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Therapist Combats Mormon Sexual Shame - Erika Nordfelt | Ep. 1984

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Dr. John Dehlin에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Dr. John Dehlin 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.

In this episode of Mormon Stories, Erika Nordfelt shares her powerful journey from a devout Mormon upbringing to finding healing and self-discovery. Erika recounts her experiences growing up in a close-knit Mormon family, navigating high school in Colorado, and attending BYU-Idaho, where she faced struggles with religious expectations and marital dynamics shaped by the Church.She candidly discusses topics like sexual shame, pornography in marriage, and the role of Twelve-Step programs, highlighting the challenges of reconciling faith, identity, and personal growth. Erika opens up about her turning points, leaving the Church with her husband, and her work as a therapist, witnessing firsthand the impact of shame within Mormon culture.

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00:00:00 Intro00:03:18 Erika’s intention for coming onto Mormon Stories and sharing her story00:06:12 Erika’s upbringing and her parents00:14:32 The best of Mormonism is being raised outside of Utah or Idaho, Mormonism should be the salt not the whole meal00:16:30 High School years and feeling undesirable in the dating aspect00:23:18 Her relationship with her body in dance and modesty00:35:00 Sexual neglect in her upbringing and in the Mormon church00:37:26 Attending BYU-Idaho - She did not serve a mission because she met her husband00:49:20 Her awareness to physical touch and how she was raised00:54:20 How the Mormon church shaped their marital relationship as far as gender roles, etc.01:06:07 Learning that her husband struggled with masturbation and porn and how she handled it 01:20:00 She felt so much despair when her husband confessed to viewing pornography01:29:23 The Twelve Step Program and what part it played in her marriage01:39:20 How long did she go to these Twelve Step meetings and was it working?01:46:10 Moving to Rexburg and getting new jobs on campus01:56:00 Seeing clients for the first time at the BYU-Idaho Counseling Center02:03:55 She had a front row seat to Mormon suffering while working as a counselor02:14:35 Checking in with their marriage during this time in their life02:26:55 The beginning of the end lasted for five years, holes being poked in the Gospel02:33:10 She began exploring troublesome church topics from a safe place in the church02:43:40 Has leaving the church affected her therapy practice at all?02:50:40 A better way to approach porn and masturbation03:19:13 Erika Nordfelt wrote a book called “Don’t Walk Alone”

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In this episode of Mormon Stories, Erika Nordfelt shares her powerful journey from a devout Mormon upbringing to finding healing and self-discovery. Erika recounts her experiences growing up in a close-knit Mormon family, navigating high school in Colorado, and attending BYU-Idaho, where she faced struggles with religious expectations and marital dynamics shaped by the Church.She candidly discusses topics like sexual shame, pornography in marriage, and the role of Twelve-Step programs, highlighting the challenges of reconciling faith, identity, and personal growth. Erika opens up about her turning points, leaving the Church with her husband, and her work as a therapist, witnessing firsthand the impact of shame within Mormon culture.

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00:00:00 Intro00:03:18 Erika’s intention for coming onto Mormon Stories and sharing her story00:06:12 Erika’s upbringing and her parents00:14:32 The best of Mormonism is being raised outside of Utah or Idaho, Mormonism should be the salt not the whole meal00:16:30 High School years and feeling undesirable in the dating aspect00:23:18 Her relationship with her body in dance and modesty00:35:00 Sexual neglect in her upbringing and in the Mormon church00:37:26 Attending BYU-Idaho - She did not serve a mission because she met her husband00:49:20 Her awareness to physical touch and how she was raised00:54:20 How the Mormon church shaped their marital relationship as far as gender roles, etc.01:06:07 Learning that her husband struggled with masturbation and porn and how she handled it 01:20:00 She felt so much despair when her husband confessed to viewing pornography01:29:23 The Twelve Step Program and what part it played in her marriage01:39:20 How long did she go to these Twelve Step meetings and was it working?01:46:10 Moving to Rexburg and getting new jobs on campus01:56:00 Seeing clients for the first time at the BYU-Idaho Counseling Center02:03:55 She had a front row seat to Mormon suffering while working as a counselor02:14:35 Checking in with their marriage during this time in their life02:26:55 The beginning of the end lasted for five years, holes being poked in the Gospel02:33:10 She began exploring troublesome church topics from a safe place in the church02:43:40 Has leaving the church affected her therapy practice at all?02:50:40 A better way to approach porn and masturbation03:19:13 Erika Nordfelt wrote a book called “Don’t Walk Alone”

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