87. Toughen Up or Validate? Why You Need to Rethink How You Respond to Your Child or Teen’s Distress

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Stop Jumping In! The Simple 3-Step Strategy That Will Transform How You Handle Your Child’s Tough Moments

Ever find yourself caught between trying to solve your child or teen’s problems or pushing them to “toughen up”? You’re not alone. Most parents struggle to find the right balance, especially when their young person is upset, stressed, or overwhelmed. The good news? There’s a better way—and it’s all backed by research.

In this episode, we’ll explore a proven 3-step strategy that will change the way you handle your young person’s difficult emotions. Say goodbye to jumping in to solve everything or using tough love that doesn’t work. This episode will give you the exact tools you need to help your child or teen develop emotional resilience, gain confidence in tough situations, and strengthen your relationship in the process.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “What can I do when my child just can’t handle life’s challenges?”—this episode is for you.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

• The two common mistakes parents make when their child is in distress

• What the research says about validating your child’s emotions

• The surprising power of simply being heard

• How to connect before you correct

• Your 3-step strategy for handling distress like a pro

• A real-life story of transformation

• The long-term benefits of validation

By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clear strategy to handle your child or teen’s tough moments with confidence—building emotional strength, resilience, and trust along the way.

Ready to stop jumping in and start seeing real change in how your child or teen handles life’s challenges? Tune in now!

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