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75. Fear-Based Parenting

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Beth Hillman | Parent Coach for Parents of Struggling Teens에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Beth Hillman | Parent Coach for Parents of Struggling Teens 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.

How can I not rescue, and not enable, and at the same time not leave my kid completely in the dark when they’re struggling?

This is the question we’re going to dive into in today’s episode.

As a parent, it’s SO hard to see your kid struggling and not knowing how to help. I’ve been there, and I know it’s beyond a nightmare.

You’re fearful of doing the wrong thing. Fearful of doing nothing. You’re trying your absolute best but it’s hard to understand the tipping point between what is kind and helpful and what is actually enabling and rescuing.

When we start parenting based on our fears, we fall into reactive parenting, instead of being thoughtful.

Let’s have a look at what this looks like and some actionable examples of situations we’ve found ourselves in and how we handled (or wish we’d handled) them in today’s episode.

In this episode on fear-based parenting, we discuss:

  • Two common ways fear-based parenting can manifest: overprotecting & authoritative;
  • You’re not your child’s friend and shouldn’t behave like one;
  • Power struggles in your family;
  • Owning your own fear and anxiety;
  • Examples from our own experiences;
  • And more.

If you’d like to connect, you can find me on Instagram (@bethhillmancoaching) or go to my website www.bethhillmancoaching.com. And if you’re interested in working with me, you can learn more about my private coaching here or my group coaching here.

And remember parents, the change begins with us.

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Ps. Are you getting great value out of this podcast? It would mean the world to me if you could leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This way, you will help me reach and help more parents of struggling teens develop healthy responses and boundaries instead of acting out of fear and anxiety. You can leave a review by clicking here, scrolling to the bottom, tapping to leave a star rating and then write your review. Thanks so much!

And if you haven’t already done so, make sure to subscribe to our show so you don’t miss any of my future episodes!

Got a question or something to share? You can always send me a message by clicking here. I'd love to hear from you!

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How can I not rescue, and not enable, and at the same time not leave my kid completely in the dark when they’re struggling?

This is the question we’re going to dive into in today’s episode.

As a parent, it’s SO hard to see your kid struggling and not knowing how to help. I’ve been there, and I know it’s beyond a nightmare.

You’re fearful of doing the wrong thing. Fearful of doing nothing. You’re trying your absolute best but it’s hard to understand the tipping point between what is kind and helpful and what is actually enabling and rescuing.

When we start parenting based on our fears, we fall into reactive parenting, instead of being thoughtful.

Let’s have a look at what this looks like and some actionable examples of situations we’ve found ourselves in and how we handled (or wish we’d handled) them in today’s episode.

In this episode on fear-based parenting, we discuss:

  • Two common ways fear-based parenting can manifest: overprotecting & authoritative;
  • You’re not your child’s friend and shouldn’t behave like one;
  • Power struggles in your family;
  • Owning your own fear and anxiety;
  • Examples from our own experiences;
  • And more.

If you’d like to connect, you can find me on Instagram (@bethhillmancoaching) or go to my website www.bethhillmancoaching.com. And if you’re interested in working with me, you can learn more about my private coaching here or my group coaching here.

And remember parents, the change begins with us.

- - - - - - - - - -

Ps. Are you getting great value out of this podcast? It would mean the world to me if you could leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This way, you will help me reach and help more parents of struggling teens develop healthy responses and boundaries instead of acting out of fear and anxiety. You can leave a review by clicking here, scrolling to the bottom, tapping to leave a star rating and then write your review. Thanks so much!

And if you haven’t already done so, make sure to subscribe to our show so you don’t miss any of my future episodes!

Got a question or something to share? You can always send me a message by clicking here. I'd love to hear from you!

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