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{REPLAY} What To Do After We Mess Up (Rupture Repair)
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Our kids don’t need us to be perfect. Not only do they not need us to be perfect, it would actually be bad for them if we were.
In fact, research shows parents are in attunement with their children about 30% of the time. 30%! That’s it!
When I teach, I often reassure parents that ⅓ of their interactions with their child are “getting it right.” About ⅓ of the time they are “getting it wrong” (whatever that even means- we all have our own, valid definitions). The rest? The remaining ⅓? Well ideally, the other ⅓ is spent in repair.
Read a summary of this episode and access the full show notes at: RobynGobbel.com/RuptureRepair
Over on my website you can find:
Masterclass and eBook on What Behavior Really Is (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With
The Club will be open for new members July 9 -12, 2024!
To learn more about The Club, head to RobynGobbel.com/TheClub
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I'll be keynoting the Families Rising (formerly NACAC!) VIRTUAL conference this summer!
All the details are here: RobynGobbel.com/FamiliesRising
:::
Overwhelmed and unsure where to start? Check out the START HERE podcast- I put it together just to answer the question "Where do I start?" Get your invitation at RobynGobbel.com/StartHere
:::::
Want to pick Robyn's brain, hang out with her in Zoom meetings and a forum you can access in an app? Come join us in The Club!
Are you a professional who wants to support families of kids with big, baffling behaviors? Then Being With is for you!
Just need a little extra help? Head to RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources
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Manage episode 402459639 series 2971735
Our kids don’t need us to be perfect. Not only do they not need us to be perfect, it would actually be bad for them if we were.
In fact, research shows parents are in attunement with their children about 30% of the time. 30%! That’s it!
When I teach, I often reassure parents that ⅓ of their interactions with their child are “getting it right.” About ⅓ of the time they are “getting it wrong” (whatever that even means- we all have our own, valid definitions). The rest? The remaining ⅓? Well ideally, the other ⅓ is spent in repair.
Read a summary of this episode and access the full show notes at: RobynGobbel.com/RuptureRepair
Over on my website you can find:
Masterclass and eBook on What Behavior Really Is (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With
The Club will be open for new members July 9 -12, 2024!
To learn more about The Club, head to RobynGobbel.com/TheClub
:::
I'll be keynoting the Families Rising (formerly NACAC!) VIRTUAL conference this summer!
All the details are here: RobynGobbel.com/FamiliesRising
:::
Overwhelmed and unsure where to start? Check out the START HERE podcast- I put it together just to answer the question "Where do I start?" Get your invitation at RobynGobbel.com/StartHere
:::::
Want to pick Robyn's brain, hang out with her in Zoom meetings and a forum you can access in an app? Come join us in The Club!
Are you a professional who wants to support families of kids with big, baffling behaviors? Then Being With is for you!
Just need a little extra help? Head to RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources
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