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Porn Sex Is Not Real Sex: Stop Trying To Perform and Start Giving Pleasure
Manage episode 362695931 series 3449381
Porn can be a useful guide to exploring your sexuality, discovering new techniques, and unlocking new desires. But it should never be your rule book. It should not be an instruction manual.
If your main point of reference for your sex life comes from porn there is a chance that you have been duped by the slight of hand that occurs so often with porn content. And if you have been duped by that razzle dazzle, there is also a chance that your partner is left feeling unsatisfied and unimpressed.
I am a proponent of porn, a fan of porn, and also a creator of it. But I am also aware of the illusion constantly being presented to its viewers. Men are the main consumers of porn, and the industry knows it. There is no denying the entertainment factor, and who doesn't love a little fantasy now and then? But when that fantasy becomes your unofficial sex educator you can miss the mark on how to be an attentive partner.
In this episode I discuss the things that I wish we saw more of in porn, and give you a friendly reminder that what you see is not reality. I want to bring to the attention of men, especially, that they are being misguided. So much of adult content misses the mark with not highlighting that women deserve all that amazing pleasure as well.
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Have a topic you would like to talk about? Or a question you may be shy or embarrassed to ask? You can safely ask all of your questions anonymously HERE! I’m always and forever your safe word!
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Manage episode 362695931 series 3449381
Porn can be a useful guide to exploring your sexuality, discovering new techniques, and unlocking new desires. But it should never be your rule book. It should not be an instruction manual.
If your main point of reference for your sex life comes from porn there is a chance that you have been duped by the slight of hand that occurs so often with porn content. And if you have been duped by that razzle dazzle, there is also a chance that your partner is left feeling unsatisfied and unimpressed.
I am a proponent of porn, a fan of porn, and also a creator of it. But I am also aware of the illusion constantly being presented to its viewers. Men are the main consumers of porn, and the industry knows it. There is no denying the entertainment factor, and who doesn't love a little fantasy now and then? But when that fantasy becomes your unofficial sex educator you can miss the mark on how to be an attentive partner.
In this episode I discuss the things that I wish we saw more of in porn, and give you a friendly reminder that what you see is not reality. I want to bring to the attention of men, especially, that they are being misguided. So much of adult content misses the mark with not highlighting that women deserve all that amazing pleasure as well.
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Stay connected with Pretty In Kink and Tera Vee:
Pretty in Kink | Instagram
Pretty in Kink | Facebook
Tera Vee | Instagram
Tera Vee | Website
…….
Have a topic you would like to talk about? Or a question you may be shy or embarrassed to ask? You can safely ask all of your questions anonymously HERE! I’m always and forever your safe word!
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