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058: Co-Parenting
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Parent Driven Development
Episode 058: Co-parenting with Brandon Hays
Welcome Brandon!
Brandon Hays is a dad and engineering leader based in Austin, TX. His professional mission is to help the tech industry improve by organizing people to accomplish things together in environments that recognize and support their "human-ness". His personal mission is to survive parenthood until the kids are in college.
02:40 Brandon's co-parenting
- Starting with traditional gender roles
- Co-parenting was a foriegn concept until remote work..
- The invisible work becomes more visible
- Covid has forced parents to confront the amount of work it takes to raise kids
06:30 Co-parenting during the pandemic
- Awareness that things changed… kids cannot return to school
- Brandon becomes the educator during the pandemic
- The amount of work to parent became too high when everything shut down
- Reworking the home dynamic when one partner needs help
- Asking for flexibility in places where he had previous thought was not available before
10:53 Working out responsibility between partners
- Clear contracts
- Splitting up tasks and making them known to each partner
- Alternating cooking dinner and clean up
- Family clean day
- Creating activities for kids, even after a long day
- Check in with your partner, how are you feeling burden?
14:05 Recognize your partner's strengths
- Being comfortable with how each partner co-parents
- Recognition of each partner
- Optimize each parenting style and continue to check in
- Asking and taking the self-care when it is needed
17:30 Working together
19:10 How has Covid refocused things?!
- Strengthened the team mentality
- Hard to sustain the intensity of the pandemic
- Constant change, the on-call parent
24:40 Prioritization - Do our actions line up with our values?
27:00 Take away: preserve time for planning and reflection
28:35 Genius / fail moments
- Allison checks in while her son is in virtual school and feels major mom guilt…
- Chris’s family visits and brings his camper for a huge win!
- Arit slyly phases out her daughters stuffed animal #genius
- Jess’s son goes full into minecraft, but it may be too much.. #possiblegenius
- KWu repurposed geotags for wooden toys for her kids #genius
- Brandon get creative taking pictures of his kids in their natural habitat
How can I support the podcast?
Please follow us @parentdrivendev on Twitter or email us at panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com.
Our website is at ParentDrivenDevelopment.com.
Chris Arcand
Jess
Arit
Allison
KWu
Special Guest: Brandon Hays.
Sponsored By:
- The Preschool Box: Hey parents, whether you are going back to school or learning from home, the Preschool Box is here to help! The Preschool Box is all about helping children unlock their potential by making learning FUN! Each month, The Preschool Box will send you a box packed full of engaging and educational activities with a focus on reading and math skills that will prepare your little one for success in school. It’s AMAZING! These monthly “work at your own pace” activities encourage learning, reading, and creativity in kiddos ages 3-6 and each box has an array of hands on activities, crafts, and worksheets -- which you can structure to match your child’s pace and level of development! And the best part is that every box has a set of focus skills so each month you get new and exciting material to work on! The work you do at home NOW with your kids is SO important for their future! Let The Preschool Box help you and your child have fun learning together! Head over right now to: thepreschoolbox.com and use code "PARENTDRIVEN" to get $5 off your first preschool box! Promo Code: PARENTDRIVEN
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저장한 시리즈 ("피드 비활성화" status)
When? This feed was archived on April 28, 2023 05:01 (). Last successful fetch was on March 17, 2021 09:05 ()
Why? 피드 비활성화 status. 잠시 서버에 문제가 발생해 팟캐스트를 불러오지 못합니다.
What now? You might be able to find a more up-to-date version using the search function. This series will no longer be checked for updates. If you believe this to be in error, please check if the publisher's feed link below is valid and contact support to request the feed be restored or if you have any other concerns about this.
Manage episode 278529510 series 2084419
Parent Driven Development
Episode 058: Co-parenting with Brandon Hays
Welcome Brandon!
Brandon Hays is a dad and engineering leader based in Austin, TX. His professional mission is to help the tech industry improve by organizing people to accomplish things together in environments that recognize and support their "human-ness". His personal mission is to survive parenthood until the kids are in college.
02:40 Brandon's co-parenting
- Starting with traditional gender roles
- Co-parenting was a foriegn concept until remote work..
- The invisible work becomes more visible
- Covid has forced parents to confront the amount of work it takes to raise kids
06:30 Co-parenting during the pandemic
- Awareness that things changed… kids cannot return to school
- Brandon becomes the educator during the pandemic
- The amount of work to parent became too high when everything shut down
- Reworking the home dynamic when one partner needs help
- Asking for flexibility in places where he had previous thought was not available before
10:53 Working out responsibility between partners
- Clear contracts
- Splitting up tasks and making them known to each partner
- Alternating cooking dinner and clean up
- Family clean day
- Creating activities for kids, even after a long day
- Check in with your partner, how are you feeling burden?
14:05 Recognize your partner's strengths
- Being comfortable with how each partner co-parents
- Recognition of each partner
- Optimize each parenting style and continue to check in
- Asking and taking the self-care when it is needed
17:30 Working together
19:10 How has Covid refocused things?!
- Strengthened the team mentality
- Hard to sustain the intensity of the pandemic
- Constant change, the on-call parent
24:40 Prioritization - Do our actions line up with our values?
27:00 Take away: preserve time for planning and reflection
28:35 Genius / fail moments
- Allison checks in while her son is in virtual school and feels major mom guilt…
- Chris’s family visits and brings his camper for a huge win!
- Arit slyly phases out her daughters stuffed animal #genius
- Jess’s son goes full into minecraft, but it may be too much.. #possiblegenius
- KWu repurposed geotags for wooden toys for her kids #genius
- Brandon get creative taking pictures of his kids in their natural habitat
How can I support the podcast?
Please follow us @parentdrivendev on Twitter or email us at panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com.
Our website is at ParentDrivenDevelopment.com.
Chris Arcand
Jess
Arit
Allison
KWu
Special Guest: Brandon Hays.
Sponsored By:
- The Preschool Box: Hey parents, whether you are going back to school or learning from home, the Preschool Box is here to help! The Preschool Box is all about helping children unlock their potential by making learning FUN! Each month, The Preschool Box will send you a box packed full of engaging and educational activities with a focus on reading and math skills that will prepare your little one for success in school. It’s AMAZING! These monthly “work at your own pace” activities encourage learning, reading, and creativity in kiddos ages 3-6 and each box has an array of hands on activities, crafts, and worksheets -- which you can structure to match your child’s pace and level of development! And the best part is that every box has a set of focus skills so each month you get new and exciting material to work on! The work you do at home NOW with your kids is SO important for their future! Let The Preschool Box help you and your child have fun learning together! Head over right now to: thepreschoolbox.com and use code "PARENTDRIVEN" to get $5 off your first preschool box! Promo Code: PARENTDRIVEN
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