Your Instinct is Your Best Friend: Listen to it

Romancipation

S4 Episode 11: Your Instinct is Your Best Friend: Listen to it

Episode Summary

Mother Nature gifted you with an internal voice which serves only one purpose: to keep you alive. When it comes to romantic relationships, we tend to ignore this warning system, especially if it is in opposition to our wants and needs. By rejecting your own internal boundaries, you place yourself in situations that often create physical and emotional discomfort.
A Romancipated individual understands that our instinct is there to help us with difficult and emotionally trying decisions. Instead of ignoring or rejecting your gut, you need to embrace what your body and mind is telling you about a particular person, relationship or situation.
Trusting your instinct can make you a better partner, help you define your boundaries, advocate for yourself and save you physical pain or emotional hurt. It helps guide you through the ups and downs of a romantic partnership. Your instinct is your ally, do not discount what it has to offer in helping you attain the happiness you desire.
At the end of each episode, Marlee and Lis vent about commonly experienced issues in romantic relationships. In this episode, the ladies discuss when men don’t want to learn how to properly sexually satisfy their female partner.

Show Notes

Are you ignoring what your gut is telling you? In your relationship, you shouldn’t be. Nature has given you this instinct to help you with self-preservation. It’s a natural part of the human experience, and it should be respected. Your gut feeling will let you know when something doesn’t feel right or feel safe.
Never ignore your inner voice. It could always help you in small ways, like saving you from emotional pain or frustration. But it can truly be resourceful in bigger ways—for example, saving your life. Trust yourself and the way your body reacts to certain situations.
Self-preservation is at the core of Romancipation. Your instincts will help you define your boundaries because they signal to you what makes you comfortable or uncomfortable. Your instinct is your protector, as it will let you know if your person has an unhealthy dominance or control over you.
An inner voice will tell you when something in your relationship isn’t right, whether that’s something that jeopardizes your mental, emotional, financial, or physical health. That said, trusting your gut can only help you in functional and non-functional relationships. Pay attention to the cues your gut instincts are screaming at you.
In this episode, the vent session topic is: When men don’t want to learn how to sexually satisfy a woman. It’s selfish to always think of your own pleasure first. It doesn’t respect the woman as an intimate life partner. It makes the man come across as immature and signals a power imbalance in the relationship. It destroys the possibility of intimacy in a relationship.
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