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Kayla Yoder에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Kayla Yoder 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.
Kayla Yoder에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Kayla Yoder 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.
In this podcast episode, the host welcomes Devin Plowman to discuss the evolving dynamics between men and women, as well as broader issues faced in society today. Devin shares his insights and experiences as a married man with a strong Christian background and five children. The conversation delves into topics such as the biological and societal factors influencing male maturity, the impact of marriage and fatherhood on men's development, workplace dynamics, and the challenges faced by men in today's culture. They discuss the generational shift in values, the decline of traditional rites of passage into manhood, and the effects of societal changes, like the rise of feminism and changing gender roles. Devin emphasizes the importance of strong values, responsibility, and leaving a lasting legacy, particularly through parenting. The discussion highlights how modern conveniences and societal shifts contribute to the lack of maturity in men, the role of women in these dynamics, and the potential long-term consequences for individuals and society. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Background 01:52 The Maturity of Men: Marriage and Fatherhood 03:39 Provider and Protector Instincts 04:53 Challenges in Modern Relationships 20:31 Rites of Passage and Cultural Shifts 30:55 The Importance of Family and Posterity 34:18 The Impact of Retirement on Men's Longevity 38:02 The Benefits of Getting Married Young 43:04 The Role of Values in Marriage 52:53 Challenges and Rewards of Being a Man 58:06 Advice for Young Men 59:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Kayla Yoder에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Kayla Yoder 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.
In this podcast episode, the host welcomes Devin Plowman to discuss the evolving dynamics between men and women, as well as broader issues faced in society today. Devin shares his insights and experiences as a married man with a strong Christian background and five children. The conversation delves into topics such as the biological and societal factors influencing male maturity, the impact of marriage and fatherhood on men's development, workplace dynamics, and the challenges faced by men in today's culture. They discuss the generational shift in values, the decline of traditional rites of passage into manhood, and the effects of societal changes, like the rise of feminism and changing gender roles. Devin emphasizes the importance of strong values, responsibility, and leaving a lasting legacy, particularly through parenting. The discussion highlights how modern conveniences and societal shifts contribute to the lack of maturity in men, the role of women in these dynamics, and the potential long-term consequences for individuals and society. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Background 01:52 The Maturity of Men: Marriage and Fatherhood 03:39 Provider and Protector Instincts 04:53 Challenges in Modern Relationships 20:31 Rites of Passage and Cultural Shifts 30:55 The Importance of Family and Posterity 34:18 The Impact of Retirement on Men's Longevity 38:02 The Benefits of Getting Married Young 43:04 The Role of Values in Marriage 52:53 Challenges and Rewards of Being a Man 58:06 Advice for Young Men 59:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder engages in a profound discussion with Justin Leff, a behavioral awareness coach, about men's mental health. They explore why traditional therapy is less popular among men, whether it effectively addresses men's needs, and how mental health support for men can improve without compromising their identity or masculinity. Justin shares his fresh insights and emphasizes the importance of addressing the stigma around men's mental health and therapy. The conversation pivots on challenging societal norms, the impact of social media, and the importance of goal-oriented support systems for men. This episode aims to inspire listeners to initiate more conversations around men's mental health in their circles. 00:00 Introduction to Men's Mental Health 01:59 Meet Justin Leff: Behavioral Awareness Coach 03:28 Why Fewer Men Seek Therapy 06:10 Masculinity and Therapy: A Complex Relationship 08:33 Gender Differences in Therapy Approaches 25:58 The Role of Social Media in Shaping Masculinity 39:34 Historical Context of Gender Equality 41:14 Theories and Realities of Patriarchy 42:33 Social Media's Impact on Gender Dynamics 43:12 Challenges Facing Young Men Today 44:21 Conservative Shifts and Gender Roles 46:01 Balancing Individual Strength and Social Norms 50:05 Therapy and Mental Health Support for Men 01:02:39 Economic and Cultural Shifts Impacting Men 01:06:10 The Importance of Nuanced Conversations 01:10:35 Personal Reflections and Closing Thoughts Get in touch with Justin: Website: https://www.soliliumcoaching.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/soliliumthoughts/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SoliliumThoughts/ Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' Kayla Yoder is joined by Layne and Cole, hosts of the 'For Reelz' podcast. They discuss the significant influence of movies and media on masculinity and the modern man. The conversation covers topics such as unrealistic body standards set by superhero films, the portrayal of hyper-masculine figures and clueless buffoons, and the lack of relatable role models for young men. They also delve into the impact of political messaging in modern movies and its implications for men today. Layne and Cole offer valuable insights into these issues from their expertise in media and personal experiences as young men. This episode provides a thoughtful and nuanced exploration of how film and TV contribute to shaping men's identities and perceptions. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:30 Discussing Media's Influence on Masculinity 04:40 Unrealistic Body Standards in Hollywood 06:44 Mental Health and Media Portrayals 13:35 The Hero Complex and Real-Life Expectations 17:28 Shifting Masculinity in Modern Media 30:40 Political Messaging in Movies 43:48 Movies vs. Social Media: Blurring the Lines 46:02 The Power of Storytelling: Let Writers Write 48:22 Empowering Women in Cinema: A Double-Edged Sword 52:14 Men's Mental Health: The Silent Struggle 56:02 Hollywood's Role in Shaping Gender Perceptions 01:04:16 Realistic Portrayals: The Key to Impactful Cinema 01:12:30 The Challenges and Joys of Being a Man 01:18:35 The Power of Women: Influence and Inspiration 01:25:11 Final Thoughts and Gratitude Check out the For Reelz podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5YW92VODeKzHssmmbmwjxR?si=e145fa33b9864286 Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla welcomes back guest Devin Plowman to discuss whether the decline of marriage is hitting men harder than women. Devin, a happily married father of five, shares insights on the importance of marriage for men's success and fulfillment, and how traditional roles and modern dating dynamics are influencing commitment. The discussion covers a range of topics, including the influence of dating apps, the changing structure of households, and the various benefits of marriage for men. They also delve into the societal factors that contribute to the declining marriage rates and speculate on the future implications. This episode is packed with interesting statistics, personal anecdotes, and thoughtful insights on the complex dynamics of modern relationships and their impacts on men. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 02:11 The Decline of Marriage: Statistics and Trends 05:22 Impact of Modern Dating on Relationships 11:27 Men's Awareness and Commitment Issues 17:57 Benefits of Marriage for Men 23:32 Challenges and Societal Influences 35:02 The Disney Mindset and Media Influences 35:40 Role Models in Media: From Home Improvement to Bluey 38:47 The Decline of Scouting and Its Impact on Boys 41:28 Rituals and Transitioning Boys to Men 45:37 The Importance of Fathers and Mothers 53:02 Traditional vs. Non-Traditional Family Roles 56:48 The Future of Family Structures 01:01:36 The Benefits of Marriage for Men 01:05:39 Promoting Positive Messages About Marriage 01:06:56 Conclusion: Reflections on Marriage and Family Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the hosts engage in an insightful conversation with multicultural traveler Giancarlo Bessa about how culture and climate influence relationships. Giancarlo shares his extensive experiences living in various countries including Brazil, Mexico, the United States, the UK, Southeast Asia, and the Netherlands. They discuss the challenges of adapting to new cultures, dealing with reverse culture shock, and navigating the complexities of building community and relationships. The episode also explores how factors like weather can impact social dynamics and even masculinity, providing a unique perspective on how location shapes love, connection, and identity. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 01:39 Meet Giancarlo Bessa: A Multicultural Journey 04:28 Language and Cultural Adaptation 07:21 Host's Travel and Living Experiences 14:40 Cultural Differences in Relationships 23:38 Navigating Social Dynamics in Different Cultures 31:27 Planning and Spontaneity: A Cultural Contrast 44:31 Masculine vs. Feminine Cultures: A Theory 48:05 Weather and Cultural Differences 49:54 Abundance and Dating in Mexico City 51:03 Social Dynamics in the Netherlands 54:33 Masculinity and Relationship Polarity 01:01:20 Community and Individualism 01:03:53 Reflections on Moving and Settling Down 01:07:03 Challenges and Rewards of Building Friendships 01:09:08 Polyamory and Subcultures 01:11:43 Comparing Relationship Dynamics Across Cultures 01:18:27 Personal Reflections and Future Plans 01:27:51 Final Thoughts and Closing Questions…
In the first episode of 2025, host Kayla Yoder engages in a thought-provoking discussion with Yichen, a sociologist originally from China. They delve into the topic of reverse sexism, examining how gender dynamics have evolved and how men are now experiencing sexism in today's cultural climate. Yichen shares personal stories illustrating hard and soft sexism and discusses the silent struggles men face with discrimination. The conversation highlights the challenges both genders are confronting and emphasizes the need for mutual respect and collaboration to overcome adversarial relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 01:50 Guest Introduction: Yichen's Background 02:35 Exploring Reverse Sexism 05:11 Hard and Soft Sexism: Definitions and Examples 07:42 Personal Experiences with Hard Sexism 18:02 Personal Experiences with Soft Sexism 20:53 Generational Perspectives on Gender Dynamics 25:20 The Complexity of Gender-Based Discrimination 37:26 Understanding Bias and Discrimination 37:55 Men's Struggles and Societal Reactions 38:39 The Need for Safe Spaces for Men 40:28 Hypocrisy in Advocacy for Inclusion 41:21 Personal Reflections on Gender Roles 44:49 Challenges in Professional Environments 49:20 Biological and Societal Differences 55:58 Cultural Comparisons: US vs. Canada 01:00:43 The Harm of Sexism and Reverse Sexism 01:08:29 Final Thoughts and Reflections Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder reflects on the key takeaways from the past year’s profound conversations. Highlighting the importance of emotional safe spaces for men, she discusses the experiences shared by Franco, David, Ryan, Katie, and Ghasan. The episode delves into men's need for support, the pressures they face, and the vital role women can play. It also touches on societal expectations affecting women's happiness and calls for greater accountability and cooperation between men and women. The episode concludes with a call to build each other up and support each other in the coming year. 00:00 Introduction and Year in Review 01:09 The Importance of Safe Spaces for Men 05:41 Supporting Men Through Struggles 10:27 Women's Happiness and Societal Expectations 14:44 The Relentless Responsibility of Men 20:35 Accountability in Relationships 23:03 Conclusion and Holiday Wishes Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this deep dive conversation, the hosts discuss the pervasive issue of sexual shame and its impact on one's personal and relational life. They explore how cultural, household, and traumatic experiences contribute to deeply held shame, affecting vulnerability and intimacy. The discussion highlights the constraints of social media censorship on sex education, the transformative power of open communication, and the role of hypnosis in overcoming sexual shame. Practical exercises and professional insights are provided for individuals and couples seeking to enhance their sexual wellness and intimacy. 00:00 Introduction and Social Media Challenges 03:12 The Cultural Shame Around Sex 04:24 Exploring Shame in Men and Women 09:21 Understanding Guilt vs. Shame 13:05 Sources of Sexual Shame 21:55 Identifying and Addressing Shame 35:35 Transformative Exercises and Hypnosis 44:31 The Role of Body Image in Sexual Shame 48:53 Conclusion and Upcoming Events Bliss Convention Information: https://blissconvention.com/ Connect with Dr. Nic Natale https://www.nicnatale.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drnicnatale/ https://www.facebook.com/nic.natale Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men', host Kayla Yoder and guest Dr. Nic Natale, an experienced relationship and sex therapist, explore the complex and often misunderstood topic of why men cheat. Dr. Nic discusses the hidden emotional needs and behaviors driving infidelity, drawing from decades of experience and recent research. The episode delves into the five primary drivers of problematic sexual behavior, the importance of emotional regulation and validation, and how societal norms impact relationships. Dr. Nic also provides actionable tools for restoring trust, maintaining relationship polarity, and strengthening connections. Listeners gain insights into the emotional underpinnings of male infidelity and practical approaches to nurture healthy relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:17 Guest Introduction: Dr. Nic Natale 02:12 Defining Cheating in Relationships 02:40 Statistics and Trends in Infidelity 05:03 Personal Definitions and Communication 18:19 Emotional Needs and Cheating 19:12 Five Primary Drivers of Problematic Sexual Behavior 35:47 Rediscovering Relationship Needs 41:22 The Role of Masculinity and Femininity 44:32 Balancing Roles in Relationships 01:01:36 The Impact of Shame and Guilt 01:03:50 The Challenges and Joys of Understanding Each Other Connect with Dr. Nic Natale https://www.nicnatale.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drnicnatale/ https://www.facebook.com/nic.natale Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
Ryan Stewman is a culture creator, greatness extractor, founder, CEO, and investor.As the leader at Apex, he brings unparalleled expertise and passion to the stage. Ryan is a prolific contributor to top publications such as Forbes, Entrepreneur, Addicted2Success, Good Men Project, Lighter Side of Real Estate, and the Huffington Post. With more Salesman of the Month plaques than he can count, Ryan has established himself as a leading authority in sales and business development. He is the founder of Break Free Academy and JoinTheApex.com, platforms dedicated to empowering professionals and entrepreneurs to break through limitations and achieve extraordinary success. Known for his ability to build powerful cultures and extract greatness from individuals and teams, Ryan is committed to helping others unlock their full potential. His insights and strategies have transformed countless businesses and careers, making him a sought-after speaker and mentor. In this episode, Ryan Stewman shares his life mission of helping others become the greatest version of themselves. He delves into his challenging upbringing, transformative journey from prison and street life to building a thriving business empire. Ryan emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility, accountability, and overcoming victim mentality. He discusses societal shifts in raising children, the role of masculine resilience, and the need for transparency and integrity. Ryan also shares insights into his values and parenting strategies, highlighting the significance of being a responsible and engaged father. His story serves as a testament to the power of resilience and self-improvement in achieving success and personal fulfillment. 00:00 Introduction: Mission to Help Others 00:27 Personal Journey: Overcoming Adversity 01:26 Building a Movement: From Streets to Stadiums 05:22 Core Values: Responsibility and Integrity 07:30 Modern Society: Shifts in Responsibility 10:32 Parenting Differences: Raising Boys vs. Girls 15:33 Men's Burden: Stress and Responsibility 28:06 Generational Changes: Toughness and Bullying 38:50 Navigating Tough Conversations with Friends 40:09 The Importance of Honesty in Friendships 42:02 Women and Social Dynamics 44:37 The Role of Empowerment Movements 49:16 Personal Responsibility and Overcoming Adversity 56:13 Advice for Young Men 01:00:50 The Joys and Challenges of Fatherhood 01:11:39 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks Connect with Ryan Stewman www.jointheapex.com https://www.instagram.com/hardcorecloser/ https://www.facebook.com/realryanstewman Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder interviews Dr. Larry Farwell, a Harvard-educated neuroscientist renowned for his groundbreaking work on the science of creating miracles. They delve into his pioneering research in neuroscience and quantum physics, discussing how consciousness plays a crucial role in shaping human life and the universe. Dr. Larry shares insights from his book, 'The Science of Creating Miracles,' and explains practical techniques for achieving miraculous outcomes in daily life. He also touches on his invention, brain fingerprinting, and the profound impact of tuning into one's true self to foster personal growth and create lasting miracles. The conversation provides listeners with actionable steps to harness their inner potential and live extraordinary lives. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 00:06 Dr. Larry Farwell's Background and Achievements 02:08 The Science of Creating Miracles 05:52 Fundamentals of Physics and Neuroscience 11:04 Dr. Larry's Near-Death Experience and Its Impact 16:30 Scientific Definition and Mechanics of Miracles 22:01 Practical Techniques for Creating Miracles 47:37 Effortlessness and Supportive Nature 48:09 Tuning into Yourself and Nature 48:30 Creating Miracles through Awareness 48:53 The Process of Letting Go 53:01 Integration and Resonance 54:45 Aligning Intellect, Emotions, and Intuition 55:40 The Power of Conscious Choice 58:22 Personal Story: Overcoming Fear 01:05:51 The Role of Pain and Suffering 01:10:32 Nature vs. Nurture 01:12:34 Creating Aha Moments 01:15:40 The Importance of Telling the Truth 01:20:08 The Challenge of Being a Man 01:24:04 Mutual Resonance in Relationships 01:33:20 Guiding Others to Higher Consciousness 01:37:36 Final Thoughts and Key Takeaways Connect with Dr. Larry Farwell https://www.drlarryfarwell.com/ Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder and guest David Corsini delve into the challenging topic of false accusations and their significant impact on mental and emotional well-being. The conversation extends to broader issues such as domestic violence, the value of women's voices in society, and the crucial role of integrity and responsibility in making public allegations. They also explore the influence of social media and the complex dynamics of how men and women hurt each other, often leading to cycles of physical abuse and emotional manipulation. A personal incident involving Kayla is discussed, highlighting the precarious balance of maintaining brand credibility and navigating the court of public opinion. The episode underscores the importance of taking responsibility for one's actions and the need for genuine integrity when using one's voice, especially in accusations that bear heavy consequences. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 01:47 Personal Experience with False Accusations 02:27 The Broader Issue of Domestic Violence 03:59 The Impact of Social Media and Public Allegations 06:13 Men's Voices and the Pendulum Effect 07:12 The Complexity of Abuse Dynamics 10:02 Responsibility and Integrity in Relationships 12:41 The Importance of Understanding and Communication 17:27 The Role of Women's Voices in Society 29:11 The Impact of Physical Abuse on Women 29:37 The Power of Accusations in the Digital Age 32:05 The Court of Public Opinion vs. Legal System 34:06 Personal Stories and Cultural Narratives 36:29 The Magnification of Male Aggression 40:28 Understanding the Broader Context 41:15 The Role of Media and Social Conditioning 44:19 The Need for Mutual Understanding and Healing 48:51 The Importance of Integrity in Accusations 50:46 Final Thoughts and Reflections Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder sits down with Ghasan Alesayi to discuss the complex dynamics of dating and relationships in a post-MeToo world. They delve into how the movement has reshaped communication and interactions between men and women, addressing safety concerns, mixed messages, and the pressures felt by both genders. Ghasan shares his experiences and the confusion men face in this new landscape, while Kayla provides insights into female perspectives and pressures. Together, they emphasize the importance of open, honest, and compassionate dialogue to navigate these nuanced topics and foster better understanding. This episode is a candid attempt to discuss the often uncomfortable but necessary conversations about dating and safety in today's society. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:43 Discussing the Impact of the Me Too Movement 02:41 Navigating Post Me Too Dating Dynamics 05:14 Personal Experiences and Reflections 08:55 Challenges and Misconceptions in Modern Dating 14:22 The Role of Men and Women in Relationships 22:21 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies 40:27 Communication and Setting Boundaries 43:47 Men's Perception of Women's Sensitivity 44:41 Fear of Approaching Women 45:34 False Accusations and Social Media 47:59 Biological and Evolutionary Perspectives 52:40 Pressure and Responsibility in Relationships 59:30 Communication and Consent 01:00:44 Navigating Modern Dating Pressures 01:06:46 The Need for Open Conversations 01:17:50 Conclusion: Moving Forward Together Connect with Ghasan https://samalesai.ca/ Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder interviews Raymond Kopakowski, a partner coach with a unique perspective on relationships. Ray argues that traditional relationships are flawed and promotes the concept of partnerships based on value, equality, and mutual respect. Together, they explore the importance of emotional conversations, the pitfalls of conventional relationship beliefs, and practical strategies for creating a successful partnership. They also discuss the significance of recognizing personal intentions, the need for open communication, and approaching relational challenges with a mindset focused on mutual growth and trust. Kayla and Ray delve into personal anecdotes and practical advice, making a compelling case for rethinking how we approach romantic connections. 00:00 Introduction to the Partner Coach 01:43 Redefining Relationships vs. Partnerships 04:50 Common Destructive Beliefs in Relationships 08:40 Emotional vs. Logistical Conversations 10:55 The Importance of Partnership Intentions 18:00 Addressing Insecurities and Triggers 27:11 The Power of Partnership 29:06 Understanding Relationship Dynamics 30:19 Effective Communication in Relationships 31:32 The Importance of Intentions 31:58 Building Trust and Security 34:45 The Role of Partnership in Personal Growth 38:43 Expressing Value and Appreciation 48:56 Discovering Authentic Desires 54:26 Challenges and Joys of Being a Man 56:27 Final Thoughts on Relationships and Gender Dynamics Connect with Ray: https://innerpowerinsights.com/ https://www.instagram.com/kopakowskiraymond/ Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this enlightening episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder and Reverend Emmanuel, a master sound healer and founder of Divine Harmonics, explore the distinctions between boys and men. They discuss behaviors indicative of maturity, the importance of accountability, and emotional development. The conversation addresses societal norms, media influence on gender roles, and the role of upbringing. They emphasize the importance of safety, mutual respect, and emotional freedom in relationships. Practical advice is shared on achieving authentic living through emotional grounding and open communication. The episode also celebrates the essence of women and balanced partnerships, illustrated through Reverend Emmanuel’s personal anecdotes and admiration for his wife. Tune in for actionable insights on fostering personal growth and harmonious relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 02:52 Defining Boys vs. Men 14:49 The Impact of Media on Gender Roles 19:10 Parenting and Societal Influences 22:46 Exploring Fear and Safety in Relationships 24:24 The Evolution of Freedom in Men 25:40 The Importance of Acceptance and Support 28:05 Grounding and Meaningful Conversations 29:19 Teaching Respect and Self-Worth 30:55 The Power of True Feelings 31:41 Steps to Authentic Living 36:38 The Role of Intimacy in Relationships 40:25 Final Thoughts and Reflections Connect with Reverend Emmanuel: https://devineharmonics.com/ https://www.instagram.com/devineharmonics/ Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder provides an update on the podcast's direction and structure. Kayla reflects on the show's purpose, emphasizing the importance of understanding different gender experiences to foster cooperation rather than competition. Through interviews and shared perspectives, the goal is to challenge existing narratives and promote healthier, more complementary relationships between men and women. Kayla also invites listener feedback to improve the show and share her ongoing journey of discovery. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Update 00:55 Purpose and Vision of the Podcast 02:30 Understanding Gender Dynamics 04:34 Impact on Society and Relationships 05:56 Call to Action and Conclusion Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host engages in a deep and insightful conversation with Katie Plowman, wife of a previous guest, Devin. The episode delves into the themes of femininity, motherhood, and marriage, discussing the dynamics of relationships against the backdrop of millennial conditioning towards masculinity. Katie shares personal experiences of marriage, early motherhood, infertility challenges, and the societal expectations faced by women. The conversation explores the importance of traditional values and gender roles, the significance of having shared values in relationships, and the notion of sacrifice for fulfillment in life and marriage. Katie emphasizes the essence of feminine energy and the idea that true happiness may lie in acknowledging and embracing one's authentic self. Moreover, the discussion touches on societal pressures on women, gender roles, and how the younger generation perceives partnership and family. This episode offers a reflective and personal perspective on re-evaluating life choices amid changing social narratives. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:15 Embracing Femininity and Challenging Societal Norms 03:13 Katie's Marriage and Motherhood Journey 05:38 Traditional Values vs. Modern Expectations 12:31 The Role of Competition in Relationships 17:13 Balancing Traditional Roles and Modern Support 33:45 The Importance of Shared Values and Decision Making 45:51 Navigating Marriage Challenges 46:27 Setting Goals and Vision Boards 48:48 Balancing Parenthood and Relationship 53:49 The Joys of Motherhood 57:14 Embracing Femininity 01:08:24 The Importance of Community 01:23:32 The Role of Men and Women in Relationships 01:30:20 Concluding Thoughts on Womanhood…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host and guest Clayton explore the distinct dynamics of Gen Z dating compared to millennials. They examine generational differences in perspectives on relationships, gender interactions, and societal expectations. Clayton shares anecdotes about his own experiences and observations of how Gen Z men and women navigate dating, highlighting shifts in traditional roles, the influence of technology and social media, and changing paradigms of leadership. The discussion touches on concerns about risk versus reward in dating, perceptions of masculinity, and the impact of cultural changes throughout their formative years. Through insightful dialogues and personal theories, the conversation delves into understanding how young men and women approach relationships, revealing a mosaic of viewpoints and evolving societal norms. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:42 Gen Z vs. Millennials: Dating Dynamics 02:52 Gen Z Women's Perspectives 06:23 Gen Z Men's Perspectives 11:00 Theories on Generational Differences 14:07 Cultural Shifts and Political Leanings 17:38 Modern Relationship Challenges 32:26 Media Influence on Relationships 36:25 Analyzing Taylor Swift's Lyrics 38:38 The Impact of Dating Apps on Self-Perception 40:19 Generational Differences in Technology Adoption 41:52 The Reality of Modern Social Interactions 45:54 The New Love Language: Playful Banter or Disrespect? 50:27 The Evolution of Social Approaches 59:36 Challenges and Rewards of Being a Man 01:05:11 The Beauty and Complexity of Women…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host is joined by Rodrigo Salas, a 31-year-old from Mexico living in Canada, to explore the intricates of the friend zone and emotional boundaries in friendships, especially between men and women. Rodrigo shares his personal experiences and insights on ending up in the friend zone, the emotional challenges it presents, and strategies to navigate these tricky situations. The discussion broadens to cover gender dynamics, societal expectations, and evolving notions of masculinity, ultimately offering practical advice on clear communication and maintaining healthy relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 01:16 Defining the Friend Zone 03:21 Types of Friend Zones 06:39 Responsibility in the Friend Zone 16:01 Personal Stories and Experiences 17:24 The Male Perspective on Friend Zone 20:52 Navigating Emotions and Rejection 30:09 Social Pressure and Idealization 46:08 The Friend Zone and Incel Mentality 47:17 Handling Rejection and Self-Assessment 48:48 Responsibility in Friend Zone Dynamics 49:41 Clear Communication in Friendships 52:08 Therapy and Self-Worth 52:49 Boundaries in Friendships 56:47 Impact of the Me Too Movement 01:06:51 Friend Zoning from a Male Perspective 01:14:16 Misaligned Expectations in Relationships 01:18:45 Personal Experiences and Lessons Learned 01:34:55 Advice for Men in the Friend Zone 01:36:03 Challenges and Joys of Being a Man 01:39:51 Final Thoughts and Gratitude Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder speaks with Risa Ganel, a clinical marriage and family therapist with over 30 years of experience. As the founder of Together Couples Counseling, Risa shares her unique approach to fostering true intimacy in relationships. The discussion covers common communication issues, the evolution of relationship dynamics, and practical tools for breaking toxic patterns. Risa also delves into the importance of understanding emotional safety and the need for personal and relational empowerment. Tune in for valuable insights and helpful resources for enhancing your relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 01:56 The Evolution of Relationship Dynamics 04:20 Common Communication Issues in Relationships 06:05 Understanding Different Perspectives 18:17 The Neuroscience of Relationship Reactions 26:07 Practical Tools for Emotional Regulation 38:40 Empowered Communication and Relational Skills 52:08 Conclusion and Contact Information Connect with Risa Relationship Skills Bootcamp Website Instagram Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode, the host is joined by one of her closest friends, Amanda Pointer, to discuss their journeys in understanding the dynamics between men and women, particularly focusing on feminine and masculine energies. They explore their personal experiences in relationships, societal conditioning, and the impact of traditional roles. The conversation covers Amanda's life as a digital nomad, the influence of their Midwestern upbringing, and their evolving perspectives on men, vulnerability, and respect. They also discuss the importance of feminine energy, its connection to creativity and productivity, and how it influences their interactions with men. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 01:21 Amanda's Background and Nomadic Lifestyle 02:29 Midwestern Upbringing and Family Dynamics 05:32 Cultural Lens and Feminist Perspectives 19:48 Masculine vs. Feminine Energies 32:04 Energy Shift and Productivity 33:10 Embracing Feminine Energy 33:48 Balancing Hustle and Rest 36:42 Impact on Relationships 38:45 Understanding Men 49:34 Respect and Rejection 57:50 Media Influence on Gender Dynamics 59:52 Final Thoughts and Recommendations Resources: Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this compelling episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder engages with strategist Stephan Stavrakis on maintaining attraction and harmony in long-term relationships, emphasizing the importance of patience, effective communication, and the balance of masculine and feminine energies. Stephan, who has been married for 28 years, shares practical advice alongside a discussion on societal changes and AI's impact on relationships. Additionally, the episode delves into the Guild of Honour, an innovative community supporting entrepreneurs through training, coaching, and values of honor and sovereignty. The Guild combines elements of Freemasonry, Amway, Fiverr, Udemy, and BNI to create a comprehensive support ecosystem for business owners. Links are provided to learn more about the Guild of Honour and Stephan Stavrakis' personal website. 00:00 Introduction to the Episode 01:24 Stephan's Relationship Journey 09:32 Marriage Challenges and Growth 11:59 Communication and NLP Insights 21:35 Polarity and Relationship Dynamics 34:43 Protecting Each Other in Relationships 40:29 The Dynamics of Relationships 41:13 The Consequences of Winning Arguments 41:46 The Impact of Affairs 42:58 Weaponization in Relationships 45:25 The Power of Women in the Boardroom 48:01 The Struggles of Modern Women 57:00 The Feminization of Men 01:01:58 The Future of Relationships and AI 01:07:37 The Importance of Communication 01:12:31 The Burden and Joy of Being a Man 01:16:19 The Guild of Honour 01:19:52 Final Thoughts and Reflections Connect with Steph: https://guildofhonour.com/ https://stephanstavrakis.com/ Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder welcomes Mario Lanzarotti, founder of the Zenpreneurs Movement, strategic advisor, high-performance coach, and TEDx speaker. Mario and Kayla delve into various topics, including the responsibility men carry, the fear of self-discovery, toxic masculinity and femininity, and the importance of healthy men and women in society. Mario also shares insights from his childhood, growing up in a multicultural home, and the dynamics between his parents and stepfather. The conversation further explores Mario's journey in balancing masculine and feminine energies in relationships, entrepreneurship, and personal growth. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 01:53 Mario's Childhood and Family Background 04:12 Parental Influence and Personal Growth 06:46 Balancing Responsibility and Personal Freedom 11:11 Navigating Relationships and Personal Boundaries 23:39 Spiritual Bypassing and Family Dynamics 27:45 Roles and Dynamics in Relationships 42:19 Balancing Career and Family Dynamics 44:10 The Power of Feminine Energy 45:06 Challenging Traditional Gender Roles 46:07 The Value of Feminine Contributions 47:29 The Importance of Healthy Masculinity 48:51 The Role of Men in Society 57:53 The Impact of Weak Leadership 01:04:42 Embracing Healthy Masculine and Feminine Traits 01:09:49 Practical Steps for Men and Women 01:11:59 The Journey of Personal Growth 01:15:53 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Connect with Mario:IG: @mario.lanzarotti Website: https://www.mariolanzarotti.com/workwithmario Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
This engaging episode explores the unique superpowers of parents, especially fathers, through personal anecdotes and experiences. It covers the transition into fatherhood, the role of structure provided by a dad, and the journey of nurturing a child's growth. The conversation highlights balancing family values, effective communication in parenting partnerships, and the evolution of a father's role over time. It touches on handling newborns, asserting authority, household responsibilities, and maintaining a united front with a partner. Additionally, the episode dives deep into raising boys, modeling healthy emotional expression, and setting boundaries to prepare children for independence. Practical advice on balancing career and family life, avoiding over-commitment, and enjoying cherished parenting moments is also shared, alongside insights into the responsibilities of teaching kids independent thinking and the joys and challenges of active fatherhood. 00:00 Introduction: Exploring Parental Superpowers 00:29 The Early Days of Fatherhood 01:11 Finding My Role as a Dad 01:34 The Importance of Structure and Independence 04:51 Sleep Training: A Turning Point 23:55 Balancing Vulnerability and Strength 26:00 Teaching Emotional Intelligence 38:46 Exploring the Evolution of Humor as a Dad 39:48 The Role of Humor in Shielding Emotions 42:52 Navigating Assertiveness and Masculinity 49:14 Balancing Household Responsibilities 53:35 The Importance of Communication in Relationships 01:04:25 Career Shifts and Fatherhood 01:10:05 The Joys and Challenges of Fatherhood Resources & Links for Zia: https://www.firststepsdad.coach/ https://www.ziahassan.coach/ https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ziahassan https://ziahassan.blog/ https://ziahassan.space/now Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this compelling episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host speaks with Ghasan Alesayi (or, as he's known in the film industry, Sam Al Esai, about his arrest and subsequent public shaming post a dating coach session on August 8th, 2023. The discussion spans the impact of allegations and media fallout on Ghassan's life, alongside his struggle to reclaim his identity. They further analyze the fast-paced nature of social media judgments and the pressures of modern masculinity, advocating for empathy, vulnerability, and better communication between genders. This episode offers a thoughtful exploration of dating, societal misconceptions, and the necessity for personal integrity and reflection in a crisis of modern relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 00:18 Ghassan's Arrest and Public Shaming 04:37 The Aftermath and Support System 09:23 Reevaluating Relationships and Self 11:47 Deciding to Work with a Dating Coach 14:33 Therapy and Social Experiments 18:09 Fears and Realizations 36:13 The Arrest Incident 48:28 The Power of Acceptance and Transformation 49:42 Mindset Shifts and Personal Growth 50:17 Exploring Masculinity and Power Dynamics 54:22 Navigating Empathy and Vulnerability 56:59 Support Systems and Social Reactions 01:05:17 Documentary Goals and Cancel Culture 01:13:27 The Dating Crisis and Societal Pressures 01:37:13 Misconceptions and Gender Dynamics 01:42:28 Final Reflections and Takeaways Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode, we explore the intersection of traditional values, modern dating, and the emotional landscape of masculinity. The discussion touches on chivalry, the dynamics of paying for dates, and the vulnerability in giving and receiving help. We delve into male emotional expression, the significance of men's groups, and the support partners can offer by respecting each other's emotional needs. Additionally, we reflect on the positive aspects of being a man, the importance of male friendships, and the emotional freedom often seen in women, providing profound insights into the modern male experience. 00:00 Growing Up with Traditional Values 00:30 Navigating Modern Dating Etiquette 02:25 Chivalry in Everyday Actions 03:53 The Emotional Impact of Rejection 05:56 Franco's Fiancé's Transformation 07:50 The Vulnerability of Receiving 10:46 The Masculine and Feminine Dynamics 16:02 Providing and Protecting in Relationships 31:26 The Challenges of Emotional Support 36:58 Navigating Emotional Vulnerability in Relationships 38:16 Creating a Safe Space for Emotional Expression 40:38 The Importance of Active Listening 42:46 Processing Emotions: Men vs. Women 47:47 The Role of Men's Groups in Emotional Support 53:45 Understanding the 'Nothing Box' Concept 01:00:24 Transition Time and Emotional Efficiency 01:05:18 The Need for More Men's Groups 01:08:11 Challenges and Rewards of Being a Man 01:10:39 Final Thoughts and Reflections Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this enlightening episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder welcomes dynamic entrepreneur Michael Fleschner for a deep dive into emotions, communication, and gender dynamics in relationships. Michael shares insights from his 30-year marriage, discussing the importance of emotional responsibility, processing emotions healthily, and the distinct ways men and women handle their feelings. The conversation covers the value of presence, the need for men to have male bonding activities, and the importance of creating safety and support within partnerships. Listeners will gain valuable perspectives on fostering stronger, more understanding relationships between men and women. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 02:09 Diving into Emotions and Communication 02:50 Processing Emotions: Men's Perspective 07:11 The Role of Physical Activity in Emotional Release 08:52 Men and Women: Different Emotional Processing 15:11 The Importance of Presence and Support 20:23 Understanding Safety in Relationships 33:06 The Dynamics of Partnership 34:53 The Importance of Male Bonding 36:51 Different Social Needs of Men and Women 38:55 Inherent Competitiveness in Men 41:49 The Value of Complementary Roles 46:35 Keys to a Successful Long-Term Marriage 57:09 Challenges and Joys of Being a Man 01:00:22 Final Thoughts and Reflections Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this heartfelt episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host interviews her father, a licensed professional counselor with a master's in clinical mental health counseling and owner of Assessment and Counseling Solutions in St. Louis, Missouri. They discuss his unique experiences, including being a stay-at-home dad in the early 90s, the values he instilled in his children, and his insights on leadership, emotions, and relationship dynamics. The episode delves into the impact of traditional versus complementary relationships, the cultural shifts surrounding gender roles, and the importance of having role models. The father shares practical advice and resources for young men to navigate their identities and relationships in today's world. This episode offers a deep exploration of father-daughter dynamics while shedding light on broader societal themes. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 00:48 Childhood Memories and Life Lessons 02:27 Episode Topics and Themes 05:50 Guest's Background and Early Life 12:11 Parenting and Role Reversal 15:21 Challenges and Insights of Stay-at-Home Dads 31:34 Complementary vs. Symmetrical Relationships 42:47 Emotional Volatility and Leadership Challenges 45:51 The Power and Pitfalls of Emotions 55:02 The Shift in Gender Dynamics 01:08:08 Advice for Young Men 01:19:16 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections Resources: Values Exercise Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex and Life King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine: A Jungian Approach to Self-Discovery Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host is joined by her playful and insightful guest, William Griffin. The duo discusses a wide range of topics centered around relationships, including choosing a life partner, the impact of a supportive partner on one's authenticity and freedom, and the complications of seduction. The talk includes reflections on controversial figures like Andrew Tate and delves into personal anecdotes about relationship dynamics, sex tapes, and the concept of polyamory. They also explore deeper societal issues such as gender roles, feminist movements, and the importance of understanding between men and women. This candid conversation offers a mix of humor, personal stories, and profound insights into the complexities of modern relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 02:03 William Griffin Hijacks the Podcast 02:14 Discussing Seduction and Relationship Dynamics 05:51 The Practicality of Choosing a Life Partner 19:41 Balancing Freedom and Commitment in Relationships 25:34 The Impact of Trauma and Personal Growth 34:25 Understanding Relationship Dynamics 34:49 Choosing the Right Partner 35:58 Building the Castle First 37:04 The Red Pill Movement and Masculinity 41:01 Feminism and Gender Roles 52:56 Polyamory and Relationship Structures 55:12 A Naughty Story 58:12 Concluding Thoughts on Relationships Connect with William here: https://www.instagram.com/william__griffin/ Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this episode, we delve into the profound impact of digital culture on modern relationships and social interactions with guest Tameem Kutub. Topics include the echo chambers created by social media algorithms, the Me Too movement, and the pervasive nature of clickbait. We discuss the psychological effects of online dating, the rise of OnlyFans and AI girlfriends, and how technology reshapes human behavior and societal norms. The conversation also addresses male loneliness, the challenges men face in seeking validation and intimacy, and the importance of organic connections over digital platforms. The episode offers insights into fostering positive changes and support networks in a digitally-driven society. 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:02 The Divide Between Men and Women 02:41 Historical Context and Social Media Evolution 04:40 The Impact of Social Media Algorithms 09:09 Audience Capture and Viral Content 18:59 Feminism and Gender Dynamics 32:23 The Me Too Movement and Dating 52:33 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Traits in Men 54:07 The Evolution of Online Dating 56:01 The Impact of Dating Apps on Self-Worth 01:09:10 The Rise of OnlyFans and Its Implications 01:16:15 The Importance of Complimenting Men 01:25:16 Challenges Men Face in Modern Dating 01:32:25 Advice for Men Navigating Today's Dating Scene Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/…
In this podcast episode, the host welcomes Devin Plowman to discuss the evolving dynamics between men and women, as well as broader issues faced in society today. Devin shares his insights and experiences as a married man with a strong Christian background and five children. The conversation delves into topics such as the biological and societal factors influencing male maturity, the impact of marriage and fatherhood on men's development, workplace dynamics, and the challenges faced by men in today's culture. They discuss the generational shift in values, the decline of traditional rites of passage into manhood, and the effects of societal changes, like the rise of feminism and changing gender roles. Devin emphasizes the importance of strong values, responsibility, and leaving a lasting legacy, particularly through parenting. The discussion highlights how modern conveniences and societal shifts contribute to the lack of maturity in men, the role of women in these dynamics, and the potential long-term consequences for individuals and society. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Background 01:52 The Maturity of Men: Marriage and Fatherhood 03:39 Provider and Protector Instincts 04:53 Challenges in Modern Relationships 20:31 Rites of Passage and Cultural Shifts 30:55 The Importance of Family and Posterity 34:18 The Impact of Retirement on Men's Longevity 38:02 The Benefits of Getting Married Young 43:04 The Role of Values in Marriage 52:53 Challenges and Rewards of Being a Man 58:06 Advice for Young Men 59:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts…
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