The Hidden Motivation Behind His Requests

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Does your husband want you to wear what he sees as sexy lingerie? Does he want you to shave off your pubic hair? Has he continued to ask for or hint about these things long after you think he should have figured out you don’t want to do them?

Obviously, he wants you to do these things for his viewing pleasure. But there’s another motivation you may not grasp. A woman who does things like this is seen as being proactive about her sexuality.

Many husbands wonder if their wife is actually into sex. Does she really want and enjoy it, or is she just going along? Doing things that make her look more sexual communicates to her husband that she really wants sex.

Initiating sex also does this for a husband. So does learning that she has sexual thoughts about him during the day, or that she masturbated while he was out of town.

If you can find a way to assure him you want and enjoy sex, his desire for the things that would prove this to him should become less intense.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and your man wants to be sexually desired by you!

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