Untying The Knot With Lisa Gu podcast

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#12. Divorce Finances 101 with Carlton Benjamin 43:09

13일 전43:09

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This conversation delves into the financial complexities individuals face during and after divorce. Carlton Benjamin, a financial security advisor, and Divorce Coach Lisa share insights on managing emotions, long-term planning, and the importance of life insurance. The discussion covers various financial aspects, including investment accounts, pensions, and tax implications, emphasizing the need for a structured approach to rebuilding financial stability post-divorce. We also tackle practical, often-overlooked questions like: ➡️ What to do with joint life insurance after separation ➡️ How to handle RESP contributions when co-parenting ➡️ Tax traps to avoid when dividing RRSPs, selling property, or receiving spousal support ☑️ How to split pensions and retirement accounts without triggering penalties ☑️ What "irrevocable beneficiary" really means—and why it matters ☑️ How to rebuild your financial foundation after divorce If the money side of divorce is stressing you out, or you’re unsure what you don’t know... 🎧 This episode is for you. P.S. Follow Carlton on Instagram @father0fsky3 for more practical tips on building financial security, understanding insurance, and protecting your future. Follow me for inspiration and tips on how to reinvent yourself through divorce: 📸 Instagram 🌐 Facebook ▶️ YouTube…

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#11. Why Your Kids Might Need Therapy During Divorce with Josh Rinz 44:11

30일 전44:11

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In this conversation, Divorce Coach, Lisa Gu and Therapist, Josh Rinz, discuss the complexities of navigating children's therapy during divorce. They explore various types of therapy suitable for children, signs of distress to look for, and the misconceptions children may have about divorce. The importance of communication, providing security, and the impact of parental conflict on children are emphasized. They also address how to encourage children to engage in therapy, the significance of community support, and the need for parents to give themselves grace during this challenging time. Chapters 00:00 Navigating Divorce: Concerns for Children's Well-Being 02:21 Types of Therapy for Children 06:27 Recognizing Signs of Distress in Children 10:18 Understanding Children's Fears During Divorce 14:23 Communicating with Children About Divorce 18:28 Parental Conflict and Its Impact on Children 22:24 Effective Communication Strategies for Parents 26:14 Avoiding Common Pitfalls in Parenting During Divorce 28:39 Navigating Parental Love in Divorce 35:58 Long-Term Perspectives on Parenting 37:01 The Importance of Therapy for Children 48:43 Building a Supportive Community for Kids 53:15 Embracing Imperfection in Parenting P.S. Follow Josh on Instagram @joshrinztherapy for more wisdom on parenting, mental health, and neurodivergence. P.P.S. My group coaching program, Chaos to Clarity , covers practical strategies to support your children and stepchildren during divorce. Sign up by April 18 for your first month at 50% off !…

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#10. My Ex Said This to Me... 10:03

6 weeks 전10:03

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In this solo episode, Lisa reflects on the lasting impact of comments made by her ex-husband, particularly regarding her stress levels before traveling. She shares her journey of self-discovery through travel, highlighting how she overcame the negative narrative imposed by her ex. Lisa emphasizes the importance of reclaiming one's personal power and rewriting narratives that no longer serve us, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the stories they carry from past relationships.…

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#9. Effective Strategies for Co-Parenting Success with Colette Fortin 57:11

24 weeks 전57:11

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In this episode of Untying Your Knot, Divorce Coach Lisa Gu and Mediator Colette Fortin discuss the complexities of co-parenting during and after divorce. They explore the emotional challenges faced by parents and children, effective strategies for maintaining a healthy co-parenting relationship, and the importance of communication and planning. The conversation emphasizes prioritizing children's well-being, managing high-conflict situations, and creating a supportive environment for children to thrive despite the changes in their family dynamics. In this conversation, Lisa Gu and Colette Fortin focus on parenting time, custody arrangements, and the emotional challenges involved. They emphasize the importance of communication, practice runs for shared parenting, and the need for emotional intelligence in modelling behaviour for children. The discussion also covers the transition into new relationships and step-parenting, as well as strategies for handling holidays and family traditions in a way that prioritizes children's well-being. Want to learn more about mediation? Connect with Colette and her team: 📞 (226) 705-1056 🌐 https://fairwaydivorce.com/lp/waterloo-wellington/fairway/ Chapters 00:00 Understanding Emotional Dynamics in Divorce 05:58 Effective Co-Parenting Strategies 08:52 Communication Plans for Co-Parents 12:41 Prioritizing Children's Well-Being 15:30 Managing High-Conflict Situations 18:58 Creating a Supportive Co-Parenting Environment 22:54 Balancing Discipline and Routines 26:03 Navigating Competition and Time Sharing 29:04 Navigating Parenting Time and Custody Arrangements 37:57 Transitioning into New Relationships and Step-Parenting 44:39 Handling Holidays and Family Traditions During and Post-Divorce 50:10 Long-Term Perspectives on Co-Parenting and Child Well-Being…

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#8. Mortgage Moves & Missteps Every Divorcee Must Know 36:23

26 weeks 전36:23

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Two years ago, I transferred the title and mortgage of my matrimonial home into my name. Even with a temporary six-month bridge loan as we were finalizing our separation agreement, I was hit with an early mortgage termination fee of over $2,000. I tried negotiating with my lender—one of Canada’s major banks—but they wouldn’t budge. And on top of that, I faced an additional $1,000+ in legal fees just to complete the title and mortgage transfer. 💸 Oh, did I mention how much mortgage penalty we had to pay when we sold our investment property? 💸💸💸💸 To help you avoid my costly mistakes, I invited Mortgage Agent Richard Castillo to discuss everything you need to know about navigating mortgage decisions during or post-divorce. In this episode, we covered: The implications of recent interest rate changes in Canada and how they affect mortgage options, especially for those going through a divorce. Challenges unique to post-divorce borrowers, including qualifying for mortgages on a single income and the financial nuances of transferring home ownership. Why understanding different lending institutions matters and the key factors to weigh when choosing a mortgage. Curious about how to turn a “no” into a “yes” for your mortgage approval? Don’t miss Episode 8 of Untying the Knot . Richard Castillo 519-781-7424 https://dlcteam.ca/ -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow me for daily inspiration and tips on how to reinvent yourself through divorce: 📸 Instagram 🌐 Facebook I'm here to support you to turn the chaos into clarity and create a life you love! 💪✨ Chapters 00:00 Understanding Mortgage Options During Divorce 04:46 Navigating Interest Rates and Market Conditions 09:54 Choosing the Right Lending Institution 14:58 The Importance of Flexibility in Mortgages 20:07 Understanding Mortgage Penalties 24:52 Qualifying for Mortgages Post-Divorce 29:54 Transferring the Matrimonial Home 34:56 Planning for Future Home Purchases…

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#7. How to Sell Your Home During Divorce with Aron and Angelica Pinto 54:56

41 weeks 전54:56

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Selling a home during a divorce can be uniquely challenging and emotionally charged. Amid the often high-conflict negotiations of a divorce settlement, you and your ex-partner must work together as a team to sell your home.➡️How can you align with your ex in the sale process? ➡️How do you prepare your home for sale, whether you're navigating in-house separation or one spouse remains in the home? ➡️What are the top three considerations for achieving the best outcome?These are just a few of the...…

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#6. “Can One Person Change Their Marriage?” with Dave Inglis and Dr. Jennifer Forristal 1:17:15

43 weeks 전1:17:15

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Four years ago, Dave and Jen welcomed their baby boy, William, while juggling the needs of their two older children. Like many families, Dave worked while Jen stayed home with the kids on maternity leave.Raising a newborn during COVID, dealing with work stress, and facing other family challenges led to mounting resentment. “That was the toughest time in our 10 years together,” Jen recalls. “We were on the verge of divorce,” Dave adds.Spoiler alert: sex was definitely off the table then🤷🏻‍♀️Ca...…

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#5. “Betting On Myself” with Cindy Cheung 1:07:11

45 weeks 전1:07:11

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Picture this. You’ve been married for over 20 years, raised two beautiful girls, bought your dream retirement home, have a good job, and are planning to transition to a more relaxed life with your spouse. Then, out of nowhere, shortly after selling your matrimonial home to “downsize”, your husband tells you he wants a divorce. Not only that, he had told his family, hired a lawyer, and you were literally the last to know.As if that wasn’t hard enough, COVID hits. You lose the new job...…

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#4. Are You Entitled to 50% of Everything In A Common Law Separation? 1:04:40

46 weeks 전1:04:40

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Do you have a shared bank account, house, or children with your common-law partner? Ever wondered what rights you have in a common-law relationship? Or how does splitting assets and co-parenting differ from being married? In this eye-opening episode, I sat down with Phaedra Klodner, an experienced family law lawyer, to unravel the myths and complexities of common law partnerships in Canada. The best part? Phaedra shared real-life examples! 📔We cover:➡️The legal definition of common ...…

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#3. Thriving After High Conflict Divorce with Sarah and Sean 57:16

48 weeks 전57:16

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After raising three children and overcoming a life-threatening illness, Sarah faced yet another challenge: her ex-husband's infidelity and numerous lies. Devastated and hiding under her desk, she didn’t know how to crawl out of the mess.That’s when Sarah and I met. And oh my gosh, am I in awe of her tremendous strength and growth over the past four years? Against all odds, Sarah has emerged stronger than ever. She is now a writer and coach, a rock for her three adult children and three grandc...…

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#2. From Heartache to Hope: Rediscovering Life After Divorce with Jeff 48:03

49 weeks 전48:03

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In this episode, my friend Jeff opens up about the profound loneliness he felt in his marriage, his affair, and the complexities of co-parenting. He shares his journey of spiritual growth, rediscovering himself after divorce, and his pursuit of love and happiness.Jeff also shares the mistakes he made during his divorce settlement and the “bullets he bit” in co-parenting while striving to love, support, and care for his two daughters. I am deeply touched and grateful for Jeff’s candour an...…

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#1. Heart-Centered Divorce with Lauren Ross 1:10:30

50 weeks 전1:10:30

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Lauren Ross, a Certified Life Coach, joined me to delve into her transformative divorce journey. We explore:In limbo: the dilemma of staying or leaving the marriageHeart vs. head: adopting a compassionate approach to divorceScarcity vs. abundance mindsets: shifting perspectivesFacts vs. emotions: navigating the complexitiesSafety in marriage: finding security and empowermentSo many golden nuggets in this inaugural episode of Untying the Knot. Enjoy!--------------------------------------------...…

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