How to Make a Great Decision | Ep. 19

Strong & Awake

Episode 19 | Are you stuck in a decision-making paralysis, afraid to make the wrong move?

In this episode of Strong & Awake, Dane and Mitch tackle the universal struggle of making tough decisions. They break down a practical process to help you move from indecision to action, whether it's about your job, relationships, or any significant life choice. Discover how to identify your current status quo, evaluate past attempts, and assess new opportunities with clarity. By embracing voluntary discomfort and making informed bets, you can break free from the cycle of hesitation and step confidently into becoming the person you want to be. Join us and learn how to make decisions that propel you forward, even if it means taking the uncomfortable path.

Chapters:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 01:23 The Weight of Decision Fatigue
• 06:49 Establishing Your Current Reality
• 09:22 Envisioning a New Reality
• 13:54 What Have You Tried Before Now?
• 16:34 Why didn’t it Work? How is this Different?
• 21:50 Make a Decision

Mentions:

• Annie Duke: Mentioned as a professional poker player who discusses decision-making as bets with incomplete data.
• Søren Kierkegaard: Referenced for his quote, "Man finds the level of despair he can tolerate and calls it happiness."
• Derek Sivers: Mentioned for popularizing the idea that decisions should be a "hell yeah or no."
• Billy Broas and Tiago Forte: Mentioned for their book "Simple Marketing for Smart People," which discusses the contrast between the current situation and desired outcomes.

Anchor Actions:

1. Clarify Your Status Quo: Take a piece of paper and write down your current situation in detail. Whether it's your job, relationship, or any other aspect of your life, list out what you have right now. This exercise will help you understand your starting point and what exactly you might want to change.

2. Evaluate Past Efforts: Reflect on what you have tried before to address your dissatisfaction. Identify why those efforts didn't work. Was it a lack of commitment, wrong strategy, or external factors? Understanding this will help you avoid repeating the same mistakes and recognize patterns in your behavior.

3. Justify the New Option: Clearly articulate what is different about the new option you are considering. Why do you believe this will succeed where previous attempts have failed? This step is crucial to ensure that you are not just moving the furniture around on the deck of the Titanic but making a meaningful change.

4. Make a Decision

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