Episode 68: An Inordinate Amount?

I Can't Fux With You! Confessions of An Uppity Black Woman

We fuxing with lust today, well tangentially fuxing with lust. What we really fuxing with is #ubw liberation and empowerment, and actually saying fux that definition of lust as "disordered." In my God girl and Goddess girl ways, I often find myself in conflict with some tenets of the Catholic Church. A recent homily that focused on the "Seven Deadly Sins," spent an inordinate amount of time highlighting the "deadly" sin of lust as the most damaging to humanity. The dictionary definition of lust is: enjoyment of an inordinate amount of sexual pleasure. Hmmm? What is an inordinate amount? Without that definition, anything pleasurable, whether obtained through sexual activity or otherwise, becomes taboo, suppressed, and denied. When I examine this suppression pre pole journey (every #ubw needs a spin around the pole) and now, it is not coincidental that the pleasure found in sensual body movement and watching the sensual body movement of other women, has integrated itself with other aspects of my life - and the people feel it. Thus, I am able to see with clarity it is the accentuation of my femininity and sexuality that draws the people in. So, if what we have been doing from the beginning - minimizing the pleasurable things - do you know what are the "pleasurable" things that can take you to that next level up? Is it that slim gold bracelet on your delicate ankle on a hot summer day while you wear your strappy sandals? The flutter you feel when you slightly cross those ankles, and see that bracelet. That feeling that is evoked, and you just know - can't nobody fux with you. Imagine for 40+ years you have denied yourself this joy all because this expression is tied to premarital sexual pleasure. I know...the connection is simply bizarre. But that is what the Chuuch said: Ankle bracelet = Whore. Sis, ain't it wild you could have been a bad b'tch this whole time?
REFERENCES IN TODAYS EPISODE
Queen Yaa Asantewa - Goddess of Leveling Up
Encyclopedia Britannica, Seven Deadly Sins, Last Accessed April 25, 2024
Monique Moultrie, Passionate and Pious, Religious Media and Black Women’s Sexuality
Blackfeminisms.com, On The Church and Black Women Sexuality
Chidinma Chisom Unigwe, Anklets Are To Women What Sex Is To Prostitutes… But Who Made The Rule?

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