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Language of Love is a weekly podcast where Dr. Berman shares her compassionate, humorous, and no-nonsense advice: answering listener questions and interviewing thought leaders and experts on relevant topics. Dr. Berman is ready to help you create the fulfilling and passionate love life you deserve, regardless of your relationship status, gender, or sexual orientation. Are you ready to get started?
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They swept you off your feet, showered you with affection, and made you feel like the center of their world—until they didn’t. Now, just when you thought you were done, they’re back, promising that they’ve changed and insisting that this time will be different. But can someone who left you feeling confused and used really transform that quickly? Th…
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Why, in a world full of endless choices, do so many of us search for that one person to share a life with? Is it loyalty, comfort, a desire for deep connection—or maybe the thrill of choosing one person out of billions, saying, “You’re my person,” and truly meaning it? But here’s the real question: can one person meet all your needs? Or maybe you'v…
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Before We Go: Redefining End-of-Life Connections with Dr. Shoshana Ungerleider
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Talking about the end of life isn’t exactly everyone’s favorite topic, but it’s one of the most important conversations we can have. Not only does it give our loved ones clarity and peace, but it also creates a pathway to stay connected—even after they’ve crossed over. Caregivers know this better than anyone; they lean into these talks because they…
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So, what do you do when your sexual energy levels just don’t match up? One partner might be feeling a bit neglected or even a little angry, which can create some serious tension in the relationship. In this episode of The Language of Love Session, I’m bringing you an intimate counseling session with a brave duo, Brian and Stacey. They’re tackling s…
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Did you grow up feeling like sex was a taboo topic to discuss—something mysterious, maybe even a little forbidden? Most of us did, which can make it easy to see sex as a "guilty pleasure" rather than what it really can be—a natural, healthy and beautiful part of life. But here’s where things get interesting: turns out, a satisfying sex life does a …
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Is your inner critic throwing a party, and you’re not invited? We’ve all been there! It’s easy to get caught in a loop of limiting beliefs that keep you from living your best life. But what if I told you that the key to breaking free is simply a mindset shift away? In this Language of Love Conversation, I have an amazing conversation with Craig Sie…
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Do You Just Need to “Relax” or is Something Else Making Sex Hurt?
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That’s one of the questions we explore in this Language of Love Session, as I dive into a letter from a listener, Veera, who’s grappling with some common and tricky troubles with intimacy, body image, and self-worth. Veera’s been feeling discomfort and even bleeding during sex with her new partner. She’s wondering, “Is this just because I’m getting…
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Long-term relationships can feel a bit routine at one point, and a craving for an extra spark often arises in most couples. In this episode of Language of Love Bite, I’m thrilled to take you on a journey into the captivating realm of tantric sex. This practice is all about harmonizing body, mind, and spirit to forge a sacred bond with your partner …
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Losing someone we love is a heartbreak like no other. When I lost my son Sammy, it felt like a piece of me went missing, but that wasn’t the end of our connection. In fact, since he crossed over, I’ve felt his presence in the most unexpected ways. Turns out, love has a way of sticking around—even when we are no longer here in physical form. In this…
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Even when we love our in laws, we all also love our space, right? But what do you do when your mother-in-law starts showing up unannounced like she’s got her own set of keys? In this Language of Love session, I dive into a challenge so many couples face: how to set healthy boundaries with in-laws. Shannon, one of my listeners, writes in to share he…
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Have you ever wondered why something meant to be pleasurable can sometimes feel uncomfortable or even painful? In this Language of Love Bite, I tackle an important issue we don’t discuss nearly enough—pain during sex. This common experience affects up to 75% of women at some point in their lives, but the good news is that you don’t have to just liv…
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Creating and Cultivating True Soul Friendships with Sah D’Simone
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Have you ever met someone and felt an instant connection, like you’ve known them forever? Isn’t it amazing how some people seem to resonate with your very soul? That magical feeling isn’t just coincidence; it’s what we call a “soul friend,” and trust me, it’s more enchanting than you might think! In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation…
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Postpartum sexuality—how often do we actually talk about it? Probably not enough. You’re healing, emotions are high, and intimacy might feel like a distant thought. Meanwhile, your partner might be quietly wondering how to approach it too. So, how do you bring up such a sensitive topic without making it feel like walking on eggshells? And how do yo…
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We’ve all been there—life throws us a curveball, and we’re left dealing with trauma. And as much as we’d love just to hit the "ignore" button, trauma has this sneaky way of creeping into our relationships. In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into the deep end of trauma. We're talking all kinds here—sexual, physical, emotional, rejection, humiliat…
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A lot of people, especially women, still freak out about a few gray hairs or a new wrinkle. So, why not flip the script? In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with the "Midlife Muse," clinical psychologist, speaker, and author Dr. Amanda Hanson, to dive into the tricky subject of aging—especially for women. Society pushes…
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Confessions of the Heart: How to Share Your Past Without Fear
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Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you’re unsure how to come clean with your partner about something from your past? It’s uncomfortable, right? In this episode of The Language of Love Sessions, one of my listeners, Sasha, finds herself in a tough spot—she’s not sure how to come clean to her partner after being less than honest about …
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What it Takes to Build and Maintain Trust in Relationships
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Trust issues are the sneaky villains behind many relationship troubles. Those past betrayals and broken promises make it hard to open up again. But here’s the bright side: rebuilding trust isn’t just about fixing what’s broken; it’s about turning old wounds into a fresh start. In this Language of Love Bite, I give my advice on how to build trust in…
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Are you grappling with the profound weight of grief and wondering if you'll ever find your way through? Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the idea that healing from loss should follow a straightforward path, only to be met with the unpredictable twists and turns of your emotions? In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I’m chatting wi…
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Many parents feel uneasy when it comes to talking to their kids about sex—it’s a tricky subject, and you’re not alone if it makes you uncomfortable. But the question is: when’s the right time to start? Should you bring it up before they hit adolescence or wait until they’re teenagers? In this Language of Love Session, I’m chatting with Linda, a lis…
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We’ve all heard debates about what really excites a woman intimately — whether it’s the clitoris, kisses, nipples, or other sensations. But what if I told you the real secret might surprise you? In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into how to excite the vagina and keep the passion alive in ways you might not expect. I explore some of the best exe…
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One of the few absolute truths for every one of us is that death is inevitable, yet it’s a taboo topic that many of us avoid discussing. But can planning for your own death actually bring peace of mind and even make you live a more fulfilling life? In this eye-opening episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Alua Arthur—a New Y…
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Unpacking the Love Map: How Childhood Experiences Influence Adult Desires
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Ever felt like your past is casting a shadow over your love life? Childhood experiences, including trauma, are intricately woven into the nature and the challenges we face in relationships. In this Language of Love Session, I delve into a heartfelt email from Muhammad, a courageous 21-year-old man from Iran. He’s grappling with his sexual orientati…
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What if we’ve got it all wrong that the best sex is spontaneous? Could planning for intimacy actually light up a new spark in your relationship? With work stress, bills, and endless errands already filling our calendars, isn’t it worth a shot to see if scheduling sex might just be the secret to keeping the flame burning bright? In this Language of …
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I think we can all agree we are in an epidemic of loneliness. Most of us are craving deeper relationships, a genuine sense of belonging, and a community that feels like home. In this episode of "The Language of Love Conversation," I sit down with Radha Agrawal, a nine-figure entrepreneur and community-building expert. Together, we delve into the ar…
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In this Language of Love Session, I’m excited to catch up with Marla and Ken, a couple who turned their love story around and are now absolutely glowing. Having embraced Quantum Love, they’re reaching new heights in intimacy. They both share how the guidance and homework I gave them helped create a nurturing, affectionate space between them, and de…
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The Most Powerful Skill You Can Learn For Your Relationship
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There’s an art to listening to your partner in a way that will change everything in the energy between you. In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into why listening matters so much in relationships. Truly listening—without interrupting or planning your next witty comeback— can work wonders for intimacy and trust. In addition to advice and guidance …
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Shadow Work: How Facing Your Inner Demons Can Set You Free with Kristan Sargeant
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Have you ever felt shocked at how strongly you react to something? Feeling stuck in the same patterns you know don’t serve you? Well it may be your Shadow at work. And understanding your shadows leads to transformation and sets you free. The path to that freedom lies in the parts of yourself you've been ignoring. Joining me in this Language of Love…
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Unmasking Your Inner Child: The Key to Authentic Living
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They say the secret to deeper, more authentic relationships might be hidden in your childhood. What if the love languages you speak today are echoes from a younger version of yourself? In this Language of Love session, I’m reconnecting with Carmen, a caller I advised on the show nearly two years! Time really does fly, doesn’t it? Carmen has been on…
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Let's be real—every couple has their moments. Fights are just part of the deal in relationships. Having healthy disagreements and working through them in a respectful way can actually make your bond stronger. In this Language of Love Bite, I bust the myth that happy couples never fight. I'm all about how fighting can be good—if you do it right. I s…
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Did you know that your self-talk could be the sneaky culprit affecting your relationships more than you think? Maybe you've found yourself stuck in a relationship rut, scratching your head, wondering why things just aren't clicking with your partner. What if the secret to unlocking those mysteries might just lie within you and your partner's attach…
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Ever felt like stress could be the invisible third wheel in your relationship? It's not just you. Stress has this uncanny ability to seep into our lives like an uninvited guest at a party—especially when it comes to relationships. In this Language of Love Session, we catch up with Marla and Ken. Since our last chat they have been on quite a journey…
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Why does it seem like the nice guys finish last? Women say they want one, but they always seem to go for the bad boy in the end. In this Language of Love Bite, I uncover the truth about why women often find themselves captivated by the so-called "jerks," leaving nice guys in the dust and overlooked in favor of these "bad boys." It's not about advoc…
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The saying goes, “A parent is only as happy as their least happy child.” While this may be a bit of a codependent edict, it’s true that when your child is struggling with anxiety, depression or in any other way it takes a deep toll on the family system. And as parents we try everything we can think of to help, but often those efforts don’t create a…
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Unleashing Your Inner Strength: Healing After Narcissistic Abuse
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Have you ever thought about what it's like to live under the same roof with someone who once promised to love and protect you, but now subjects you to a relentless storm of emotional jabs, verbal assaults, gaslighting and manipulation? Welcome back to another Language of Love Session. Today, I'm chatting with Mia, who's on a journey of healing and …
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Are you ever uncertain about your sexual confidence? Whether it's feeling self-conscious with your partner or nerves about your first time, rest assured, you're not alone. No matter your level of experience, I'm here to help you feel more comfortable with your sexuality. In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into a topic that many people shy away f…
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We can add so much to our existence in this modern world by tapping into the ancient traditions that have so much to teach us. When it comes to grief and loss, rituals can provide opportunities for profound healing, connection and community. Cynthia Ruiz, a professor, bestselling author, executive coach, and leadership expert joins us in this Langu…
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It’s time for another Language of Love Session where I get to sit down with one of my listeners and help them with their love life. I love these episodes because each time you ask your questions (and I give the answer), I know we are helping 100s of thousands of other people with the same query! In this episode I’m helping Mary who, like way too ma…
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Losing Sammy: A Very Personal Update on My Grief Journey
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What if the most impossible loss turns out to set you free in ways you couldn’t imagine? What if instead of going through loss you could grow through it? What if you become a more self-actualized, tapped-in and tuned-in empowered version of yourself, because of what you’ve been through (not in spite of it)? What if love really lives forever and you…
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What does it take to achieve true harmony in our relationships? Regardless of your gender or sexual identity or role in your relationships, understanding the balance of masculine and feminine energies is crucial for intimacy, connection and personal power in love. In this Language of Love conversation, I have a heart-to-heart with therapist and aut…
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In this episode of the Language of Love Session, I continue my conversation with Marla and Ken, a couple I've been helping to understand the hurdles they've faced and the strides they've made in enhancing their emotional and physical intimacy. We delve into the details of their physical intimacy and sexual relationship. Ken opens up about his strug…
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In this Language of Love Bite, I'm diving into a topic that seems to be on a lot of men's minds: penis size. I know it's a sensitive subject, but it's important to talk about the concerns and misconceptions that surround it. Let's get one thing straight: the myths about what's considered "average" size are pervasive. I came across a study that real…
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Unleashing the Power of Emotional Parenting with Cassidy Callan
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As parents, we play a critical role of being a safe container for our children's emotions. It's so important for us to understand that our kids need us to be their emotional anchors. And let's be honest, that's not always easy. It means we have to do the hard work of unlearning some of our own past conditioning so we can better co-regulate with our…
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In this Language of Love Session, I have the privilege of reconnecting with Victoria, a courageous soul navigating the turbulent waters of her relationship after her partner's cancer diagnosis. Her story is one of love, resilience, and the quest for balance amidst life's unexpected challenges. Victoria's experience is a reminder of how illness can …
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Do you find yourself in a place where you feel less attractive or irresistible to your partner? You're not alone. It's a common challenge that many people face in their relationships. The good news is that there are strategies and actions you can take to become truly irresistible to your partner. In this Language of Love Bite, I share some golden n…
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Did you know your kitchen is like a special sanctuary where you can nourish your body and soul, and even find a way to cope with loss and grief through cooking? In this Language of Love Conversation, I'm joined by the amazing Jules Davis, also known as the Kitchen Healer, and the author of “The Kitchen Healer: The Journey to Becoming You.” Jules an…
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In this Language of Love Session, I catch up with the amazing couple, Marla and Ken, who have been married for 38 years, to discuss the challenges and triumphs of maintaining intimacy in a long-term relationship. If you have been following Ken and Marla's journey, you're probably eager to hear about their progress. And if you're new to their story,…
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Are you tired of the same old snooze fest in the bedroom? Are you craving a wild, spine-tingling adventure that will leave you breathless and begging for more? Well, my friend, you've come to the right place! In this Language of Love Bite, I'm excited to dive into a topic that's both fun and informative. I'm going to share with you my insights on f…
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The Path to Liberated Love with Mark Groves and Kylie McBeath
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Imagine having a blueprint for love that empowers you to design the kind of love that fulfills you, lifts you up, and sets you free. In this Language of Love Conversation, I’m sitting down with two remarkable guests. Joining me is Mark Groves, a human connection specialist and founder of Create the Love, and Kylie McBeath, a certified health coach …
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Near-Death Experience Insights on Love and Being with Anita Moorjani
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In this episode of Language of Love, I am featuring another session from the Good Grief Day event, and this time we have speaker and author Anita Moorjani. Anita's story is nothing short of miraculous. She was grappling with end-stage cancer, her body riddled with tumors, and she was on the verge of what seemed like an inevitable end. But it was in…
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In this Language of Love Bite, we're going to dive deep into a topic that's both incredibly personal and universally relevant – the five common types of trauma and how they impact our love lives and relationships. As a sex and relationship therapist, I've seen firsthand how trauma can really shake the foundation of our self-worth and trust. We're t…
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