Ep 07: Why Motherhood Matters and Why We Should Prioritise it with Erica Komisar

Wisdom Rebellion

In the episode, Kat explores the psychological and societal layers of motherhood with renowned psychoanalyst and parenting expert, Erica Komisar. With over three decades of experience, Erica brings a wealth of knowledge from her practice and her insightful books, including Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First 3 Years Matters.

Erica addresses the complex interplay between feminism, corporate pressures, and the devaluation of motherhood in modern society. She provides poignant commentary on the genetic and psychological prerequisites for motherhood and discusses why it's crucial for women to resolve their personal traumas before embracing parenthood. We also touch on sensitive topics like postpartum depression and the unique challenges women face in nurturing and bonding with their children. Together, they explore the critical stages of child development, the profound impact of being present, and how societal pressures can shape maternal experiences.

Whether you're a parent, thinking of becoming one, or simply interested in the psychological dynamics of motherhood, this episode offers compelling insights and thoughtful discussions on nurturing the next generation. Join us as we unpack these topics and more on Wisdom Rebellion.

Here are the Highlights:

00:00 Devaluing mothering in modern times and its impact.

05:21 Feminism masculinises women, limiting their leadership potential.

12:03 Understanding maternal instincts through nurturing and dependency.

17:24 Entrepreneurial practice offers freedom and self-reliance.

25:01 Declining fertility rates impact the mental health of children.

28:53 Caring for children driven by selfless need.

37:36 When to seek professional help if you’re struggling.

38:44 Politicians avoid difficult issues, neglecting societal impact.

46:39 Achieving work-life balance as a mother.

50:11 Parental presence is crucial in adolescent mental health.

55:28 Gradual separation helps children adjust to school.

01:00:55 Erica Commissar's work has changed my parenting.

About Erica Komisar

Erica Komisar, LCSW is a clinical social worker, psychoanalyst, and parent guidance expert who has been in private practice in New York City for over 30 years. A graduate of Georgetown and Columbia Universities and The New York Freudian Society, Ms. Komisar is a psychological consultant bringing parenting workshops to clinics, schools, corporations, and childcare settings. She is a contributor to The Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post and The New York Daily News. She is also a Contributing Editor to The Institute for Family Studies and appears regularly on Fox and Friends and Fox 5 News. Erica is the author of Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters and Chicken Little the Sky Isn't Falling: Raising Resilient Adolescents in the New Age of Anxiety.

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About Kat Kuczynska

Successful entrepreneur and a mother turns into a wisdom seeker to figure out how to thrive in an ever-changing and challenging world.

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