Tips for Mastering Mediation in a High-Conflict Divorce with Liz Merrill | Episode 228

Divorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family Law

Navigating a high-conflict divorce can feel like an overwhelming and unrelenting storm, especially when emotions run high and communication breaks down. In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, we revisit our sitdown with Liz Merrill, a seasoned mediator, divorce coach, and someone who has personally navigated the challenges of a high-conflict divorce. Liz offers invaluable insights into how to cope with the complexities of high-conflict divorces and maintain your mental and emotional wellbeing throughout the process.

In this episode, Liz and Amy delve into:

• What is a High-Conflict Divorce?: Liz breaks down the defining characteristics of high-conflict divorces and the scenarios that can arise when you’re dealing with an individual who exhibits high-conflict behaviors.
• Recognizing the Red Flags: Liz shares practical tips on how to identify the signs that you may be dealing with a high-conflict individual—someone who thrives on chaos and emotional escalation.
• Strategies for Maintaining Mental and Emotional Wellbeing: Drawing from her own experiences, Liz offers powerful advice on how to take care of yourself emotionally and psychologically during a high-conflict divorce. From setting realistic expectations to managing your stress, she provides a roadmap for prioritizing your mental health.
• The Role of a Mediator in High-Conflict Divorce: Liz explains how mediators can be a vital ally in these situations, helping both parties reach a fair resolution despite the intense emotions at play.
• Techniques for Diffusing Conflict: Liz discusses an array of techniques aimed at diffusing volatile situations, including how to establish and maintain healthy boundaries, communicate effectively under pressure, and manage conflict without losing your composure.
• Supporting Children Through High-Conflict Divorce: Liz highlights the importance of protecting children from the emotional fallout of a high-conflict divorce. She provides guidance on how parents can shield their kids from conflict and support their emotional needs during the process.

If you're interested in learning more or working with Liz on mediation, divorce coaching, or other divorce-related resources, you can find her at Open Space Mediation.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

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