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Learn to meet women in genuinely confident and high-quality ways, both in person and online. The presenter is the author of the book Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon.com). Episodes will have a mix of extra, or special case, flirting ideas and material that didn’t fit in the book, as well as topical content and illustrative examples that further illustrate key principles from the book. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this podcast and the associated Y ...
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I recently was reading about how winter is when depression hits the largest number of people, and this is the first time in most of our lifetimes that we have been dealing with something like the pandemic over that normally gloomy winter period. So, some people out there are hurting more than normal due to everything that is going on out there, and…
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Respect. Genuine respect. Today I want to talk about how key, how crucial, paying respect is to success in your process of meeting and connecting with great women. I mean showing respect to the lady. I mean showing respect to her family and friends. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 20…
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Handling Conflict. Conflicts, disagreements and disputes are part of life, and always will be, no matter who you are, how much money you have, or what you situation is in life. How to best handle conflict, anger, and disagreement using key principles from the book is what we dig into in this week’s episode. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's G…
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Three Wins Per Day! What 3 things did you do today to advance your goals in life, to improve yourself? Women, and everyone, loves to see someone who is continuously improving, who is on a trajectory to good things in life. Women love it!!! Becoming the best man you can be doesn’t happen overnight. Just reading my book doesn’t get the job done. The …
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Men: Should you or should you not get married? Is someone trying to pressure you into marriage now? I talk a lot about a man’s various responsibilities in life in the book and on this podcast because a major part of my thesis is that is vital to success in many areas, including success with women. But where does marriage fit into that philosophy? W…
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In this episode I want to talk about dating safety - specifically for men. There is plenty of information and advice available online and elsewhere about safety concerns for women, and rightfully so. Guys need to be careful out there as well. Men can be robbed, or cheated, or harmed. We’ll cover all of the basics, plus some other things that aren’t…
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Are you ever proud of yourself when think back on a time when you have acted like an asshole at work, or in your personal life, with your family or a friend, or in your community? No, right? If you are a good person, which is what you certainly are if you feel drawn to this podcast, the book, and continue to listen to me, that answer is always no. …
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Monogamy. Or not? Is monogamy the way to go, your goal, or not? Is it ok to cheat, or is it not? We get into this thorny and complicated question in this week’s episode. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete te…
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How do you ask for sex? Whether you are just dating someone, or its a lady friend that you are interested in, or you are in a relationship but not getting enough sex, how do you ask for it? How do gentlemen bring the subject of sex up in a nice way, one that isn’t rude, a turn off, or a way that makes you look bad. Background: Book's website: Gentl…
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From men jumping at the first pretty face to dealing with women who want to be in your wife's or girlfriend's place in your life, we have you covered in this week's episode about dealing with various common Traps and Pitfalls of dating success. If you are continuously improving yourself like we call for and describe in the book, if you are always i…
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Let your confidence soar whether you are naked or clothed! In this episode we talk about men’s grooming secrets. Some things may be obvious and second nature to you, and some may be quite unfamiliar. But all of them will help you walk around with the right amount of confidence as you are out there meeting ladies, and otherwise going about your dail…
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In this episode we talk about the pool of available relationship candidates through a lens or perspective called "10-80-10" that I am borrowing from an entirely unrelated discipline - police work and law enforcement. That comparison might sounds nuts, but hear me out. I think looking at the dating and relationship problem domain through different l…
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098 - Self-improvement Series: Handling Awkward Subjects
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Is your lady in need a bit of feedback in some sensitive areas, but it is just too awkward of a topic to bring up? Your hero has you covered. This is another episode in our self-improvement series that we have in support of this channel and podcast. Personal excellence is vital to our whole approach to being the best man that you can be. This is so…
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Struggling to stay informed because of disinformation, clickbait, fake news and liars? Your hero hears you. I've got you covered in this week's video and podcast. This is the first in a self-improvement series that we will do as part of this podcast (and Youtube channel). Excellence, in every sense of the term, is part of the foundation of our whol…
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저자 Gentlemen‘s Guide to Flirting
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Wasting people’s time. We are all on this planet for a finite amount of time. You don’t want to get to the end of your time here with regrets. You also don’t want to waste the limited time you have, nor allow others to waste it for you. In this week’s episode, I want to talk about making effective use of time, and in some cases, being protective of…
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저자 Gentlemen’s Guide to Excellence
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Integrity. We all have an intuitive sense of what the word integrity means, but we might not agree on precisely what it is. I think it will be illuminating to do so, so today we will dig into the topic of integrity. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere e…
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Friendship 101. Are you a good friend? Are you good friend material? Do you have the number of friends you want, or no friends at all, or too many friends If you want to be a better friend, then this is the episode for you. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and an…
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Today I want to talk about knowing where to look. Knowing where to look. And I don’t mean physically where do you find women in general, that’s mostly everywhere in the planet. I mean where do you look at a person to see the real them. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/173679…
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Working the system. One of the lessons I have thoroughly learned in life is about the benefits of what I call "working the system". The world is a tough, competitive place, and you need to give yourself as much advantage and leverage as you can sometimes. We’ll take a look at what I mean by working the system in this week’s episode. Background: Boo…
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No one has a monopoly on good ideas. Oftentimes you can find better ways of doing things or solving problems by being more exposed to others, other countries, other regions, maybe other places in your own country or region, other ways of thinking. Why not let the best ideas bubble up to the top to benefit yourself, your community, or your country. …
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Youth is wasted on the young. You may have heard that expression. If you are a young person, you might think that is what old people say. If you are an old person, maybe you say that with a sense of regret - thinking of missed opportunities or mistakes from your past. Today, I want to talk about this concept, and if there is any knowledge that need…
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You may have heard the expression “An idle mind is the Devil’s workshop”. Okay if an idle mind is the Devil’s workshop, what exactly are you supposed to occupy your mind with? Busywork? What are we supposed to fill our heads with? Is the answer the same for everybody, or does it depend? That is the subject of today’s podcast. Background: Book's web…
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100 more. If you have listened to the podcast for a while, I understand that I might have come off as rather dismissive or uncaring about people who aren’t at what I call Level 3: meaning family wife, partner, children, and your closest friends. But that isn’t the case. Today I want to share how I think about my relationships with people who are no…
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After watching The Tinder Swindler documentary on Netflix and seeing how the ladies victimized got called gold diggers by some when their story broke, I got thinking about real gold diggers and how you - yes you - might have to deal with such a situation in your own life. If you haven’t seen that documentary, you can Google “Tinder Swindler” and re…
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How can you meet a great lady without being creepy or inappropriate in the modern MeToo world? Opportunities in life to connect with that great lady might pass you by if you are too afraid to act or let the world know you are there, or even exist. Being afraid to speak up will likely get you nowhere. Is there a balance that can be struck for well-i…
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Today I share my views on the general topic of jealousy as it relates to dating and relationships. I’ll start with a true story involving someone I used to know that is an example of the worst possible way events can unfold for someone consumed with jealousy. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://…
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Time. We are all on this planet for a finite amount of time. You don’t want to get to the end of your time here with regrets. You also don’t want to waste the limited time you have, nor allow others to waste it for you. In this week’s episode, I want to talk about making effective use of time, and in some cases, being protective of your time. Backg…
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I have conducted the greatest survey of all time on the subject of flirting with and approaching women. Never before in world history has such an impactful and societally-beneficial survey been done. Today, I share the results with you. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/17367…
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This week’s episode is a gift from me to all of humanity. For this week’s work, people are going to erect statues of me in town squares worldwide. They are going to name schools after me. I might get a Nobel Prize for this breakthrough in human culture and understanding. Why might I receive those accolades? I am going to help you read her mind. Yes…
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While I recommend men act in predictably consistent and high-quality ways in all ways and at all times based on the principles and standards from the book, you’ll do better in the dating process if you tailor your approach to each lady based on her likes and personality. That is a wide-ranging topic, but today I want to dig into one specific area y…
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How do you work up the nerve to meet someone new? Being a gentlemen doesn’t mean you have to be one of those last place-finishing nice guys. You can be bold. You can be cocky. You can be audacious even. In this week’s episode, we looking finding the balance between being bold, and being respectful and honest in meeting new, interesting women. Backg…
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The world can be a strange place. People can behave oddly and in ways not aligned with our principles and beliefs from the book. Not everyone will be happy with your success. Not everyone wants to see you stack wins every day. Not everyone wants to see your continuous improvement, and your steady progress toward achieving your goals. Not everyone w…
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Today is the last installment of our three-part series on the ethics of flirting, meeting great women, and dating. We are going to look at a few more common problem areas that you are likely to encounter as you progress through your journey through the wonderful, fun and rewarding world of flirting, dating, and relationships. And you are going to g…
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Tonality. How you say things is at least as important as what you say in many cases. In this week’s episode, we’ll go into what tonality is, talk about several general-purpose best practices, and then examine how they might apply to meeting new women, dating, and relationships. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on…
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Negativity. There’s an abundance of it out in the world right now and it is hard to avoid. You can’t just ignore negativity, or wish it away. So, what are you supposed to do to contain its impacts on your life. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else y…
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The 7-year itch. What does that mean, and is it real? Is your relationship or marriage really doomed after 7 years? Will it start into some sort of decline? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your co…
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In this week’s episode, we talk about the social media platform TikTok. I am testing TikTok to see if there are any free marketing opportunities there for me that might help me move my stuff for sale, and I while I was checking out everything I started to wonder if TikTok might be useful for you guys. So today I want to take you through what I foun…
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In this week’s episode, we talk about something that happened recently that might have been a missed opportunity, something that had great potential for millions of young people, and people of all ages around the world, but it just didn’t get any traction. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www…
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Your temper. This week I want to talk about the very practical subject of how to deal with getting angry, or losing your temper. Unfortunately, daily life is filled with opportunities for this to happen, and I want to share how I think about this topic and deal with it myself. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on …
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What does it mean exactly when someone says they are “living their best life”? Best life? If that is such a thing, how do you go from where you are today to this best life? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider …
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Today we are going continue the deep dive we began in the last episode into the ethics of flirting, meeting great women, and dating. We are going to look into how to think about several aspects and problem areas that you are likely to encounter as you progress through your journey through the wonderful, fun and rewarding world of flirting, dating, …
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Today we are going to look into the subject of the ethics of flirting and dating. What sort of things are good or not so good when it comes to meeting women: your intentions, how you act, the decisions you have to make along the way, your treatment of women, and generally how you think about the whole subject. We’ll do this by talking about some sp…
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096 - History of FLIRTING 2 - Victorian Era Flirting Cards
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저자 Gentlemen‘s Guide to Flirting
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I very intentionally don’t normally discuss topical or news items in this podcast, but in rare cases when I feel I have insights from a particular event that might be useful for you, I’ll speak up. Today is one of those days. As of when I am recording this, February 5th, 2022, popular podcaster and celebrity Joe Rogan got into a great deal of troub…
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We are two years in to the COVID-19 pandemic, and it’s time for another morale boost. In my own life, I continue to see people cracking under this continued stress and pressure. Cracking under pressure, that isn’t us. Yielding or compromising on our standards and principles, that isn’t us. We find a way to thrive in all conditions. But, again, it d…
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Matchmaking. This week I want to talk about what matchmaking services are, should you use such services, and what would be their value to you given you have the Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting book. For those considering a career in matchmaking or relationship coaching, should you provide such services once you have mastered the book or adapted some …
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This week I want to talk about something very current - a very modern problem - and that is striking some sort of productive and healthy balance between your online or digital activities and real life. The draw and appeal of things like Facebook, Youtube, Twitter, Instagram, and online gaming can be so powerful to many folks that it might affect th…
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