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Decoding Your Dreams with Bonnie Buckner, PhD | 337 35:25

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We all dream. Every night. Whether we remember them or not. And maybe — just maybe — those dreams aren’t random, ridiculous, or irrelevant. Maybe they’re trying to tell us something we’re too distracted, too busy, or too burned out to hear while we’re awake. Here to help us decode the language of dreams is Dr. Bonnie Buckner — founder of the International Institute for Dreaming and Imagery®, executive coach, faculty director at GWU’s Center for Excellence in Public Leadership, and author of The Secret Mind: Unlock the Power of Your Dreams to Transform Your Life . She’s spent her career teaching people how to use dreaming and imagery for personal growth, leadership, and creative breakthroughs . We explore: Why your dreams are worth paying attention to (even the weird ones) The science and strategy behind using dreams for personal development How feelings and subconscious wisdom can point to answers What to do if you don’t remember your dreams Why slowing down might be the key to speeding up your clarity Because what if the clarity you're chasing isn't out there — it's already in you, waiting for you to slow down, shut off, and tune in? Connect with Bonnie: Website: https://bonniebuckner.com/ Book: https://bonniebuckner.com/the-secret-mind/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/dreamwithiidi/ Related Podcast Episodes: How To Rewire Patterns That No Longer Serve You with Judy Wilkins-Smith | 323 The Icelandic Art of Intuition with Hrund Gunnsteinsdóttir | 307 The Astrology Advantage with Tali Edut of The AstroTwins | 301 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Addicting conversations between friends who have been there, done that and still want more.

We are 3 friends who got this crazy idea to start a podcast based on our friendships, family lives, professional lives and experiences! This idea kept coming up in our conversations, especially after a cocktail or two or maybe three, and we finally decided to ACT on it!
We don't claim to be experts on too many things, but friendship? Well, we've got that down. We're making our way through major life changes, searching for work that excites us, busting myths associated with 'old' people, and keeping a sense of humor about it all.
Self employed, boss - CHECK
Mom, wife, single - CHECK
Rural, suburban, urban life - CHECK
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Make sure to subscribe to our channel ~ FOMO is real and it sucks.
Amy, Kitty & Stacey
P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

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Addicting conversations between friends who have been there, done that and still want more.

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#Society #Travel #Relationship #Conversations #Amy, Kitty & Stacey #Friends #Humor #Women #Over #After Life #Lessons #Professional #Cocktails #Advice #Change

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The Final Episode: Reflections on Our Podcast Journey 34:39

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Three friends raise their red mocktails in a bittersweet toast as they announce their final podcast episode after nearly two years of weekly recordings. What began as pandemic-era Zoom calls evolved into a journey that pushed them far beyond their comfort zones, teaching them valuable lessons about technology, friendship, and embracing change. "When you let something go, it doesn't mean it was a failure. It means it was accomplished," one host reflects, capturing the spirit of this farewell conversation. The trio looks back at favorite moments – from interviewing reluctant but ultimately enthusiastic guests to documenting their adventures in Paris, Florence, and Venice despite minimal language skills. They reminisce about episodes that resonated most with listeners, including discussions about making new friends in midlife, career transitions, and personal growth. Throughout their podcasting journey, these women navigated significant life changes together. One returned to a relationship after five years apart, another received news of becoming a grandmother, and all three made career shifts that transformed their daily lives. One host shares how she finally established a consistent exercise routine after leaving her corporate job, noting that sometimes we need decompression periods before we can move forward: "It just wasn't time yet... but then, all of a sudden, it was time." As they transition back to private weekly Zoom calls – "scheduling friendship" as they call it – the hosts express gratitude to their loyal listeners and leave the door open for possible "special edition" episodes for major life announcements. Their parting wisdom: "Do the thing and surround yourself with people who will cheer you on" and "Pour your energies into the good things that you want to happen." Want more inspiration for embracing change and stepping outside your comfort zone? Follow our Facebook page, where the conversation continues even as this chapter closes. Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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Italy Uncorked: Amy & Stacey Navigate Heat, History, and Hidden Gems 43:17

6 weeks 전43:17

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Two friends, two carry-ons, and one unforgettable Italian adventure! Amy and Stacey take us along on their summer journey through Florence, Venice, and beyond, sharing candid insights that will inspire even hesitant travelers to pack their bags. Their contrasting travel styles create the perfect balance – Stacey embraces the "we've never been there so how do we know it's not great?" philosophy while Amy researches options meticulously. This partnership leads them to unique accommodations including an art-filled Florentine apartment where royal family portraits hang in bathrooms and an unexpected boxing match unfolds outside their window. The duo navigates Italy's efficient train system between cities, discovering the charm of Murano island with its legendary glass blowing traditions and comically tiny showers where "if you drop the soap, you have to turn everything off and open the door to retrieve it." They explore Florence's historic wine doors from a vintage VW van, tour Chianti vineyards with fascinating backstories, and battle 99-degree heat that transforms museum visits into endurance challenges. What makes this episode particularly valuable is their practical wisdom for everyday travelers. They debunk common fears about language barriers, demonstrate how to pack efficiently for extended international trips, and show that meaningful travel doesn't require expertise – just willingness to embrace new experiences. Their genuine enthusiasm for discovery comes through in every story, from hunting perfect Murano glass souvenirs to sipping Negronis (despite finding them "awful") and shipping home Italian wines. Have you been putting off international travel? Listen as these friends prove that with minimal planning, reasonable budgets, and open minds, unforgettable adventures await. Where will your next journey take you? Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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Lottery Dreams: What Would You Do With $200 Million? 38:06

7 weeks 전38:06

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What would you do with $200 million? It's the ultimate daydream – one that reveals surprising truths about our values, relationships, and what we find most burdensome in daily life. We discovered that fantasizing about lottery winnings can actually be therapeutic. As one host explains, imagining how she'd distribute newfound wealth helps pull her out of bad moods. It's pure fantasy without the disappointment of reality crashing in. Beyond the expected luxuries (dream homes with pools and personal chefs), the conversation takes thoughtful turns. They debate the wisdom of lump sum versus annuity payments, strategies for gifting money to family without creating dependency or resentment, and how to maintain friendships when sudden wealth creates imbalance. One particularly clever idea: creating a "girlfriend travel fund" ensuring annual trips with friends who might not otherwise be able to afford them. What's most revealing are their charitable priorities. Libraries with banned books included, funds ensuring no child misses a school field trip due to family finances, and endowments that continue giving perpetually. These choices reflect deeply held values about education, opportunity, and equity. Curiously absent from their wish lists: fancy cars, designer clothes, and ostentatious displays of wealth. Instead, their desires center around freedom from daily burdens, meaningful experiences, and positive impact. As one host notes, the chances of winning are infinitesimal – "you're more likely to die in a vending machine accident" – but that doesn't diminish the pleasure of the thought experiment. What would YOUR lottery list reveal about what matters most to you? Share your thoughts and join us for this delightful conversation that's less about money and more about examining what we truly value. Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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Pickleball, Pride, and Pursuing New Connections: The Friendship Project Continues 39:58

8 weeks 전39:58

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The journey to forge meaningful adult friendships continues as we check in on month four of our year-long Friendship Project. Overcoming the inertia of social isolation takes creativity, courage, and sometimes just a flat driveway and some pickleball paddles! Stacey shares her brilliant success story of inviting six neighbor women for casual pickleball games, creating a regular gathering where the breaks have become everyone's favorite part. "The best part is when we sit in my lawn chairs, chat, and then finally one of us will say, 'We have to get up and play some more,'" she explains. This organic approach to deepening casual relationships has created consistent social connections that everyone looks forward to. Meanwhile, Amy describes her strategy of making "micro-connections" through thoughtful social media engagement, discovering how these small touchpoints can blossom into rekindled friendships. Kitty reveals how she's leveraging professional online groups to create relationships that will transition to in-person connections at an upcoming convention. Looking ahead to month five, we outline practical next steps for strengthening these budding friendships, including follow-up texts, transitioning group acquaintances into deeper one-on-one relationships, and attending community events with a new mindset. As Kitty reflects on an upcoming concert, "I don't give a crap if we're going with somebody or meeting somebody up there. I just want to go, just the two of us, and who knows who we'll run into?" Join us to learn how small, intentional actions can break through social barriers and create meaningful connections in adulthood. What friendship-building strategy might work for you? Listen, try something new, and let us know how it goes! Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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Forgiveness Isn't Forgetting. It's Freedom! 55:03

9 weeks 전55:03

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Ever held onto a grudge only to realize it was weighing you down more than the person who hurt you? In this illuminating conversation with our friend Deanna, a certified faith-based counselor, we unpack what forgiveness truly means and why it's critical for our emotional health. Forgiveness isn't about pretending nothing happened. As Deanna explains, it's making "a commitment to no longer hold the offender to a standard of moral liability before you." In other words, it's letting them off YOUR hook of justice – not eliminating consequences altogether. This distinction completely changed our understanding of what it means to forgive. The cost of unforgiveness is steep. Deanna walks us through the emotional ladder we climb when we refuse to forgive: from hurt to anger to resentment to bitterness and finally to hatred. Meanwhile, the person who wronged us is often "tripping through the tulips," completely unaffected by our internal turmoil. When we grasp this reality, forgiveness becomes an act of self-liberation rather than a gift to the offender. We tackle tough questions you've probably wrestled with: Should we forgive people who don't think they've done anything wrong? Is "forgive and forget" actually possible? How do you forgive someone who's no longer in your life? And how does setting boundaries play into the forgiveness process? Deanna's insights on these questions are both practical and profound. Whether you're struggling to forgive someone who deeply hurt you, wondering if you should reconcile after betrayal, or simply curious about what healthy forgiveness really looks like, this conversation offers a roadmap for moving forward. As Deanna reminds us, "Forgiveness is worth it. Forgiveness is necessary. All relationships flourish with it." Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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Reboot Reflections - Hollywood's Recycling Machine 48:39

10 weeks 전48:39

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What happens when beloved stories from our past get reimagined for today? The Four Seasons, a 1981 film starring Alan Alda and Carol Burnett, recently received the Netflix treatment as an eight-episode series. This transformation provides the perfect lens to examine how our storytelling, character development, and cultural values have evolved over forty years. The original film centered on three couples who vacation together throughout the year until one husband abruptly divorces his wife and introduces a younger girlfriend into their tight-knit circle. While this core premise remains in the Netflix reboot, the modern version dives deeper into the emotional complexities and friendship dynamics that ensue. One fascinating revelation: while the basic human emotions around friendship breakups haven't changed much, social media has profoundly altered how these ruptures unfold. As one host notes, "What you didn't know didn't hurt you" in the pre-digital era – but today, we're constantly confronted with visual evidence of events we weren't invited to. Perhaps the most striking evolution appears in how women are portrayed. The 1981 film presented female characters primarily as "the wives," reacting to their husbands' actions despite being smart and witty in their own right. Fast forward to the Netflix series, and we find women as entrepreneurs, therapists, and creatives with full agency and independent storylines. In some cases, the dynamic flips entirely, with female characters taking on the dominant roles their male counterparts occupied in the original. This shift reflects four decades of progress in how we represent women in media. The conversation extends beyond The Four Seasons to consider other classics that have been (or perhaps should be) remade. Some, like The Ten Commandments, might benefit tremendously from modern cinematography and storytelling approaches. Others, like The Sound of Music, stand perfectly well on their own. What makes a reboot worthwhile? When it honors the original while bringing something new to the conversation – exactly what the Four Seasons series managed to accomplish. Have you watched both versions? We'd love to hear which elements you think were most successfully updated for today's world. Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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Everyone Has That One Thing That Sends Them Over the Edge. We Have A Few! 44:47

11 weeks 전44:47

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What small things make your blood boil? Those tiny, seemingly insignificant behaviors or mistakes that somehow manage to drive you absolutely crazy? We're diving headfirst into the therapeutic world of pet peeves in this candid, laugh-out-loud episode. Grammar mistakes top our list of irritations. From the cringe-worthy "these ones" and "irregardless" to people who say "I seen that," we're letting loose about the language errors that make our skin crawl. As one of us points out, "It makes you sound uneducated, and I would think you'd want to improve." But our venting doesn't stop there. The marketing world gives us plenty to complain about, particularly with misleading product descriptions. "Vegan leather" – an oxymoron deserving special scorn – alongside "almond milk" and "cauliflower rice" exemplify how language gets twisted for sales purposes. Meanwhile, social interactions provide endless material: conversation dominators, one-uppers, and people who simply cannot read social cues that it's time to wrap things up. Technology and media haven't escaped our notice either. News programs that tease stories only to deliver them at the broadcast's end, vague social media posts asking for "thoughts and prayers" without context, and those multi-post Twitter threads that force readers to hunt for information all earn our collective eye-rolling. We wrap up by comparing our grievances with the "official" top ten pet peeves, finding common ground in universal irritations like loud chewing, chronic tardiness, and the office criminal who reheats fish at lunchtime. This episode serves as both comic relief and validation – you're definitely not alone in being bothered by life's little annoyances! What's your biggest pet peeve? We'd love to hear what drives you crazy. And feel free to share this episode with that friend who's guilty of your particular irritation. As we say, "Blame it on us – we've got big shoulders." Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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Breaking Free From The Comparison Trap 42:36

12 weeks 전42:36

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Have you ever caught yourself scrolling through social media and suddenly feeling inadequate? Or glanced sideways at a colleague's success while trying to stay in your lane? The comparison trap has a sneaky way of creeping into our lives, stealing our joy and zapping our confidence in milliseconds. In this deeply relatable conversation, we unpack the various ways comparison manifests in our lives – from coveting the seemingly perfect lives of social media influencers to measuring ourselves against colleagues' successes and even comparing our current selves to who we once were. We explore how comparison operates on multiple levels and why it can feel so difficult to escape its clutches. The discussion takes an honest turn as we share personal struggles with comparison and the self-doubt that follows. We examine how social media creates unrealistic benchmarks for success and happiness, showcasing curated versions of reality that nobody – not even the influencers themselves – can actually maintain. But this isn't just about identifying the problem; we offer practical strategies to break free: unfollowing accounts that trigger negative feelings, focusing on your unique journey, practicing gratitude, and celebrating others' successes without feeling diminished. Perhaps most powerfully, we discuss the importance of extending grace to ourselves. As one host notes, "The comparison trap is the opposite of grace." Learning to accept where we are right now doesn't mean giving up on growth – it means acknowledging our humanity and treating ourselves with the compassion we'd easily offer others. Ready to break free from the comparison trap? Listen now, and remember this powerful affirmation: "My worth isn't up for comparison. My story is mine alone." Subscribe, share your experiences with comparison, and let us know what topics you'd like us to explore in future episodes! Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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Things We Just Don't Get 46:10

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Ever found yourself staring blankly at something that absolutely refuses to make sense? You're not alone. In this hilarious and relatable episode, we dive headfirst into life's most persistent mysteries – those things we just don't get no matter how many times they're explained. Retirement savings limitations kick off our confusion tour. Why, when you're finally making enough money to seriously save for retirement, does the government cap how much you can put away tax-free? This leads us down the rabbit hole of unnecessarily complicated tax systems. We've all seen the memes about the IRS making you guess what you owe – but the frustrating reality isn't far off! The conversation takes a turn toward the automotive when we ponder why anyone would want their car to be louder with dual mufflers, or trucks to be higher with lift kits. Is there a practical purpose, or is it just about making a statement? Either way, we remain thoroughly perplexed. Things get particularly entertaining when we explore modern slang terms that leave older generations completely bewildered. From "gyat" to "sigma males" to the completely nonsensical "chicken jockey" (apparently something you randomly shout to disrupt quiet moments?), we attempt to decipher the code of Gen Z communication with mixed results. Our conclusion? Maybe every generation creates linguistic barriers specifically to confuse their elders. We also touch on the psychology behind internet trolls, the importance of establishing family "safe words" to protect against sophisticated AI scams, and why meaningful change to broken systems faces such strong resistance. Through it all, we find comfort and humor in our shared confusion. Want to join the conversation? Share the things that leave you scratching your head with us on social media, or submit your own questions for a future episode! And remember – sometimes the best response to life's mysteries is simply "chicken jockey." Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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The Friendship Challenge: Finding Connection in a Digital World 38:54

14 weeks 전38:54

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The friendship drought is real. As we navigate our busy adult lives, making genuine connections becomes increasingly challenging, especially when established friends move away. In this heartfelt episode of Three Cocktails In, Stacey, Kitty, and Amy continue their year-long "Project 2025: Make a New Friend" journey with practical strategies for connection in the digital age. Surprisingly, Facebook groups emerge as friendship goldmines when centered around shared interests. Amy shares how her crafting community has blossomed into meaningful relationships despite members living states apart. The hosts exchange laughs about their collective failure to join new in-person groups last month while acknowledging the very real time constraints that make digital connections so valuable for busy adults. Summer offers unique opportunities for connection, and the conversation sparkles with creative ideas: community education classes that group people by skill level, neighborhood "porch crawls," farmers' markets, local baseball games, and art festivals. The key insight? Consistency matters more than the specific activity—showing up regularly to the same places increases your chances of forming relationships with fellow regulars. The conversation takes a poignant turn as Kitty opens up about the anger she felt when close friends moved away without warning. This resonates deeply as the hosts acknowledge we're entering life stages where retirements and relocations will increasingly challenge our friendship circles. With equal parts humor, vulnerability, and practical advice, this episode validates the struggle while offering a roadmap for connection. Whether you're an introvert seeking digital communities or ready to organize that neighborhood gathering, you'll find strategies that respect your comfort level while gently expanding your social horizons. Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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Beyond the Envelope: Our Take on Oscar Films Two Months Later 39:56

15 weeks 전39:56

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Two months after the Oscars, it's time to revisit the award-winning films with fresh perspectives and honest opinions. Did these movies truly deserve their golden statues, or were some victories more puzzling than impressive? "Conclave" emerges as the unexpected star of our conversation. This papal election drama gained eerie relevance following recent Vatican events, with all hosts agreeing it deserved more than its single Oscar for Best Adapted Screenplay. The film's exploration of church politics, stunning ensemble cast, and nuanced storytelling make it a unanimous recommendation. Meanwhile, Best Picture winner "Anora" proves divisive. Described by one host as "incredibly depressing, disgusting, and dirty," this so-called "indie dramedy" raises questions about what makes a film Oscar-worthy. The revelation that Academy voters weren't previously required to watch all nominated films before voting casts doubt on the legitimacy of past winners, suggesting some victories might be more about marketing than merit. Other films receive varied verdicts: Bob Dylan biopic "A Complete Unknown" surprises Dylan non-fans with its engaging storytelling and Timothée Chalamet's committed performance; "The Brutalist" proves worth its three-hour runtime with Adrian Brody's captivating portrayal of a Holocaust survivor; while horror-satire "Substance" prompts discussion about why established actors like Demi Moore choose such unusual projects. Beyond film analysis, we propose a new segment for future episodes—"Weirdest Thing on Social Media"—sharing bizarre findings that left us scratching our heads. We also touch on Nicole Kidman's impressive work ethic, appearing in countless diverse projects while rumors swirl about her personal life. What Oscar films have you caught up on since March? Which deserved their accolades, and which left you confused? Share your thoughts and recommendations for what we should watch next! Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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Mother Knows Best 45:43

16 weeks 전45:43

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What happens when three lifelong friends tackle the complex, beautiful, and often hilarious topic of motherhood? Heartfelt stories, nostalgic memories, and plenty of laughter. Our journey begins with the TV moms who shaped our expectations—from Carol Brady's perfect flip to Claire Huxtable's groundbreaking career-mom balance. We reflect on how these fictional mothers set up ideals that real motherhood rarely matches. Remember June Cleaver vacuuming in pearls? Or the gloriously eccentric Moira Rose? Some of these characters influenced how we viewed motherhood long before we experienced it ourselves. The conversation turns deeply personal as we share the phrases our mothers said that somehow found their way into our own parenting vocabularies. "Because I said so" becomes the ultimate placeholder when we're too exhausted to explain. "You're fine" and "rub some dirt on it" slip out automatically when faced with minor injuries. We've created our own family sayings too, like "It's hard to be you"—which began as genuine empathy for a four-year-old but evolved into good-natured sarcasm over the years. Most touching are our cherished memories: mothers who created beautiful dinner party deco from odds and ends around the house, the lingering scent of perfume as they headed out for the evening, the calm reassurance during difficult moments of early parenthood. We explore how our relationships with our mothers transformed as we aged, moving from parent-child dynamics to deep adult friendships. Whether your mother taught you everything she knew or kept you out of the kitchen entirely, whether she's still with you or lives on in memories, this episode celebrates the women who shaped us and the mothers we've become. Share your own favorite "mom-ism" with us or tell us which TV mom most influenced your idea of motherhood! Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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What Would You Tuck Inside a Time Capsule? 48:55

17 weeks 전48:55

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What would you tuck inside a time capsule that tells the story of your life right now? What objects capture your authentic self, your daily rhythms, and what brings you joy? More importantly, how do you want to be remembered when you're gone? In this surprisingly deep conversation, Amy, Stacey, and Kitty explore the powerful concept of preservation and legacy. What begins as a lighthearted discussion about childhood time capsules quickly evolves into a thoughtful examination of what truly matters in our lives and the impression we hope to leave behind. Stacey reveals how her basement has become an unintentional museum of memories, housing everything from high school clothes to her grandmother's vintage hats from the 1950s. "To most people it's going to say, well, this is just junk. It's more like a museum, I suppose. But I just can't get rid of some of that stuff because it is nostalgic and it does have a story." Kitty shares that she'd include jewelry symbolizing her entrepreneurial journey, a handwritten note to future female entrepreneurs, and the podcast microphone – all emblems of her current happiness. "I'm in this whole new phase of life and it's the happiest I've been in my life, and I want a snapshot of this." Amy contemplates documenting her downtown living experience before her next chapter begins, highlighting how our time capsule selections might change throughout different life stages. The hosts also discuss how preservation methods have evolved from meticulously created photo albums to thousands of digital photos that never get printed. The conversation naturally flows to the deeper question of legacy. "I want to be remembered as somebody who lifts other people up with authenticity and sparkle and helps people feel really great about themselves," Kitty explains. Amy shares her hope to be remembered for bringing laughter and joy, making others feel understood and less alone. Listen in as the trio explores family recipes that create bonds between generations, technology that will become fascinating artifacts for future generations, and the realization that legacy isn't about grand accomplishments but about the impact we have on those closest to us. What would you preserve from your life right now? And how do you hope to be remembered? Join the conversation and let us know your thoughts! Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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When the Right Decision Still Hurts: Exploring Regrets and Confessions 46:19

18 weeks 전46:19

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Raw vulnerability takes center stage as we open our hearts about life's most difficult decisions and their lingering emotional impact. Jay Shetty's quote, "Feeling sad after making the right decision does not mean that it wasn't the right decision," serves as our touchstone while navigating deeply personal territory. Amy bravely shares her recent dating disappointment—how a promising four-month relationship collapsed when her partner discovered her photo in Match.com marketing emails and jumped to conclusions about her honesty. Her story uncovers the specific challenges of dating after fifty, when experience makes us more cautious but doesn't shield us from heartbreak. Her candid questioning—"How could I be this wrong?"—echoes what many of us feel after relationship endings. In perhaps our most vulnerable moment, Kitty confesses about walking away from her first marriage at age 28, a decision that, while ultimately right, left lasting emotional impact. "The who you are at 22 is not who you were meant to stay," she reflects, articulating how personal evolution sometimes necessitates painful choices. Despite knowing her current life with her husband and son is exactly where she belongs, she still carries the weight of having hurt someone deeply. Stacey's reflections center on parenting regrets—wondering if she was present enough during her children's formative years, especially through divorce. Despite raising three successful adults, the question of "could I have done better?" continues to linger, a universal parenting doubt that transcends circumstances. What emerges from our conversation is a powerful truth: none of us had adequate guidance navigating these major life transitions. "There's no manual for this stuff," we acknowledge, highlighting how talking openly about these experiences not only lightens our own burdens but potentially helps others feel less alone in their similar journeys. Ready to hear how three friends support each other through life's most challenging reflections? Listen now, and perhaps find the courage to share your own story with someone who cares. Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…

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We Learned to Type on Computers, They Were Born with Smartphones in Their Hands 43:56

19 weeks 전43:56

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Navigating the complex landscape of generational differences reveals fascinating insights about how we learn, work, and relate to each other. From Baby Boomers and Gen X to Millennials and Gen Z, each generation brings unique perspectives shaped by the world they grew up in. Remember learning how to code in high school without really understanding why? That's the Gen X experience of technology—figuring it out as it evolved, using computers as glorified typewriters in college, and witnessing the birth of the digital world. Meanwhile, younger generations grew up immersed in technology, with Gen Z never knowing a world without smartphones and instant information access. What really stands out is how these technological differences have shaped our approaches to work and life. While Gen X valued job stability and "paying dues," younger generations prioritize learning opportunities and fair compensation—they'll readily move on if a position isn't serving their growth or financial goals. Their fearlessness and self-advocacy challenge traditional workplace cultures in ways that benefit everyone. Perhaps most remarkable is Gen Z's social consciousness and brand loyalty. They're incredibly thoughtful about where they spend their money, supporting companies that align with their values on social justice, climate change, and other pressing issues. This approach would have been nearly impossible for previous generations who lacked immediate access to information about corporate practices. The beauty of our multi-generational world is that we can learn from each other. Gen X's adaptability, Millennials' bridge-building between analog and digital worlds, and Gen Z's bold innovation all contribute to collective progress. Rather than focusing on stereotypical differences, we're discovering how these distinct perspectives enrich our workplaces, families, and communities. Ready to understand the generation gaps in your life? Listen now and gain insights that might just transform how you communicate across age divides. Share your own generational observations with us—we'd love to hear what you've learned! Amy, Kitty & Stacey P.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow". Support the show…