“Why Some Married Men/Women Pretend To Be Single?”

Bougie Bayou Witches Podcast

Why do some married individuals pretend to be single? Join us as we uncover the unsettling truths behind such behaviors, with Shatara Nicole sharing her firsthand experiences of dealing with an ex-husband’s deceitful excuses. Nicole and Ally weigh in on the influences of upbringing and societal pressures, and we dive into how ego, fear of starting over, and the comfort of familiarity play crucial roles. We'll emphasize the importance of open communication and respecting personal boundaries to navigate these complex marital issues.
Is honesty always the best policy in marriage? Shatara sparks a heated debate on whether men lie out of love to protect their partners, leading us to share our anecdotes from long-term relationships. From the highs and lows of our own marriages to the strains that nearly led to divorce, we stress the necessity of mutual effort, understanding, and being in sync like a well-coordinated band. A special guest joins us to give a fresh perspective, rounding out our conversation with invaluable insights into maintaining love and commitment.
What are the consequences of marital deception, and can love alone heal profound trauma? We explore the intricate connection between generational trauma, unmet emotional needs, and destructive behaviors in relationships. From the risks of infidelity to the severe repercussions of pretending to be single while married, we stress the critical importance of seeking professional help and embracing self-awareness. This episode concludes with a compelling call to prioritize self-care, trust your instincts, and take bold steps toward personal happiness and healing. Tune in for a thoughtful and honest discussion on the journey of love, self-love, and the power of open communication.

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1. Married People Pretending to Be Single (00:00:00)

2. Navigating Communication in Marriage (00:08:54)

3. Navigating Communication in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:13:01)

4. Consequences of Marital Deception (00:26:02)

5. Self-Love and Communication in Relationships (00:33:27)