covert-abuse-7-types-you-need-to-know/ https://linktr.ee/defeating_childhood_trauma…

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Send us a text Because nothing gives us a deeper understanding of...well, everything than when people share their lived experiences I invited my advocate friend, Lady Storm to share her experience of being in a coercive control relationship. Listen as she walks us through each stage that she endured and finally, how she escaped. From victim to survivor to healer. Check out her site. https://linktr.ee/ladystormhealing https://linktr.ee/defeating_childhood_trauma…

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Send us a text 1) Final installment in this ongoing series that begins with reading an excerpt from my article on coercive control. Link to the full article: https://defeatingchildhoodtrauma.com/coercive-control-is-the-reason-they-cant-just-leave/ 2) An excerpt from my interview with a survivor, Taylor as an example of stage 4. Link to full article: https://defeatingchildhoodtrauma.com/escaping-coercive-control-an-interview-with-a-survivor/ 3) Addressing the breakdown in communication between trauma informed psychology and the medical physicians and suggested means of bridging that gap to help victims wake up sooner and escape faster. 4) My father was a victim of coercive control. I share the story of what I grew up witnessing as my father slipped into stage 3 and then stage 4 as a means of hopefully help others. 5) Addressing the adult children of the abuser and enabler parents. Why we tend of have complicated feelings towards the enabler parent and why it's okay. 6) The three must-have tools all victims of coercive control should have after leaving the abuser to assure they won't go back. https://linktr.ee/defeating_childhood_trauma…

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Coercive Control Stage 3: Fear, Shame, and Destroyed Identity 28:26

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Send us a text 1) Reading the next excerpt from my article. https://defeatingchildhoodtrauma.com/coercive-control-is-the-reason-they-cant-just-leave/ 2) Following up with a three-paragraph reading on an interview I published with a survivor of coercive control as a perfect example of stage 3. https://defeatingchildhoodtrauma.com/escaping-coercive-control-an-interview-with-a-survivor/ 3) The five takeaways from coercive control survivor, Taylor's lived experience and what we can learn. 4) Two vocabulary words: confirmation experiences and declarative memories. How they create confirmation bias and how the vivid memories are there to help us survive impossible situations so that we know what we need to do. 5) Activated Attachment System is a fancy word for separation anxiety...on steroids. The term also comes from attachment theory and it's linked with high dopamine. How it's the culprit for why the victim has massive withdrawals from their abuser after they leave them. 6) Induced conversation, the abuser's superpower. Why any conversation with the abuser once the victim has escaped puts them at a high risk of going back to the abuser. 7) No contact and making a list. The two things most strongly recommended for any victim of coercive control as soon as they escape. https://linktr.ee/defeating_childhood_trauma…

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The Science of Coercive Control 32:11

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Send us a text 1) Reading the next excerpt from my article on coercive control, followed by a deep dive on what was read. https://defeatingchildhoodtrauma.com/coercive-control-is-the-reason-they-cant-just-leave/ 2) Call for help, fight or flight, freeze. Introducing the brain's hierarchy in threatening situations and where in the brain the vagus nerve and the autonomic nervous system operate. 3) The body chemicals 101: How drawing or visualizing the letter M will help you understand the close connection between dopamine, cortisol, norepinephrine, endorphins, adrenaline, and then serotonin. And what's bad for dopamine will also be bad for cortisol and its counterbalance, serotonin. 4) The dopamine - norepinephrine - cortisol - serotonin - oxytocin domino effect. How these hormones work when living in abuse and how it's much to the victim's detriment. 5) Oxytocin, the so-called love hormone. Proving how it's really about social memories and that in domestic abuse it leads to both memory loss. 6) The sympathetic nerve when living in coercive control and how it "cripples" this nerve and creates brain fog. https://linktr.ee/defeating_childhood_trauma…

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Send us a text How I survived coercive control stages 1 and 2 and how I broke free. What I learned and how I grew after breaking the trauma bond. This is a special bonus content as we are moving through this series on coercive control. It is my belief that we glean a far deeper understanding from other people's lived experiences. So, I am sharing mine today. Find out why December 15, 2001 is and always will be the happiest day of my life! https://linktr.ee/defeating_childhood_trauma…

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Trauma Attraction and the Chaotic Nervous System 27:07

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Passive Aggressive Personality Disorder: A Daughter's Interview 34:48

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Send us a text 1) Meet Katherine, whose father has PAPD. 2) Reading the 8 criteria for PAPD with Katherine's insights and lived experiences to help us develop a deeper understanding of the criteria. 3) Discussions comparing notes on being raised by cluster B disorders and how passive-aggressive (negativistic) personality disorder acts as a parent compared to the other cluster Bs. 4) "We are not our parents and we are not at fault." Katherine shares the struggle we all feel in search of identity and self-worth as adults who were raised by cluster B disorders. 5) The importance of boundaries so that we can protect ourselves from the confirmation bias we are at risk of experiencing from other toxic people in our adult life. 6) The power of knowledge for our healing journey. Understanding terms and definitions for what happened to us, the name for what we were raised by, and what problems we are facing so that we can build a foundation for healing. 7) An open invitation for YOUR stories to be shared with me and how to contact me. Why your stories are the golden ticket to making positive changes in the world. https://linktr.ee/defeating_childhood_trauma…

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Anti-social Personality Disorder: The 8 Criteria 25:11

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