442; beyond yoyo dieting; the real reason diets fail women - fat loss, overeating, shame, self-trust. finding true joy, confidence + freedom (w/ my client Amy Daly)

100% Real With Ruby; nutrition, strength, fat loss, muscle, macros - without the fluff

in this episode, i sit down with amy to unpack the cycle of shame, false deficits, and self-sabotage that most women don’t even know they’re stuck in.we go deep into taboo territory: food secrecy, relationship struggles, even how shame shows up in your sex life. and most importantly, we talk about why maintenance isn’t a pause—it’s the foundation that frees you from the chaos of diet fatigue.food isn’t the problem. diet brain is.the truth on why women relapse need you to break the shame + food spiral. you’re missing joy + real connectionSound bites"Trusting the process is essential for lasting change.""Professional guidance can enhance personal development.""Your emotions are not you; you're experiencing them."inside this episode we break down:• false deficits and why they wreck fat loss• how grief, shame, and secrecy fuel food spirals• why eating more actually made her leaner• how suppressing emotions fuels binge cycles• why maintenance isn’t a pause, it’s the base of lasting resultsquick wins you’ll take away today:• how to spot when you’re in diet brain (and what to do instead)• how to reframe “failures” with food into learnings that move you forward• the exact mindset shift that makes maintenance work long-term• how to tell if you’re in a false deficit (and how to fix it)• why leaning into discomfort is the only way through shamethis episode matters because too many women are punishing themselves instead of building themselves. amy’s story proves that when you shift identity—from diet brain to muscle brain—you don’t just change your body. you change your entire life.Amy Daly, LCSW, is a grief therapist at a hospice in Northern, CADM @amyd1220find me @transformxruby on instagramapply for a free consult:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfqaxMDfbPYPYVui3BgSClnDXTj4BWjRvPkbBHuK5CP7SQsIw/viewform?usp=sf_linkdirect link to dm me on ig: https://ig.me/m/transformxrubyTakeawaysYour relationship with yourself impacts your relationship with food.Emotional healing requires deep self-compassion and acceptance.Finding joy in life can transform your overall well-being.Communication is key in relationships and personal growth.Trusting the process is essential for lasting change.Grief and emotional complexity are part of the healing journey.Expectations can hinder personal growth and fulfillment.Understanding the interconnectedness of life experiences is crucial.Professional guidance can enhance personal development.Embracing the journey of change leads to a more fulfilling life.we discuss 1. the truth about “food addiction”2. why chasing fat loss keeps you stuck3. how strength frees women from diet brain4. what women get wrong about maintenance5. the invisible weight of shame6. why most women aren’t really in a deficit7. the truth about food shame and overeating8. how self-trust makes women leaner9. the maintenance mindset shift10. why patience builds more than muscle