Let’s talk about adulting— actual adulting. Not just paying bills or keeping a houseplant alive, but the kind that involves emotional maturity, healthy boundaries, and conscious self-leadership. Because let’s be honest, most of us weren’t taught how to be fully functioning adults… and it shows. Joining us is Michelle Chalfant , licensed therapist turned holistic life coach, creator of The Adult Chair® model, and author of the new book The Adult Chair: Get Unstuck, Claim Your Power, and Transform Your Life . With millions reached through her podcast, coaching programs, and retreats, she’s here to walk us through the five pillars of being a healthy, grounded adult. Here’s the truth: being an adult isn’t about checking boxes or pretending you’re fine. It’s about owning your truth. Feeling your feelings. Practicing compassion without letting yourself off the hook. It’s about setting firm boundaries—with no need for justification—and recognizing that your triggers are not flaws, they’re clues. None of us were handed a guidebook for how to grow up emotionally. We inherited patterns from people who were figuring it out as they went. But what Michelle shares today is empowering: it’s never too late to unlearn what no longer serves you and become the adult you were meant to be. Whether you’re starting this work or knee-deep in your personal development era, this episode will meet you where you are—and help you move forward with clarity, self-trust, and strength. Connect with Michelle: Website: https://theadultchair.com/ Book: https://theadultchair.com/book IG: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant/?hl=en FB: https://www.facebook.com/@TheMichelleChalfant/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/michellechalfant Related Podcast Episodes: How To Build Emotionally Mature Leaders with Dr. Christie Smith | 272 Boundaries vs. Ultimatums with Jan & Jillian Yuhas | 297 Gentleness: Cultivating Compassion for Yourself and Others with Courtney Carver | 282 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…
We are the Iron Disciples, in this podcast we talk about fitness, dating, the Bible, and masculinity. We aim to explore these topics from a Biblical stand point and encourage men to grow and work through these topics with us.
We are the Iron Disciples, in this podcast we talk about fitness, dating, the Bible, and masculinity. We aim to explore these topics from a Biblical stand point and encourage men to grow and work through these topics with us.
Christian apologetics conversations are growing. It's great to see men like Wesley Huff getting invites onto Rogan and Cliff and Stuart Knechtle on with Jake Paul and others. We encourage you to check out Wesley's debate with Billy Carson to see a great example of how to dismantle false statements about Christianity in a respectful way. These apologetic topics are important and we should all be gaining knowledge in them to better defend our faith. You will find it will give you far more confidence in sharing your faith as you learn how to handle the questions/rebuttals thrown at you.…
After a lengthy hiatus, we are back to discuss prayer- What it is, how to do it, resources to mirror it, and a challenge to pursue it. Stay tuned for more episodes!
This is our 15th episode of the Biblical series on Matthew. We take an inside look at the content covered in our bi-weekly Iron Disciples meetings. We dig into Matthew 16 and go over the notes John puts together for our group. Join us in the conversation.
We welcome back Father Turbo today to discuss Icons. Icons have been a source of church controversy so long it’s hard to pin down a date but needless to say Icons are still very much in debate today. The subject of Icons is not black a white as some would lead you to believe, it’s a fascinating conversation thats unfortunately missed due to dismissive attitudes and ill formed presuppositions. Join us as we seek to understand what our Eastern Orthodox brothers teach Icons to be. Let us know your thoughts in the comments.…
Join us in this mini series on fat loss. In part 2 of this series with hit on calories and macros and specifically dive into carbs. #fatloss #irondisciples #fitness
Join us in this mini series on fat loss. Mike and Joe discuss their own fat loss journeys as well as an intro to the topic. We hit on body types, genetics, and how nature/nuture can play a role in this issue.
Join us in discussing some common arguments heard against Christianity. We've heard these both online and in-person and we want to help you prepare yourself as you may face these questions and arguments in your own discussions with non-believers. We decided to split this topic into a series as they can quickly turn into large discussions. Let us know in the comments some arguments you have encountered. Topics covered in part 1: 1) All roads lead to God / just be a good person 2) The Bible has been translated many times so it is inaccurate or things have been lost in translation…
Join us today in talking about fitness routines. We cover 3 common splits: the bro split, full body, and push pull legs. What routine have you found works best for you?
This is our 14th episode of the Biblical series on Matthew. We take an inside look at the content covered in our bi-weekly Iron Disciples meetings. We dig into Matthew 15 and go over the notes John puts together for our group. Join us in the conversation.
David Gornoski joins us today to discuss the controversial abortion topic and how some republicans seems to be wavering on their views or maybe their true views are showing. Should we voting for these politicians that view exceptions in fighting for life? Are we consistent in our pro life views and also our views on war?…
In a culture of prosperity gospel, pastors wearing $2000 sweaters on stage, and evangelists worth 100s of millions we gotta ask ourselves how should we as Christians view money and wealth. Join us in this round table discussion as we explore this topic and try to understand it Biblically.
This is our 14th episode of the Biblical series on Matthew. We take an inside look at the content covered in our bi-weekly Iron Disciples meetings. We dig into Matthew 14 and go over the notes John puts together for our group.
We welcome back Joe Tewell to the podcast. We will discuss all things gym and how they relate to a strong walk with God - how a man of faith is made stronger through solid gym and overall good health habits.
Will Spencer joins us again to talk about a topic you may have seen boiling up on social media of this Christ Pill vs Red Pill debate. Some Christian content creators have seemingly gone offensive against the red pill and the main content creators there so we figured we'd weigh in on the topic since we find great value in the red pill but also are obviously Christians and promote Christian values.…
Join us in discussing this growing view of Theonomy and Christian Nationalism. We listened to a good discussion with Mike Winger and Joel Webbon on the topic and will discuss our thoughts and set the stage for future conversations on the topic with guests. Help us navigate this topic in the comments. Checkout the description on the youtube version for the original video link we are discussing.…
This is our 12th episode of the Biblical series on Matthew. We take an inside look at the content covered in our bi-weekly Iron Disciples meetings. We dig into Matthew 13 and go over the notes John puts together for our group.
Today we are thrilled to have Michelle Lentz join us to talk about marriage and relationships. She runs an Instagram page called @Heybeginnerwife that provides young women with marriage advice and tips.
We joined Will Spencer in a discussion about masculinity not founded in Christ is really a cringe idea at the core. We touch on a few other topics such as fatherless men finding icons like Jordan Peterson or Tate to fill that void as well as the feminized church is likely going to crumble in the future.…
Rachel Wilson joins us today to talk about the sacred cow that is feminism and the very often untold story of the origins of that movement. Rachel wrote an in depth book on the topic called Occult Feminism that you will want to check out. Find all her links in our Youtube video description.
We are going to have a casual conversation on why we believe Christianity is true. Join us in this conversation and think for yourself deep down why you think it is true. Why do you have the right answer over the Muslim or the Mormon next to you? If you aren't a Christian we encourage you to take a honest deep dive into the reasons to believe in Christianity. Check out our Youtube video for the linked resources.…
Today we are going to chat about some of the conversation going on around Kat Von D and her recent conversion to Christian and the backlash she got from Christians. Her story isn't a rare one and we are going to chat about how we think new Christians should be viewed vs mature ones. It seems some Christians seems to think that once some accepts Christ that tomorrow their behavior will fit that Christian mold.…
Martine joins us today to discuss courting today. We dig into the history of courting, how it differs from dating, how dating even started, and why courting is more effective.
This is our 11th episode of the Biblical series on Matthew. We take an inside look at the content covered in our bi-weekly Iron Disciples meetings. We dig into Matthew 12 and go over the notes John puts together for our group. Join us in the conversation.
Reviewing chapters 1 & 2 Of Pastor Michael Foster's Book "It's Good To Be A Man". We cover Biblical Patriarchy as God designed it and masculinity and dominion.
Glenn and Mike discuss the servant leader concept that evangelicals often push on men. Does the bible really tell husbands to be servant leaders? Is the way it is described by modern pastors even the correct way to think about it (basically happy wife, happy life). Or is that teaching from weak men pandering to women? Lets discuss this topic and find out. We touch on the latest article from Aaron Renn's newsletter. Audio version can be found on youtube here https://youtu.be/Zh9Cri1jXCw?si=Jg_7f2u7hgDUYJus…
Glenn returns with us to hit on the topic of succeeding as a Christian man in this sinful environment today. This is round 2 as we got a bit sidetracked last time down a different rabbit trail so we are going to hit this topic again. We touch on each of our routines, the provider role of a man, starting your day with God, and nutrition.…
We welcome special guest Rob Kowalski today to discuss a spicy topic, sex and when we should be engaging in it. Waiting till marriage is a topic many Christians will virtue signal about but rarely follow today. We'll hit on both the Biblical reasons and practical/biological reasons one should wait to make the sexual bond till in the lifelong marriage commitment. We also get into a debate on polygamy and if it's a sin biblically.…
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