Stop Hiding Behind Comfort

Potential Leader Lab

How do you assess whether your community and relationships are aligned with your values and goals? What steps do you take when they are not?

This episode is aimed at those relentless individuals who constantly strive for growth through struggle and change.

Perry explores the necessity of taking personal responsibility, confronting existential questions, and aligning our actions with our true selves. He also discusses the impact of societal expectations, the importance of intentional choice, and how small, consistent actions can lead to significant, long-term change.

Perry also discusses the power of community, the concept of self-transcendence, and the benefits of lifelong learning.

Key Moments

03:53 Actively shape your future self with clarity.

10:07 You write your story while living it.

11:03 Exposed to constant messaging; choose your narrative.

16:46 Reflection requires clarity; express simply with fewer words.

20:44 Our choices shape our future, take action.

21:48 Thought experiments lack actionable feedback; take action.

26:07 Continual growth is key to lifelong wellness.

29:37 Persistence and clarity ensure unstoppable progress.

32:06 Live each moment as if infinitely relived.

34:48 Define ourselves by others; curate your environment.

Top Takeaways

Taking personal responsibility is crucial for shaping your future self. Stop being passive and make deliberate choices to control your destiny.

Regularly reflect and confront deep existential questions. Avoid distractions that prevent meaningful self-reflection and growth.

Surround yourself with people who share your vision and align with your true self. Collective goals can motivate and enhance personal growth.

Pursue self-transcendence by becoming better in service to others, which provides a more profound sense of purpose than self-actualization alone.

Critique societal roles and expectations. Define yourself through personal actions rather than conforming to cultural norms.

Practice self-inquiry by questioning your motives, values, and choices. Regular reflection helps you learn from past decisions and grow.

True change results from taking action. Act first and then adjust based on feedback, rather than getting stuck in planning mode.

Engage in small experiments to discover what works for you. Small, consistent actions can lead to significant long-term change.

Overcome self-imposed limitations and the narratives that hold you back. Believe in the possibility of growth at any age and stage of life.

Understand that growth involves discomfort. Pushing through fear and discomfort is essential for achieving personal development and meaningful accomplishments.

Perry Maughmer believes the world deserves better leadership; that in every human interaction there is the opportunity to either build others up or tear them down; and that leadership is the choice we make in those moments.

These beliefs led Perry to create the Potential Leader Lab. He wanted to offer those who share his beliefs the space and safety to explore transformative ideas, experiment with new behaviors, and evolve into the leaders they were meant to be and that the world needs.

This is a framework he has used again and again with his Vistage peer advisory groups and companies like Turn-Key Tunneling, Convergint, Haughn & Associates, I Am Boundless, Ketchum & Walton, LSP Technologies, and Ahlum & Arbor.

Perry lives and works on the shores of Buckeye Lake in Ohio, in the mountains of northwest Georgia, and on the beach in Anna Maria, Florida with his amazingly creative wife Lisa. They have 2 rescue dogs and are intermittently visited by their 3 wonderful children throughout the year. Perry & Lisa are living life in crescendo and focused on exploring, experimenting, and evolving their vision of a life they have no desire to retire from.

Copyright 2024 Perry Maughmer