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37 | The Power Of Prioritizing Friendship And Connection

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Monique R. Shields에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Monique R. Shields 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.

NEW! Click here to text Monique directly with any thoughts, feels or feedback ... seriously, it goes directly to her

As a coach, facilitator, and speaker, I have come to realize that our dreams don't always welcome us with open arms. The journey towards our aligned future can often feel lonely and unwelcoming, especially when we are made to feel isolated.

Join me as I share personal stories and revelations about overcoming isolation and finding support in our journeys. From a significant encounter in 2018 that solidified my commitment to working with women of color, to the transformative power of finding and fostering authentic connections during the pandemic, this episode is a heartfelt testimony to the necessity of community for thriving.

Tune in to discover how prioritizing connection can unlock your potential and lead to greater success in both your personal and professional life.

MENTIONED
I'm opening three exclusive spots for women CEOs ready to redefine their leadership. If you're at a pivotal moment—launching a new fund, leading a team, or stepping into a new role—and feel the weight of what's next, I’m here to support you. Ready to invest in your growth and tackle challenges head-on? Visit www.moniquershields.com and fill out the simple contact form to get started.

GEMS DROPPED
“Success ​requires ​community. Success requires ​belonging. ​Someone ​needs ​to ​be ​​looking ​out ​for ​you, ​holding ​space ​for ​you, ​sending ​up ​prayers ​for ​you, thinking ​of ​you, ​knowing ​what's ​going ​on ​with ​you, ​knowing ​a ​few ​layers ​deep, ​understanding ​the ​dimensions ​of ​your ​life, ​because ​enough ​of ​them ​overlap ​with ​theirs, ​and ​because ​they've ​spent ​the ​time, ​the ​intention ​of ​both ​working ​on ​themselves ​and ​making ​it ​known ​that ​they ​are ​serious ​and ​invested ​in ​your ​success, ​that ​they ​want ​you ​to ​win. ​There's ​no, ​like, ​weird, ​threatening, ​frenemy ​energy ​going ​on, ​right? “

“Your ​primary ​concern ​must ​be ​about ​connection. ​It ​must ​be ​about ​community. ​ ​It ​must ​be ​meeting ​the ​needs.”

“As ​a ​black ​woman, we're ​used ​to ​counting ​on ​ourselves. ​And ​so ​the ​help ​that ​we ​really deep, ​deep, ​deep, ​deep ​down, ​that ​desire, ​the ​vulnerability, ​the ​sadness, ​the ​emotions, ​the ​joy ​that ​we ​wish ​we ​could ​not ​only ​express, ​but ​to ​be ​witnessed ​and ​to ​be ​held ​in ​and ​celebrated ​in ​or ​whatever ​needs ​to ​be ​amplified ​or ​just ​held, ​ ​we ​don't ​know ​how ​to ​do ​that. ​Nobody ​has ​taught ​us ​how ​to ​do ​that. ​ ​And ​so ​it ​is ​the ​medicine ​for ​so ​many ​things. “

“There's ​a ​whole ​different ​experience ​of ​human ​interaction ​in ​the ​world. ​And ​I ​think ​we ​think ​about ​this ​just ​for ​our ​kids. ​We ​are ​greatly ​impacted ​by ​this, ​• ​and ​I ​think ​it ​is ​costing ​us ​dearly. ​And ​I ​think ​for ​those ​of ​us ​who ​have ​layer ​upon ​layer ​of ​subjugated ​and ​or ​marginalized ​identities, ​however ​you ​hold ​that ​language ​in ​your ​mind, ​​it's ​even ​more ​so. So we ​are ​under ​attack, ​like, ​our ​humanity. ​And ​what ​becomes ​possible ​for ​us ​is ​under ​attack ​because ​of ​what ​kinds ​of ​patterns ​and ​practices ​have ​become ​normalized ​in ​our ​societies.”

“When ​belonging ​is ​blocked, ​or ​you're ​not ​getting ​enough ​of ​that, ​it ​has ​far ​reaching ​impacts ​over ​the ​rest ​of ​your ​life. ​It ​has ​everything ​to ​do ​with ​how ​much ​money ​you ​believe ​you ​can ​make ​as ​well. Make ​it ​happen ​like ​you're ​fighting ​for ​your ​life, ​because ​you ​are.”

STAY IN TOUCH
Come and follow me on Instagram @moniquershields and I would love your feedback so send an

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Manage episode 426914063 series 3459665
Monique R. Shields에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Monique R. Shields 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.

NEW! Click here to text Monique directly with any thoughts, feels or feedback ... seriously, it goes directly to her

As a coach, facilitator, and speaker, I have come to realize that our dreams don't always welcome us with open arms. The journey towards our aligned future can often feel lonely and unwelcoming, especially when we are made to feel isolated.

Join me as I share personal stories and revelations about overcoming isolation and finding support in our journeys. From a significant encounter in 2018 that solidified my commitment to working with women of color, to the transformative power of finding and fostering authentic connections during the pandemic, this episode is a heartfelt testimony to the necessity of community for thriving.

Tune in to discover how prioritizing connection can unlock your potential and lead to greater success in both your personal and professional life.

MENTIONED
I'm opening three exclusive spots for women CEOs ready to redefine their leadership. If you're at a pivotal moment—launching a new fund, leading a team, or stepping into a new role—and feel the weight of what's next, I’m here to support you. Ready to invest in your growth and tackle challenges head-on? Visit www.moniquershields.com and fill out the simple contact form to get started.

GEMS DROPPED
“Success ​requires ​community. Success requires ​belonging. ​Someone ​needs ​to ​be ​​looking ​out ​for ​you, ​holding ​space ​for ​you, ​sending ​up ​prayers ​for ​you, thinking ​of ​you, ​knowing ​what's ​going ​on ​with ​you, ​knowing ​a ​few ​layers ​deep, ​understanding ​the ​dimensions ​of ​your ​life, ​because ​enough ​of ​them ​overlap ​with ​theirs, ​and ​because ​they've ​spent ​the ​time, ​the ​intention ​of ​both ​working ​on ​themselves ​and ​making ​it ​known ​that ​they ​are ​serious ​and ​invested ​in ​your ​success, ​that ​they ​want ​you ​to ​win. ​There's ​no, ​like, ​weird, ​threatening, ​frenemy ​energy ​going ​on, ​right? “

“Your ​primary ​concern ​must ​be ​about ​connection. ​It ​must ​be ​about ​community. ​ ​It ​must ​be ​meeting ​the ​needs.”

“As ​a ​black ​woman, we're ​used ​to ​counting ​on ​ourselves. ​And ​so ​the ​help ​that ​we ​really deep, ​deep, ​deep, ​deep ​down, ​that ​desire, ​the ​vulnerability, ​the ​sadness, ​the ​emotions, ​the ​joy ​that ​we ​wish ​we ​could ​not ​only ​express, ​but ​to ​be ​witnessed ​and ​to ​be ​held ​in ​and ​celebrated ​in ​or ​whatever ​needs ​to ​be ​amplified ​or ​just ​held, ​ ​we ​don't ​know ​how ​to ​do ​that. ​Nobody ​has ​taught ​us ​how ​to ​do ​that. ​ ​And ​so ​it ​is ​the ​medicine ​for ​so ​many ​things. “

“There's ​a ​whole ​different ​experience ​of ​human ​interaction ​in ​the ​world. ​And ​I ​think ​we ​think ​about ​this ​just ​for ​our ​kids. ​We ​are ​greatly ​impacted ​by ​this, ​• ​and ​I ​think ​it ​is ​costing ​us ​dearly. ​And ​I ​think ​for ​those ​of ​us ​who ​have ​layer ​upon ​layer ​of ​subjugated ​and ​or ​marginalized ​identities, ​however ​you ​hold ​that ​language ​in ​your ​mind, ​​it's ​even ​more ​so. So we ​are ​under ​attack, ​like, ​our ​humanity. ​And ​what ​becomes ​possible ​for ​us ​is ​under ​attack ​because ​of ​what ​kinds ​of ​patterns ​and ​practices ​have ​become ​normalized ​in ​our ​societies.”

“When ​belonging ​is ​blocked, ​or ​you're ​not ​getting ​enough ​of ​that, ​it ​has ​far ​reaching ​impacts ​over ​the ​rest ​of ​your ​life. ​It ​has ​everything ​to ​do ​with ​how ​much ​money ​you ​believe ​you ​can ​make ​as ​well. Make ​it ​happen ​like ​you're ​fighting ​for ​your ​life, ​because ​you ​are.”

STAY IN TOUCH
Come and follow me on Instagram @moniquershields and I would love your feedback so send an

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