#086 Healing Out Loud: A Naval Academy Mother's Journey Through Loss, Healing, and Mental Health Advocacy

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Warning: Today's episode will discuss very sensitive topics, including death by suicide.
In this powerful episode of the Academy Insider podcast, we tackle a crucial yet often overlooked topic: mental health and suicide awareness within the Naval Academy community.
Our guest, Tonia Lott, courageously shares her personal journey following the loss of her son, Julian, a Naval Academy graduate and submarine officer, to suicide.
Tonia discusses her mission to "heal out loud" and her book, "My Beautiful Black Son Died by Suicide." Her journey offers valuable lessons for parents, friends, and loved ones of Naval Academy midshipmen and service members.
We highlight the extensive mental health resources available at the Naval Academy, including:
- Battalion chaplains
- Midshipman Development Center
- Emergency services
This episode serves as a crucial reminder to check in on the mental well-being of our loved ones, especially those in high-pressure environments like the Naval Academy.
Tonia hopes that by sharing her story it will bring awareness to the importance of asking direct questions about mental health and understanding that success doesn't preclude struggles
Join us for this important conversation as we work to create a more supportive and aware community for our midshipmen and service members.

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1. Healing Out Loud (00:00:00)

2. Mask of Success (00:12:02)

3. Navigating Mental Health and Healing (00:24:52)

4. Healing From Trauma and Forgiveness (00:35:26)

5. Podcast Appreciation and Support (00:44:14)