Why Do Men Like Sex More Than Women?

Taboo 2 Talked About

In this episode, I dive into the intricacies of sexual desire, exploring the often misunderstood dynamics between men and women. One of the key points I touch on is how men frequently grapple with expressing their emotions, which can lead them to seek connection through sex. This isn't just about physical pleasure—it's about the release of oxytocin, a powerful hormone that can create an almost addictive response, particularly for those whose early childhood connections might have been disrupted.

I also break down the differences between spontaneous and responsive desire. Men typically experience more spontaneous arousal, where sexual desire can arise out of the blue. On the other hand, women often need more sensual build-up—a gradual process that involves emotional and physical connection before they feel aroused.

But here's the crux of it: open communication is vital. Being honest about our sexual preferences and embracing emotional vulnerability can deepen intimacy and help us move past the common misconceptions that often cloud our understanding of sexual desire. By having these open and honest conversations, we can build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.

About Janet:
Janet is an Intimacy Coach & Relationship Therapist based in the UK. She helps individuals & couples of any gender identity or sexual orientation achieve deeper levels of relational intimacy.
Janet trains healthcare professionals with her Sex Talk Education curriculum to manage Harmful Sexualised Behaviour. As a former teacher, she believes education is crucial for the development of relationships and personal protection for both adults and children.
Janet's work is influenced by her experiences as an adoptee & being an unexpected partner of a sex & porn addict (compulsive user).
Janet has worked as a Child Counsellor in primary schools, adult counsellor at Alder Hey Hospital (Staff Clients and child bereaved parents) and a School Safeguarding Supervisor.
Janet Simpson MBACP (Accred.), PGCE, BSc. (Hons) Counselling Adults & Couples, Child Counselling (Cert), Psychosexual (Cert)

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