Many of us are entering the new year with a similar goal — to build community and connect more with others. To kick off season five, Priya Parker shares ideas on how to be the host with the most. An expert on building connection, Priya is the author of “The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters.” Whether it's a book club, wedding, birthday or niche-and-obscurely themed party, Priya and Chris talk about how to create meaningful and fun experiences for all of your guests — including yourself. For the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/BHTranscripts . For the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/BHTranscripts Want to help shape TED’s shows going forward? Fill out our survey here ! Learn more about TED Next at ted.com/futureyou Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.…
”As I was Saying Podcast” is a lively and insightful podcast hosted by two African-Australians, offering unique perspective on life, culture and relationships. Each episode delves into personal stories, cultural reflections and the dynamics of relationships within the African Diaspora in Australia. With humour, warmth and authenticity, the hosts bridge the gap between their heritage and their Australian upbringing, creating a space for candid conversations and shared experiences. Whether discussing the nuances of identity, navigating societal expectations or cultural traditions.
”As I was Saying Podcast” is a lively and insightful podcast hosted by two African-Australians, offering unique perspective on life, culture and relationships. Each episode delves into personal stories, cultural reflections and the dynamics of relationships within the African Diaspora in Australia. With humour, warmth and authenticity, the hosts bridge the gap between their heritage and their Australian upbringing, creating a space for candid conversations and shared experiences. Whether discussing the nuances of identity, navigating societal expectations or cultural traditions.
We are getting real about identity, culture, and the moments we realized that growing up African in Australia was a whole different experience from that of our Aussie peers. We unpack the culture clashes, the double consciousness of navigating two worlds, and the unique beauty in that blend. It's not about better or worse—it’s about recognising the differences, laughing at the awkward moments, and honoring how our heritage shaped who we are today.…
We're asking the question: If your life was a movie, what would it look like? Would it be a heart-pounding thriller? A slow-burn drama? Maybe a comedy full of awkward moments and unexpected laughs? Or even a horror film—cue the plot twists and life lessons. This isn't just about genres and storylines, though. It's about reflecting on how we see ourselves, the roles we play, the challenges we've overcome, and the kind of main character energy we're bringing into our lives.…
oday, we’re diving into a mindset shift that can truly change your life: Gratitude is a must . In a world that often pushes us to focus on what’s missing or what’s next, we’re taking a moment to recognize the power of simply being thankful for what we have right now.
In the episode, we talked about things from the past that we’d love to bring back—some that made us smile, and others that sparked debate. From old-school cartoons and childhood snacks to retro fashion and the slower pace of life before smartphones, we shared the nostalgia that still holds a special place in our hearts. But we also touched on things that might not be so great to bring back, like outdated mindsets or trends that probably should stay in the past. It was a fun mix of memories and reflections on how the past still influences what we value today.…
In the episode, we talked about how kids today are growing up to become the next population of people shaping the world—some for the better, and some not so much. We explored how their environment, influences, and the choices being made around them are molding who they’ll become as adults. From young leaders already showing promise to troubling trends in behavior and values, we dove into both the hopeful and concerning sides of this upcoming generation. It was a real conversation about what kind of future we’re heading toward, depending on how these kids grow, learn, and lead…
In this episode, we explore the intriguing question of whether you can hold your partner responsible for what happens in your dreams. We dive into the psychology behind dreams, discussing how they are shaped by our subconscious mind, emotions, and experiences, rather than external control.
In this episode, we talk about the importance of personal space and boundaries, and how sometimes, we just need to be left alone. Whether it’s needing silence in the bathroom, not wanting surprise visits when we’re sick, or just having time to recharge, respecting these boundaries is crucial for maintaining our mental and emotional well-being. We explore why some of us crave solitude in certain situations, and how honoring those needs can strengthen relationships and lead to greater understanding. Tune in as we dive into how respecting personal space is an essential part of creating healthy, balanced connections with the people around us.…
In this episode, we dive into the age-old question: "Do nice guys finish last?" and explore whether being nice really pays off in today's world. We’ll examine the challenges and rewards of kindness, and whether being considerate, empathetic, and generous leads to success or leaves you behind. Is there a hidden cost to always putting others first, or do nice guys find their way to the top in the long run? Tune in as we discuss how kindness can shape our personal and professional lives, and why it's so important to stay true to our values while navigating the complexities of life.…
In this episode, we talk about the importance of apologising as loudly as we accuse. It's easy to point fingers and place blame when things go wrong, but it’s just as crucial to take responsibility for our own actions and offer sincere apologies when needed. Apologising with the same intensity ensures that we acknowledge the impact of our behavior and show respect to others. It fosters accountability, heals relationships, and demonstrates emotional maturity. Just as accusations can leave lasting effects, a well-delivered apology can create an opportunity for growth, understanding, and resolution. Balancing both is key to maintaining trust and harmony in any relationship.…
In this episode, we discuss the importance of knowing when to leave after visiting someone’s house, especially if you're staying overnight. While it’s great to spend time with friends or family, it’s crucial to recognize when your visit has overstayed its welcome. We explore how staying too long can sometimes create tension or make the host feel burdened, even if they’re too polite to say it. Understanding the subtle cues, respecting personal space, and being mindful of the host’s routine is key to maintaining good relationships. Knowing when to leave—not just physically, but also emotionally—ensures that everyone feels comfortable and appreciated. After all, a good guest knows that sometimes, the best way to show gratitude is to leave at the right moment.…
In this episode, we talk about the importance of being cautious when taking advice from others—especially from people who don’t truly understand you. It’s easy to fall into the trap of listening to well-meaning advice from friends, family, or even strangers, but if they don’t get your unique situation, values, or goals, their advice might not be the best fit. We discuss how important it is to seek guidance from those who genuinely know you, your strengths, and your challenges, because their insights are more likely to be in alignment with what’s right for you. Ultimately, trusting your own instincts and surrounding yourself with people who have a real understanding of who you are can make all the difference in navigating life’s decisions.…
In this episode, we dive deep into the world of social media and discuss which platforms we use the most, and why. From the fast-paced scroll of Twitter to the visually-driven appeal of Instagram, we dissect what each platform brings to the table. We break down how they shape our daily routines, connect us with others, and influence what we see, share, and interact with. Whether it’s the endless entertainment of TikTok, the professional networking power of LinkedIn, or the familiar comfort of Facebook, we explore how these platforms impact our lives, for better or worse, and try to understand the unique role each one plays in our digital experience.…
In this episode, we dive into the details surrounding Sean Kingston's fraud case, exploring who is ultimately responsible for the controversy. The case involves allegations of fraud tied to financial dealings, and we unpack the roles played by Kingston himself, his associates, and the entities involved. Through careful... ok silly examination, we highlight the factors that led to the situation and discuss the legal implications for everyone connected to the case.…
"Zombie friends" are the kind of people who drift in and out of your life, never truly sticking around. They might disappear for long stretches, leaving you wondering where they went, only to resurface when they need something—be it attention, support, or just a familiar face. They don’t make the effort to nurture the relationship when times are good, yet expect you to drop everything when they return. These friendships are draining, as they tend to only show up when it’s convenient for them, leaving you to feel like a placeholder in their life. Just like a zombie, they pop back in without warning, but with little regard for how much they’ve been gone or how much they ask of you when they return.…
In this episode we jokingly agree that "adulting is a lie," reflecting on the pressure to have everything figured out while constantly feeling uncertain. We discuss how society portrays adulthood as a time of stability and success, but in reality, it's filled with unexpected hurdles, financial stress, and the constant need to make tough decisions. Finding comfort in our shared frustration, acknowledging that no one truly has all the answers.…
In this episode, we explore the concept of learning how to suffer, especially when you're in a relationship. Life throws challenges our way, and it’s easy to feel isolated in our struggles, but when you have a partner, it’s important to figure out how to bring them in and lean on each other during tough times. We discuss the vulnerability that comes with letting someone in on your pain, how to balance supporting each other without feeling overwhelmed, and the importance of growing together through hardship. It’s all about finding that space where both partners can be there for each other—acknowledging that suffering doesn’t have to be a solo experience, and sometimes, sharing it can make it a little more bearable.…
In this episode, we dive into the complex world of identity politics, specifically exploring the question of whether we should continue supporting celebrities or public figures we like no matter what, or if it's sometimes necessary to call them out—or even walk away—when their actions or views don’t align with our values. We examine the balance between loyalty and accountability, and whether it's possible to separate the art from the artist or the public persona from the person. Is it worth holding on to that connection, or do we owe it to ourselves to stand up and make difficult decisions, even if it means letting go of someone we once admired? It's a tricky conversation that digs into how our identities shape the way we navigate our relationships with people in the public eye.…
In this episode, we dive into the challenge of getting back into the groove of recording the podcast after a break and how tough it can be to regain that momentum. Life happens, things get busy, and suddenly, that consistency you had built starts to slip away. We discuss the mental blocks that pop up when you're trying to start again, the pressure to pick up where you left off, and how difficult it is to get back into the rhythm once you’ve been away for a while. But we also talk about the importance of pushing through that initial resistance, setting small, manageable goals, and finding the motivation to get back on track – because consistency is key, and it’s always worth it in the end…