A podcast about love, finding yourself, fun tips and reminders about dating, and about surrendering yourself to the unnecessary demands we put on ourselves as humans. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/niki-booker/support
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The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast: Mindful Wisdom and Relationship Insights on How to Find Your Life Partner and Soulmate
Roy Biancalana
If you're single and seeking a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship, yet frustrated with today’s dating scene, you’ve found the right podcast. After going through a divorce, a soul-crushing break-up with his fiancée and a bunch of online drama, Roy Biancalana, our host, went on a journey to learn how to “attract lasting love.” His journey resulted in him becoming a certified relationship coach, the author of three #1 best-selling books, and the creator of this unique podcast. This pod ...
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165 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 4: The Direction—Identifying the Next Step on Your Spiritual Journey
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The path of awakening is a lot like following a trail to the summit of a mountain. First, we must decide if we want to climb “Mount Enlightenment” in the first place. If we do, we then need to find the trail head because that’s when the fun begins. The trail is long, however, with many switchbacks and cliffs, so we need an experienced guide to show…
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164 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 3: The Discovery—Waking Up to Who You Truly Are
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Many think that spiritual awakening leads to a boring life, but it actually leads to a life of engagement, playfulness, and authenticity, a life where the past is powerless, loneliness disappears, and drama ends. In the third episode of this 5-part series, you’ll not only learn that we all are suffering from a severe case of spiritual amnesia, but …
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163 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 2: The Decision—The Moment Your Spiritual Journey Begins
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“Pain is a portal to profound spiritual growth,” says our host, Roy Biancalana. He shares that there is a moment in every person’s life, a dark-night-of-the-soul type moment, where we realize that the well from which we’ve been drinking is dry. It’s at this crucial moment that our spiritual journey CAN begin. We can recognize that our strategies fo…
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162 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 1: The Description—What is Awakening & Why You Should Be Interested
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Many think that spiritual awakening leads to a boring life, one of abstaining and renunciation. They fear it means never having any fun and sitting on a cushion all day saying goofy words like, “Om” and “namaste”. But in this 5-part series, you’ll learn that the opposite is true. In fact, our host, Roy Biancalana, says enlightenment leads to a life…
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161 Roy's Rants (Vol. 2): 4 Things Single People Rarely Do and it Makes Roy’s Head Explode
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Roy is back with another epic rant! The first time Roy unloaded (episode #136), he ranted about things that drive a conscious relationship like himself insane. In this episode, which might feel like someone waking you up out of a deep sleep by dumping a bucket of cold water on your head, Roy rants about 4 things that surprise and confuse him, thing…
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160 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 6 Masculine vs. Feminine
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To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but a…
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159 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 5: Selfish vs. Unselfish
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To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but a…
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158 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 4: Judgement vs Discernment
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To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but a…
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157 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 3: Compassion vs Responsibility
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To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but a…
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156 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 2: Thinking vs Feeling
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To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but a…
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155 Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 1: Acceptance vs. Action
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To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but a…
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154 Michael Singer on How to Stay Centered in a Chaotic World
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Let’s face it: relationships can be a source of great frustration. People do and say things that trigger intense reactions within us, and all too often, because we don’t know how to handle those feelings, we react in ways that make it worse. We’ve all been there. In this episode, Roy shares a talk given by his favorite spiritual teacher, Michael Si…
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153 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 7: Your STRATEGY Makeover
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There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to “attract lasting love,” yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more. In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your lif…
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152 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 6: Your EMOTIONAL AVAILABILITY Makeover
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There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to “attract lasting love,” yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more. In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your lif…
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151 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide & a Complete Makeover So That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 5: Your CONFIDENCE Makeover
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There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to “attract lasting love,” yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more. In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your lif…
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150 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 4: Your PERSONALITY Makeover
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There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to “attract lasting love,” yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more. In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your lif…
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149 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 3: Your SOCIAL Makeover
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There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to “attract lasting love,” yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more. In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your lif…
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148 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 2: Your Passion Makeover
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There are at least six issues that impact our ability to “attract lasting love,” yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more. In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life …
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147 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide & a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 1: Your Physical Presentation Makeover
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We all say, “Happy New Year!” and we mean it. We truly want that. And truth be told, one of the things that would truly make it a happy new year is if we found our life partner this year. Well, that’s what this podcast (and the six that follow) are all about. Roy, our host, is going to offer the most practical, down-to-earth advice as is humanly po…
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146 Clean the Slate: The Most Important (but ignored) Step to Ensuring a “Happy New Year” (and a new relationship!)
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Who wants to have a lousy new year? Anyone? I didn’t think so. And who wants to attract a new, healthy relationship in the new year? You do, right? I thought so. Well, did you know that there is one single thing we must have (and it’s hardly ever talked about) if we want a “happy new year” and a happy new relationship? What is it, you ask? A clean …
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145 A Crash Course on Boundaries: When to Set Them, How to Enforce Them
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We all know that having boundaries and setting boundaries is essential if we are to have healthy, enjoyable, relationships. There needs to be a clear line between ourselves and others, where we begin and they end, otherwise our relationships become controlling, co-dependence and enmeshed. Yet the idea of setting boundaries terrifies most of us. We …
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Just as there are laws of physics that govern reality, so there are laws of relationships that govern our pursuit of intimacy. In this special series of podcasts, Roy discusses five “Laws of Life & Love,” showing us that if we align ourselves with these laws, we will experience healthy, sustainable relationships. But if we don’t, if misunderstand t…
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Just as there are laws of physics that govern reality, so there are laws of relationships that govern our pursuit of intimacy. In this special series of podcasts, Roy discusses five “Laws of Life & Love,” showing us that if we align ourselves with these laws, we will experience healthy, sustainable relationships. But if we don’t, if misunderstand t…
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142 Laws of Life & Love, Pt. 3: The Law of Opposites
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Just as there are laws of physics that govern reality, so there are laws of relationships that govern our pursuit of intimacy. In this special series of podcasts, Roy discusses five “Laws of Life & Love,” showing us that if we align ourselves with these laws, we will experience healthy, sustainable relationships. But if we don’t, if misunderstand t…
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Just as there are laws of physics that govern reality, so there are laws of relationships that govern our pursuit of intimacy. In this special series of podcasts, Roy discusses five “Laws of Life & Love,” showing us that if we align ourselves with these laws, we will experience healthy, sustainable relationships. But if we don’t, if misunderstand t…
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140 Laws of Life & Love, Pt. 1: The Law of Attraction
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Just as there are laws of physics that govern reality, so there are laws of relationships that govern our pursuit of intimacy. In this special series of podcasts, Roy discusses five “Laws of Life & Love,” showing us that if we align ourselves with these laws, we will experience healthy, sustainable relationships. But if we don’t, if misunderstand t…
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139 Relationship Basic Training, Pt. 3: The Basics of Getting Close
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It’s easy to become overwhelmed by all the relationship information that is available to us these days. There are literally thousands of relationship experts in the world and all of them seem to share their philosophies and perspectives via videos, blogs, books, summits, and podcasts. How are we supposed to make sense of it all? In our pursuit of i…
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138 Relationship Basic Training, Pt. 2: The Basics of Getting Connected
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It’s easy to become overwhelmed by all the relationship information that is available to us these days. There are literally thousands of relationship experts in the world and all of them seem to share their philosophies and perspectives via videos, blogs, books, summits, and podcasts. How are we supposed to make sense of it all? In our pursuit of i…
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137 Relationship Basic Training, Pt. 1: The Basics of Getting Clear
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It’s easy to become overwhelmed by all the relationship information that is available to us these days. There are literally thousands of relationship experts in the world and all of them seem to share their philosophies and perspectives via videos, blogs, books, summits, and podcasts. How are we supposed to make sense of it all? In our pursuit of i…
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136 Roy Rants! (Vol. 1): What Drives a Conscious Relationship Coach Absolutely Insane
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In this fiery yet playful episode, Roy gets some things off his chest. He rants about some general relational dynamics that drive him nuts, but then he goes after men, women, dating coaches, relationship podcasts, Hollywood, online summits—and even himself! No one is safe; no one gets a pass; everyone is taken to the woodshed… all in an effort to c…
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In this episode, Roy brings you a recorded talk by his favorite spiritual teacher, Michael (Mickey) Singer. He is the author of the best spiritual/personal growth book ever written, The Untethered Soul. In this talk, Mickey simplifies the essential commitment that leads to a life of well-being and fulfilling relationships. It’s all about the moment…
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Our adult lives can (arguably) be broken down into 3 phases: “Young Life” (25-40), Mid Life (40-60) and Old Life (60 +). Each of these phases have “Crisis Points”—unique emotional, professional and relational issues that are very difficult and challenging to navigate. Living our best lives—and helping those around us do the same—means learning abou…
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Our adult lives can (arguably) be broken down into 3 phases: “Young Life” (25-40), Mid Life (40-60) and Old Life (60 +). Each of these phases have “Crisis Points”—unique emotional, professional and relational issues that are very difficult and challenging to navigate. Living our best lives—and helping those around us do the same—means learning abou…
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Our adult lives can (arguably) be broken down into 3 phases: “Young Life” (25-40), Mid Life (40-60) and Old Life (60 +). Each of these phases have “Crisis Points”—unique emotional, professional and relational issues that are very difficult and challenging to navigate. Living our best lives—and helping those around us do the same—means learning abou…
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131 Trigger Warning: Pt. 5: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It
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All human beings have five core “wants.” These are deep, fundamental emotional needs and they’re universal. They aren’t bad or wrong, they’re human. No matter who you are, we all want security, approval, control, connection, and freedom. Here’s the premise in this 5-part series: Whenever we feel triggered, upset or reactive, it’s not because of wha…
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130 Trigger Warning!: Pt. 4: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It
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All human beings have five core “wants.” These are deep, fundamental emotional needs and they’re universal. They aren’t bad or wrong, they’re human. No matter who you are, we all want security, approval, control, connection, and freedom. Here’s the premise in this 5-part series: Whenever we feel triggered, upset or reactive, it’s not because of wha…
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129 Trigger Warning!: Pt. 3: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It
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All human beings have five core “wants.” These are deep, fundamental emotional needs and they’re universal. They aren’t bad or wrong, they’re human. No matter who you are, we all want security, approval, control, connection, and freedom. Here’s the premise in this 5-part series: Whenever we feel triggered, upset or reactive, it’s not because of wha…
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128 Trigger Warning!: Pt. 2: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It
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All human beings have five core “wants.” These are deep, fundamental emotional needs and they’re universal. They aren’t bad or wrong, they’re human. No matter who you are, we all want security, approval, control, connection, and freedom. Here’s the premise in this 5-part series: Whenever we feel triggered, upset or reactive, it’s not because of wha…
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127 Trigger Warning!: Pt. 1: Why We Get Upset and Reactive and What To Do About It
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All human beings have five core “wants.” These are deep, fundamental emotional needs and they’re universal. They aren’t bad or wrong, they’re human. No matter who you are, we all want security, approval, control, connection, and freedom. Here’s the premise in this 5-part series: Whenever we feel triggered, upset or reactive, it’s not because of wha…
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126 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 8: The Last Time
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Our host, Roy Biancalana, has had the privilege of learning from, and being trained by, some amazing relationship teachers, and in this series, he shares insights that not only produced a quantum leap in his life, but they are sure to significantly impact yours as well. In this episode, which is the last of an 8-part series, the “quantum insight” i…
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125 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 7: Beyond Ego
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Our host, Roy Biancalana, has had the privilege of learning from, and being trained by, some amazing relationship teachers, and in this series, he shares insights that not only produced a quantum leap in his life, but they are sure to significantly impact yours as well. In this episode, which is part seven of an 8-part series, the “quantum insight”…
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124 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 6: Personality Blind Spots
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Our host, Roy Biancalana, has had the privilege of learning from, and being trained by, some amazing relationship teachers, and in this series, he shares insights that not only produced a quantum leap in his life, but they are sure to significantly impact yours as well. In this episode, which is part six of an 8-part series, the “quantum insight” i…
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123 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 5: Sexual Polarity
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Our host, Roy Biancalana, has had the privilege of learning from, and being trained by, some amazing relationship teachers, and in this series, he shares insights that not only produced a quantum leap in his life, but they are sure to significantly impact yours as well. In this episode, which is part five of an 8-part series, the “quantum insight” …
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122 Quantum Insights: What I Have Learned from My Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 4: Body Intelligence
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Our host, Roy Biancalana, has had the privilege of learning from, and being trained by, some amazing relationship teachers, and in this series, he shares insights that not only produced a quantum leap in his life, but they are sure to significantly impact yours as well. In this episode, which is part four of an 8-part series, the “quantum insight” …
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121 Quantum Insights: What Roy Has Learned from His Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 3: The Success Formula
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Our host, Roy Biancalana, has had the privilege of learning from, and being trained by, some amazing relationship teachers, and in this series, he shares insights that not only produced a quantum leap in his life, but they are sure to significantly impact yours as well. In this episode, which is part three of a 7-part series, the “quantum insight” …
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120 Quantum Insights: What Roy Has Learned from His Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 2: The Human Condition
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Our host, Roy Biancalana, has had the privilege of learning from, and being trained by, some amazing relationship teachers, and in this series, he shares insights that not only produced a quantum leap in his life, but they are sure to significantly impact yours as well. In this episode, which is part two of a 7-part series, the “quantum insight” is…
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119 Quantum Insights: What Roy Has Learned from His Most Important Relationship Teachers, Pt. 1: Radical Responsibility
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Our host, Roy Biancalana, has had the privilege of learning from, and being trained by, some amazing relationship teachers, and in this series, he shares insights that not only produced a quantum leap in his life, but they are sure to significantly impact yours as well. In this episode, which is part one of a 7-part series, the “quantum insight” is…
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118 911—What's Your Emergency? "Help! I've Been Dumped!", Pt. 3
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When you have an emergency in the United States and need help, you dial 911. Well, sometimes we encounter relationship emergencies or dating disasters—and we need help, too. In part three of a 3-part series, our host, Roy Biancalana, offers “emergency assistance” for the dating disaster of being dumped. If you’ve had the heart-breaking experience o…
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117 911—What's Your Emergency? "Help! I've Been Played!", Pt. 2
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When you have an emergency in the United States and need help, you dial 911. Well, sometimes we encounter relationship emergencies or dating disasters—and we need help, too. In part two of a 3-part series, our host, Roy Biancalana, offers “emergency assistance” for the dating disaster of being played. If you’ve had the agonizing and paralyzing expe…
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116 911—What's Your Emergency? "Help! I've Been Ghosted!", Pt. 1
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When you have an emergency in the United States and need help, you dial 911. Well, sometimes we encounter relationship emergencies or dating disasters—and we need help, too. In part one of a 3-part series, our host, Roy Biancalana, offers “emergency assistance” for the dating disaster of being ghosted. If you’ve had the awful and frustrating experi…
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