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Episode 10: Everything you knew about conflict should be called into question.
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Beth Wylie에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Beth Wylie 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.
What is your belief system when it comes to conflict? Where did you learn this belief system? How did it come to be formed into this belief system?
So much of what was modeled for us by our primary attachment figures, was a conflict style that was ineffective, harmful and was likely also formed by the community in which you grew up in. We believe that in conflict, there is a winner and a loser, in debate teams, the winner is the one who was most persuasive. With out partner, we need to really change and evolve in how we both view and engage in conflict. If done effectively, conflict can and should be connecting. That is right, you absolutely can walk away from a conflict feeling heard and understood and more connected to your partner then when you first got into the conflict. Listen to Beth talk more about flipping the script on conflict.
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