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How To PREVENT A Happy Life/Happy Family
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The Dangers of Anger
We just emphasize the dangers of anger
Here are the main verses in Proverbs dealing with anger:
- 12:16 A fool's wrath is presently known; but a prudent man coverth shame
- 14:29 He that is slow to wrath is of great understanding: but he that is hasty of spirit exalteth folly
- 14:17 He that is soon angry dealeth foolishly: and a man of wicked devices is hated.
- 15:1 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger
- 16:23 He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty: and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city
- 19:11 the discretion of a man deferreth his anger: and it is his glory to pass over a transgression
- 19:18 A man of great wrath will suffer punishment: for if thou deliver him, yet thou must do it again
- 21:19 It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman
- 22:24 Make no friendship with an angry man, and with a furious man thou shalt not go
- 27:3 A stone is heavy, and the sand weighty: but a fool’s wrath is heavier than them both
- 27:4 Wrath is cruel and anger is outrageous (a torrent - a flood); but who is able to stand before envy.
- 29:22 An angry man stirreth up strife, and a furious man aboundeth in transgression
Lessons learned from these verses
1) We must address our own anger issues: Defeat anger or it will control you and damage you
- Confess it as the sin it is
- Take steps to forsake it
2) We must address our children's anger
- Younger Children
- Never ignore anger
- Rebuke it
- Correct it (determine beforehand)
- Teach them how to respond appropriately
- Older Children
- Model correct responses
- Strive to live gently
- Admit when wrong and ask forgiveness
- Take steps to correct yourself
- Teach correct responses
- Stop and correct every angry response
- Teach your children the proper response
- Do it every time!
- Model correct responses
- We must separate from anger: handle specific areas in specific ways
- On a team or in a sport
- Be drastic here
- Pull them out
- Remove them from the team
- Remove their privileges
- With a coach
- An angry coach is a bad influence in your child's life
- An angry coach is a lousy role model
- An angry coach is carnal
- In a relationship
- Anger will destroy relationships
- Anger is a deal breaker
- In friendship
- In courtship and dating
- Never date a person who gets angry - and certainly don't marry them
- Anger that shows up in dating will only compound in marriage
- We must learn to handle intense matters properly:
- Learn to speak softly
- Respond quietly
- Speak in a lower voice
- Leave an angry situation
- Learn to speak softly
- Be drastic here
- On a team or in a sport
Anger will prevent a happy life and a happy family
231 에피소드
Manage episode 432636001 series 2897773
The Dangers of Anger
We just emphasize the dangers of anger
Here are the main verses in Proverbs dealing with anger:
- 12:16 A fool's wrath is presently known; but a prudent man coverth shame
- 14:29 He that is slow to wrath is of great understanding: but he that is hasty of spirit exalteth folly
- 14:17 He that is soon angry dealeth foolishly: and a man of wicked devices is hated.
- 15:1 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger
- 16:23 He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty: and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city
- 19:11 the discretion of a man deferreth his anger: and it is his glory to pass over a transgression
- 19:18 A man of great wrath will suffer punishment: for if thou deliver him, yet thou must do it again
- 21:19 It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman
- 22:24 Make no friendship with an angry man, and with a furious man thou shalt not go
- 27:3 A stone is heavy, and the sand weighty: but a fool’s wrath is heavier than them both
- 27:4 Wrath is cruel and anger is outrageous (a torrent - a flood); but who is able to stand before envy.
- 29:22 An angry man stirreth up strife, and a furious man aboundeth in transgression
Lessons learned from these verses
1) We must address our own anger issues: Defeat anger or it will control you and damage you
- Confess it as the sin it is
- Take steps to forsake it
2) We must address our children's anger
- Younger Children
- Never ignore anger
- Rebuke it
- Correct it (determine beforehand)
- Teach them how to respond appropriately
- Older Children
- Model correct responses
- Strive to live gently
- Admit when wrong and ask forgiveness
- Take steps to correct yourself
- Teach correct responses
- Stop and correct every angry response
- Teach your children the proper response
- Do it every time!
- Model correct responses
- We must separate from anger: handle specific areas in specific ways
- On a team or in a sport
- Be drastic here
- Pull them out
- Remove them from the team
- Remove their privileges
- With a coach
- An angry coach is a bad influence in your child's life
- An angry coach is a lousy role model
- An angry coach is carnal
- In a relationship
- Anger will destroy relationships
- Anger is a deal breaker
- In friendship
- In courtship and dating
- Never date a person who gets angry - and certainly don't marry them
- Anger that shows up in dating will only compound in marriage
- We must learn to handle intense matters properly:
- Learn to speak softly
- Respond quietly
- Speak in a lower voice
- Leave an angry situation
- Learn to speak softly
- Be drastic here
- On a team or in a sport
Anger will prevent a happy life and a happy family
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