When A Narcissist Hoovers, The "Post, Final Discard" Trap

Cluster B Free Me

A Narcissist devaluing and discarding of former source of (primary) narcissistic supply is one of the most painful experiences in one's lifetime. Often, the Narcissist's source of "New Supply" has taken part(in some instances, knowingly and willfully, in other instances ignorant of NPD(Narcissistic Personality Disorder). Therefore, oblivious to the fact that she is in the "love bombing" aka idealization phase of the relationship with the Narcissist. In this episode, I explain how the Narcissist, for any reason that "New Supply" fail to meet the expectations of the Narcissist(that unbeknownst to her, are never-ending) they will seek to "hoover" ie. recycle their former source of primary supply, for the purpose of triangulation. Moreover, to "punish" that source of supply. The "Post, Final Discard" Trap What has motivated the Narcissist to return? Is it that he "missed" or really loves, needs, and wants his former primary source of supply, and always has???