3 Reasons Why You HAVEN'T Been Able To Change (& How To Overcome Them) | Ep. 23

Let's Unpack That with Alex & Grace | Christian Life Coaches, Faith At Work, Soul Care, Kingdom Leaders, God-Centered Professionals, Biblical Career Advice

This is probably one of the MOST IMPORTANT episodes we've recorded to date.
Ever wonder: What is it exactly that's keeping you STUCK?
Whether it's overcoming comparison, fear of people's opinions, imposter syndrome, financial anxiety, chronic stress, burnout, confusion and purposelessness, insert-your-own-struggle-here... today, we're unpacking (like, really unpacking) 3 common barriers to experiencing lasting freedom and transformation.
We talk about everything from the impact of our childhood experiences, to how to get out of toxic self-talk cycles, to our heart-mind connection and how to get authentically - and powerfully - connected with God and ourselves.
Join us as we dissect the invisible culprits likely holding you back from seeing the changes you deeply desire, as well as give you practical examples to help you take steps forward.

➡️ GET THE EPISODE "REFLECT & APPLY" GUIDE (& MORE RELEVANT RESOURCES):
https://withthetrans.com/blog/e23
KEY TOPICS:

• 00:00:55 - Reason #1
• 00:06:00 - Common symptoms
• 00:07:05 - 🔑 Practical Solution
• 00:08:05 - Alex’s personal examples
• 00:16:20 - The power of someone guiding us through the process
• 00:18:47 - Grace’s personal example
• 00:25:19 - Reason #2
• 00:26:06 - Selflessness vs. self-neglect
• 00:29:19 - The impact of growing up in an unstable environment
• 00:32:00 - Common symptoms
• 00:32:57 - 🔑 Practical Solution
• 00:33:34 - Where shame and self-condemnation often stem from
• 00:35:35 - Self-care vs. selfishness
• 00:38:03 - Sample “encounter script” to help you heal
• 00:40:04 - Reason #3
• 00:41:11 - The danger of solely “logical” reasoning
• 00:42:25 - Examples re: food and p*rn
• 00:45:22 - 🔑 Practical Solutions
• 00:47:40 - A key theme across ALL of our episodes
• 00:50:09 - The importance of humility and ownership
• 00:52:06 - ⏪ Recap
• 00:53:10 - 👟 Action Step
• 01:00:06 - A prayer for you ♥️

NOTE: At one point, Grace (vaguely) mentioned we “didn’t do marriage counseling,” but what she meant was we weren’t doing it at the time she was talking about (early dating stage) - but we

---------------

💌 Get each week's episode & helpful resources sent directly to you for FREE, along with EXCLUSIVE sneak peeks & perks: https://bit.ly/3M7OMXY
🆕 JOIN OUR FREE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/overflowcollective
💬 Get personalized help overcoming your life's challenges & internal barriers through our 1-on-1 Spirit-led & science-based coaching. Book a FREE Discovery Call: https://withthetrans.com/consulting-alex

🎥 WATCH our episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@withthetrans
💵 Our Top-Recommended Faith-Based Financial Resources: https://withthetrans.com/faith-finances
📱 Connect with us on social! https://instagram.com/@withthetrans // https://facebook.com/withthetrans
❓ Submit questions & testimonies: https://memo.fm/unpack

챕터

1. Reason #1 (00:00:55)

2. Common symptoms (00:06:00)

3. 🔑 Practical Solution (00:07:05)

4. Alex’s personal examples (00:08:05)

5. The power of someone guiding us through the process (00:16:20)

6. Grace’s personal example (00:18:47)

7. Reason #2 (00:25:19)

8. Selflessness vs. self-neglect (00:26:06)

9. The impact of growing up in an unstable environment (00:29:19)

10. Common symptoms (00:32:00)

11. 🔑 Practical Solution (00:32:57)

12. Where shame and self-condemnation often stem from (00:33:34)

13. Self-care vs. selfishness (00:35:35)

14. Sample “encounter script” to help you heal (00:38:03)

15. Reason #3 (00:40:04)

16. The danger of solely “logical” reasoning (00:41:11)

17. Examples re: food and p*rn (00:42:25)

18. 🔑 Practical Solutions (00:45:22)

19. A key theme across ALL of our episodes (00:47:40)

20. The importance of humility and ownership (00:50:09)

21. ⏪ Recap (00:52:06)

22. 👟 Action Step (00:53:10)

23. A prayer for you ♥️ (01:00:06)