56 - Strategies for Leaving an Abusive Marriage with Divorce Attorney Theresa Viera

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Leaving any relationship is hard. Leaving one that involves domestic violence can be scary. Combining all of that with divorce - talk about overwhelm. What if I told you that there are actually things you may do that could create further legal difficulties if you do them reactively, rather than strategically? If children are involved especially. In today's episode I am joined by divorce/family law attorney, Theresa Viera, founder of Modern Legal law firm in Charlotte, NC. She walks us through what the courts look for, other forms of domestic violence aside from just physical harm, and what's considered when navigating an exit strategy. She also talks about some protections & support that are available for women and survivors. And I specifically ask her what the legal take is on kidnapping concerns if you were to take your kids and leave when given the chance. Tune in today to educate yourself on what needs to be considered when leaving an abusive marriage - whether it's you who is considering leaving or a friend. We all should be empowered with this information to support one another. Are you a victim of domestic violence? If you are in immediate danger, please call 911. If you are in need of support for domestic violence or sexual assault in the Charlotte NC area, please call the Greater Charlotte Hope Helpline at 980-771-4673. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is 800-799-7233. For more information on the P.E.A.C.E. of Mind Initiative and to access the free resource center, please visit https://peaceofminddivorce.info Jamie Milam is a divorcée, Realtor®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and aligned strategy enthusiast. CONNECT WITH JAMIE: https://JamieMilam.com Instagram | LinkedIn Theresa Viera is Family Law Attorney, Certified Mediator, and Founder of Modern Legal. If you are in need of a legal consultation in NC or SC, please utilize her intake form or visit her website. Connect with Modern Legal on Instagram - - - Episode Moments: 00:43 Planning for Exit: Gathering Evidence and Avoiding Mistakes 06:24 Emergency Situations and Immediate Actions 08:15 Resources for Women Facing Financial Abuse 11:52 Legal Protections and Privacy Concerns 16:07 Dealing with Child Custody and Kidnapping Accusations 24:49 Support Services and Preparing for Court Hearings