In this episode of Rebuilding The Village, men's coach Michael Read and relationship expert Jewel discuss the challenges of modern relationships, the loneliness epidemic, and how social anxiety impacts connections. They explore the importance of vulnerability, community, and repair conversations in fostering meaningful relationships, while also examining the influence of geography and cultural shifts on dating and friendships. Reach out: https://www.connectionwithjewel.com/ 00:00 Understanding Connection and Relationships 03:12 The Loneliness Epidemic 05:50 Navigating Social Anxiety and Perfectionism 08:54 The Impact of Modern Society on Friendships 11:58 People-Pleasing and Social Dynamics 14:56 The Role of Vulnerability in Relationships 18:00 The Importance of Authenticity 21:02 The Challenge of Modern Dating 23:53 Coping with Social Disconnection 26:59 The Influence of Geography on Relationships 30:09 The Intersection of Career and Personal Life 32:57 The Role of Evolutionary Psychology 36:03 The Importance of Community and Support 38:59 The Challenge of Infinite Choices 41:53 The Need for Repair Conversations 44:51 Building a Life Council 48:02 The Balance of Individualism and Collectivism 50:59 The Role of Awareness in Connection 54:03 Strategies for Managing Social Anxiety 56:52 The Value of Meaningful Connections 01:00:03 Conclusion and Future Conversations…

In this episode of Rebuilding The Village , men's coach Alain Dumonceaux shares his journey into men's work, discussing the societal shifts causing disconnection among men and the importance of mentorship, communication, and redefining masculinity. He opens up about his experience with infidelity and his son's addiction, emphasizing boundaries, accountability, and personal growth through support networks. Reach out: Website: https://members.theawakenedman.net/products/courses/view/3 00:00 The Journey into Men's Coaching 02:10 The Disconnection Among Men 04:17 Defining Masculinity 08:12 Addressing Infidelity and Open Communication 21:59 Embracing Masculine and Feminine Traits 34:49 The Importance of Community and Connection 39:20 Supporting Loved Ones with Addiction 48:28 Overcoming the Lack of Commitment, Clarity, and Compass 53:19 The Value of Accountability and Healthy Challenges 56:34 Initiations and Rites of Passage…

In this episode of Rebuilding The Village, Dr. Robert Glover explores Nice Guy Syndrome, emphasizing self-awareness, confidence in relationships, and overcoming self-limiting beliefs. He discusses the importance of posture, presence, and "outcome agnosticism" in dating, while addressing the unique challenges men face in modern society. Find out more: Websites: https://www.drglover.com/ https://integrationnation.net/landing-page 00:00 The Power of Asking 02:23 From Nice Guy to Therapist 09:10 Understanding Nice Guy Syndrome 12:35 The Journey of Self-Discovery 18:51 Self-Perception and External Validation 23:23 Recognizing Signs of Interest 29:24 Self-Limiting Beliefs and Relationships 36:01 Bringing Value to Relationships 37:30 The Importance of Presentation 43:32 Navigating the Nursery: The Modern Male Experience 49:31 Understanding Outcome Agnosticism 57:40 The Power of Posture and Presence 01:05:18 Overcoming Inaction and Embracing Change 01:12:22 The Dynamics of Working with Men vs. Women…

In this episode of Rebuilding The Village , life coach Alan Lazaros shares how his journey from engineering to life coaching, shaped by personal loss and a near-death experience, led him to emphasize self-improvement, self-awareness, and the importance of achieving both success and fulfillment through humility and character growth. Reach out: Website: https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/ 00:00 Introduction and Podcasting 00:29 Alan's Background and Near Death Experience 04:59 Unfulfilled and Unsuccessful 09:34 Successful and Unfulfilled 12:46 Fulfilled and Broke 14:27 Success and Fulfillment 17:03 Accurate Thinking: The Key to Making Good Decisions 20:15 The Importance of Tolerating the Truth About Oneself 26:46 The Thin Line Between Self-Belief and Arrogance 33:30 The Power of Self-Belief and Humility in Personal Growth 38:57 Building Strong Relationships Through Humility and Vulnerability 43:25 The Difference Between External and Internal Humility 45:45 The Role of Self-Belief in Maintaining Humility 48:22 The Importance of Hiring Individuals with High Inner Humility 51:49 Setting Achievable Goals through Self-Awareness and Potential 55:46 Gamifying Life for Goal Achievement and Motivation…

Welcome to another episode of Rebuilding The Village with your host, Michael Read. In this episode, marriage coach Kelly DuPee discusses the challenges couples face in maintaining healthy relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and recognizing the warning signs of a troubled marriage. They explore how societal changes impact relationships and the crucial role of community and support in building successful partnerships. Kelly and Michael also delve into the connection between community, relationships, and mental health, highlighting the significance of trust, reciprocity, and serving others. They address the prevalence of unresolved grief and its impact on mental health, stressing the need to create space for emotions and support those experiencing loss. Reach out: Website: https://www.turnitup.coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/turnitupmarriagecoaching/ 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:09 Challenges in Maintaining Healthy Marriages 09:00 Warning Signs of a Troubled Marriage 13:11 The Impact of Societal Changes on Relationships 19:11 The Importance of Community and Support 24:29 Learning How to Be in a Relationship 33:44 The Power of Community and Relationships 35:40 Building Trust and Reciprocity 46:12 Supporting Each Other Through Loss 55:06 Creating Space for Emotions and Healing…

Welcome to Rebuilding the Village with your host, Michael Read. Today, we're joined by Jason, a men's group facilitator and coach, who shares his personal journey of overcoming emotional disconnection and how it shaped his relationships. We explore the challenges that lead to dysfunctional behaviors in men, like the 'nice guy' syndrome and the absence of steady masculine role models. Together, we discuss the concept of the healthy masculine—grounded, present, and sensitive—and the importance of cultivating these energies alongside the healthy feminine, which embodies radical devotion to love. The conversation highlights the power of accountability, mentorship, and community in men's development, dispelling the myth of the lone wolf. Jason also offers insights on finding or creating a transformative men's group and the role of shadow work in fostering growth and connection. Reach out: Website: https://evolutionary.men/about-jason-lange/ 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:04 The Importance of Men's Work 10:06 Understanding Dysfunctional Men 19:56 Defining the Healthy Masculine and Healthy Feminine 27:00 The Role of Accountability and Mentorship 42:59 The Challenge of Working Out for Oneself 44:27 The Power of Accountability and Expectations 45:23 The Importance of Circumstance and Being on the Right Track 48:40 Finding or Creating a Men's Group 54:07 Creating and Owning Your Own Group 57:21 Men Guiding Men Deeper into Their Experience 01:02:00 The Power of Feedback and Self-Reflection 01:06:59 The Myth of the Lone Wolf and the Importance of Community 01:09:27 The Need for Connection and Support…

Welcome to Rebuilding The Village with your host, Michael Read. Today, we’re joined by M. Aurelius Higgs, a communication coach and teacher, who shares his journey into the world of communication and its essential role in parent-child relationships. Aurelius emphasizes the importance of open, quality communication, particularly during the transition from childhood to adolescence. We explore how culture influences parenting and communication styles, the significance of authentic conversations, and the integration of masculine and feminine energies. Aurelius also highlights the value of humility, self-awareness, and community support in personal growth. The conversation wraps up with insights into fostering deeper connections between parents and children, including a potential future app for tracking and sharing personal stories. Reach out: https://marcushiggs.com/ 00:00 Introduction and Technical Difficulties 02:44 Miscommunication and the Human Condition 05:19 The Impact of Technology on Communication 08:32 Recognizing and Analyzing Behavior Patterns 13:35 The Importance of Stress and Community in Growth 16:47 The Role of Peers in Adolescence 19:08 The Need for Authentic Conversations 21:25 Embracing Masculine and Feminine Energies 23:53 The Value of Humility and Learning from Others 26:08 Being True to Yourself and Embracing Uniqueness 34:34 Self-Awareness and Confidence 37:18 The Illusion of Materialism 43:35 The Importance of Community and Relationships 52:47 Overcoming Insecurity and Seeking Validation…

Welcome to Rebuilding The Village with your host, Michael Read. Today, Tammy Cox, a marriage relationship coach, shares her journey from a difficult childhood to a balanced and healthy marriage. Tammy emphasizes the importance of healing old wounds, particularly for women who have made themselves small in relationships. She advocates for both partners to work on themselves, reclaim their power, and meet in the middle to overcome imbalance and control. We also explore the impact of feminism on marriage, with Tammy highlighting the need for both men and women to rise to the occasion and create fulfilling relationships. She discusses the importance of being intentional with thoughts and emotions, and connects the health of one’s marriage to their relationship with themselves. Tammy shares insights from her Reclaim Your Marriage program, focusing on healing and building a blissful partnership. Reach out: https://reclaimurmarriage.com/mini-course-page 00:00 Introduction and Background 05:14 Personal Journey of Healing and Transformation 11:19 Recognizing Patterns and Changing Behaviors 18:48 The Power of Trauma Therapy 25:11 Common Issues in Relationships 32:44 Root Causes of Relationship Issues 35:06 The Impact of Feminism on Marriage 37:03 Taking Responsibility for Your Beliefs 43:28 Being Intentional with Thoughts and Emotions 46:41 Trial and Error in Relationships 50:55 Finding Joy in Everyday Life 56:48 Beliefs and Self-Judgment 01:03:41 Letting Go of Shame and Judgment 01:09:56 The Importance of Self-Care…

Welcome to another episode of Rebuilding The Village with your host, Michael Read. In this episode, Kevin Palmieri, the creator of Next Level University, shares his transformative journey from a life of external success and internal emptiness to discovering his true self and building a platform for personal growth. We discuss the importance of self-awareness, deep conversations, and unlearning old beliefs to live a more conscious and fulfilling life. Kevin emphasizes the need to face fears and focus on personal growth to improve relationships, mindset, and overall well-being. We also explore the various resources offered by Next Level University, including podcasts, coaching, journals, and events, all designed to help individuals achieve their goals. Additionally, Kevin talks about the growth of the business, the expansion of new departments, and the increased focus on the Next Level Hope Foundation, a charity dedicated to supporting kids and families. Reach out: Website: www.nextleveluniversity.com 00:00 Introduction and Background 02:57 The Journey from External Success to Internal Fulfillment 10:09 The Power of Self-Awareness and Deep Conversations 17:31 Embracing Weaknesses as Opportunities for Growth 22:54 Stepping Out of Comfort Zones for Personal Development 28:12 Next Level University: Resources for Personal Growth 33:58 Building the Infrastructure for a Large Business 45:24 Focusing on Podcast Coaching…

Welcome to another episode of Rebuilding The Village with your host, Michael Read. In this episode, Dominique D'Vita, a nurse and tantra coach, discusses the practice of tantra and its impact on relationships and personal growth. We discuss how tantra, originating in India over 5,000 years ago, goes beyond tantric sex to expand consciousness, improve relationships, and connect deeply with oneself and others. We explore self-love practices, balancing masculine and feminine energies, and the importance of self-care in creating fulfilling relationships. Reach out: Website: https://yestantra.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@YesTantra 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:35 The Power of Self-Love 06:32 Healing Childhood Wounds 09:54 Improving Relationships 29:29 Men's Mental Health and Tantra 34:26 Polarity and Energetic Dynamics in Relationships 39:00 Confidence, Playfulness, and Connection 43:19 Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energies 45:22 The Connection Between Emotional Well-being and Sexual Performance 51:25 Creating Soulful Relationships Through Tantra 54:03 Embracing Discomfort and Growth 01:09:46 The Therapeutic Power of Dance and Movement 01:11:38 The Inner World and Outer World Connection 01:16:36 The Importance of Inner Peace in Relationships…

This episode touches on delicate topics such as mental illness and self-inflicted harm. If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, call 1-800-273-TALK(8255) or dial 988. Welcome to another episode of Rebuilding The Village with your host, Michael Read. In this episode, Kaden Mattinson, director of Mending Minds Village, shares her personal journey and the challenges of her daughter's DMDD diagnosis, emphasizing early intervention for children with autism. We explore the impact of trauma, the importance of community support, and the need for open conversations about mental health to promote resilience and well-being. In this episode, we interview the director of Mending Minds Village about his personal journey and the work he does in mental health and suicide prevention. He discusses the importance of early diagnosis for children with autism, the impact of trauma, and the need for community support and open conversations to promote resilience and well-being. Reach out: www.kadenmattinson.com Phone # 801-259-3312 Grab a copy: https://amzn.to/3WFBkAp 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:52 Early Diagnosis and Intervention for Autism 09:58 The Impact of Trauma on Mental Health 18:06 Building Support Systems for Mental Health 25:24 The Importance of Open Conversations about Mental Health 40:42 The Power of Family and Community Connections 44:17 Inclusivity, Support, and Nurturing in Raising Resilient Children 46:40 Embracing Failure and Learning from Mistakes for Personal Growth 53:18 Raising Resilient Children: Strategies for Youth Empowerment 01:06:46 Mending Minds Village: Supporting Children and Families Facing Mental Health Challenges…

This episode touches on delicate topics such as mental illness and self-inflicted harm. If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, call 1-800-273-TALK(8255) or dial 988. Welcome to another episode of Rebuilding The Village with your host, Michael Read. In this episode, Kaden Mattinson, director of Mending Minds Village, shares her personal journey and the challenges of her daughter's DMDD diagnosis, emphasizing early intervention for children with autism. We explore the impact of trauma, the importance of community support, and the need for open conversations about mental health to promote resilience and well-being. In this episode, we interview the director of Mending Minds Village about his personal journey and the work he does in mental health and suicide prevention. He discusses the importance of early diagnosis for children with autism, the impact of trauma, and the need for community support and open conversations to promote resilience and well-being. Reach out: www.kadenmattinson.com Phone # 801-259-3312 Grab a copy: https://amzn.to/3WFBkAp 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:52 Early Diagnosis and Intervention for Autism 09:58 The Impact of Trauma on Mental Health 18:06 Building Support Systems for Mental Health 25:24 The Importance of Open Conversations about Mental Health 40:42 The Power of Family and Community Connections 44:17 Inclusivity, Support, and Nurturing in Raising Resilient Children 46:40 Embracing Failure and Learning from Mistakes for Personal Growth 53:18 Raising Resilient Children: Strategies for Youth Empowerment 01:06:46 Mending Minds Village: Supporting Children and Families Facing Mental Health Challenges…

Welcome to another episode of Rebuilding The Village with your host, Michael Read. In this episode, Lance Hillsinger, a retired social worker, discusses the challenges in the child welfare system and the impact of poverty on families. The conversation explores the importance of community support, the differences in behavior and success between boys and girls, and the influence of societal factors on behavior. We also touch on the decline of male role models, the consequences of automation, and the need for holistic policies to address these complex issues. Reach out: Website: https://www.lancehillsinger.net/ Grab his new book: https://amzn.to/3WTKTvX 00:00 Introductions and Background 02:03 Child Welfare and Legal Representation 08:14 Drug Use and Child Welfare 11:16 The Impact of Poverty and Financial Stability 14:08 Society's Perception of Work and Responsibility 21:46 The Effects of Overprotective Parenting 26:14 Differences in Behavior between Boys and Girls 29:46 Teaching Nonfiction Writing and Practical Skills to Engage Boys 35:15 The Influence of Societal Factors on Behavior and Relationships 37:10 The Role of Outside Influences and the Importance of Structure 44:38 Gender Dynamics in Career Choices and Dating Preferences 56:40 The Importance of Purpose and Community 59:49 The Decline of Social Organizations 01:02:24 The Challenges of Affordable Housing 01:05:00 The Significance of Nutrition…

Welcome to another episode of Rebuilding The Village with your host, Michael Read. In this episode, Stefan shares his journey from dating coach to AI entrepreneur, discussing the current state of the dating scene. The conversation delves into the impact of dating apps and social media, highlighting issues of low standards and inauthenticity. We also explore the dynamics of approaching women, the challenges faced by both men and women in dating, and the importance of setting boundaries and being authentic. Additionally, we touch on the transition from dating coaching to developing an AI tool for generating high-quality blog articles. Reach out: Website: ModernIQs.com LinkedIn - Stefan Fehr: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stefan-fehr/ LinkedIn - ModernIQs: https://www.linkedin.com/company/moderniqs/ X - Stefan Fehr: https://twitter.com/StefanFehrAC FB - Stefan Fehr: https://www.facebook.com/stefan.fehr.35/ FB - ModernIQs: https://www.facebook.com/moderniqs YouTube - ModernIQs: https://www.youtube.com/@moderniqs/videos 00:00 From Dating Coach to AI Entrepreneur 03:07 The Impact of Dating Apps on the Dating Scene 06:28 The Importance of Authenticity and Setting Boundaries 10:17 The Fear of Rejection and Overcoming It 15:07 Having Fun and Enjoying the Dating Process 25:30 Overthinking and Missed Opportunities 30:45 The Impact of Social Media on Dating 33:14 The Distortion of Reality in Dating Narratives 37:26 Using AI to Generate High-Quality Blog Articles 41:31 Empowering Women through Coaching in Dating…

Welcome to another episode of Rebuilding The Village with your host, Michael Read. In this episode, Randi Casey, a funeral director, shares insights into the funeral industry, the licensing process, and the personal and emotional aspects of working in the field. The conversation covers the impact of COVID-19 on funeral services, the changing nature of funeral personalization, and the challenges of grief and mourning. We also explore cultural and generational differences in dealing with death, the significance of pre-arranging funerals, and the growing popularity of cremation, as well as the emotional and practical aspects of balancing personal and professional life in the funeral industry. Randi Goldstein-Casey is the Senior Vice President and Funeral Director at Goldsteins' Funeral Home, a third-generation family business. With a B.A. from Temple University and a Funeral Directing certificate from Mercer County Community College, Randi combines compassion with professionalism, guiding families through funeral arrangements and supporting them through their grief. She also manages the company's communications and marketing, actively participates in community events, and is involved in mental health initiatives in the Philadelphia area. Reach out: Website: https://www.goldsteinsfuneral.com/ Phone number: 215-927-5800 00:00 Introduction and Family Legacy in the Funeral Industry 02:51 The Impact of COVID-19 on Funeral Services 07:01 Grief and Mourning: Navigating the Emotional Landscape 25:00 The Dynamics of a Family Business: Growing Up in a Funeral Home 32:08 Cultural and Generational Perspectives on Funerals and Grief 47:24 The Impact of Technology on Funeral Services 50:32 The Significance of Pre-Arranging Funerals 59:26 The Emotional and Practical Aspects of Working in the Funeral Industry…