최고 Rodman 팟캐스트 (2024)

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The Same Hormones That Made Her Feel Crazy Are Leaving The Building 20:52

3d ago20:52

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Remember, there is a real true positive of your wife's hormonal decrease! Listen and learn, grasshopper. Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get…

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Of Course Women Are Sad When Their Sex Drives Decrease 19:14

5d ago19:14

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Some men think women don't care. Do you not care when you can't run as fast anymore? Everyone minds aging. But it happens anyway, and acceptance of this while acknowledging the sadness is important work. Send this to your husband to open up a conversation! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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5 Things To Say When Your Wife Is Mad 14:19

8d ago14:19

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What's covered in this awesome episode? Why, only five ways to instantly defuse conflict with your wife! Listen and learn. Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ …

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What Motivates My Desire To Help Couples Understand Each Other 18:22

5d ago18:22

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The answer may surprise you, and motivate you even more to start your own couples therapy! The discussion covers my own experiences as well. Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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COVID Codependence 16:18

7d ago16:18

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Some couples got way too enmeshed during COVID and have struggled ever since with the re-integration of extended family, going back to work, and hobbies/friends. In this episode, I go into depth about this phenomenon and tell you how to work on it if it describes your marriage! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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Working Together: Good Idea Or Terrible For Your Marriage? 15:17

15d ago15:17

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I have many clients who work together, and it works well for some and poorly for others. Here's what makes this more and less likely to succeed! And I also work with my husband so I give you my own take on this dynamic. Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/…

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Some Guy Equates A Breach Of Contract Between Partners In A Therapy Practice To A Sexless Marriage And My Response 18:57

13d ago18:57

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Yet another man on the internet tries to mansplain stuff about sex to me even though I am literally a person who tells women to have more sex. Hey guess what everyone, men aren't pure victims. Just like women aren't. I fix the analogy and remind everyone that life is complex and that women aren't bait and switching unless it's the same Lifetime mov…

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Retroactive Jealousy: When You're Obsessed With Your Partner's Past 15:34

15d ago15:34

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What is retroactive jealousy and why do some people struggle with it so much? Many reasons are covered in this podcast episode, including the one where you actually are worrying for a good reason! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subsc…

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The Pros And Cons Of Starting Your Relationship As Friends 17:43

24d ago17:43

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If you originally met as friends, it can be difficult to transition into romance... but you usually have a strong foundation of mutual respect. Can you be attracted to someone you met as a friend? Can you fully transition into romantic partners, and if so, how? How does the honeymoon stage come into play in this dynamic? All this and more on today'…

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Financial Abuse And Control 15:30

29d ago15:30

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Financial control and abuse can be insidious. If your partner is the only one allowed to buy things or make decisions about how money can be spent, or if you have no idea how money is managed or what accounts you have money in, this episode is for you! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https:…

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Nobody "Has The Power" In An Unhappy Marriage 18:19

1M ago18:19

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Often, men think that the woman "holds the power" if she has a lower sex drive... just like how women think the man "holds the power" if he has a lower desire to be emotionally close. The reality is that nobody is happy or feels powerful in an unhappy marriage, not the anxious partner or the avoidant one! Here's how to rethink this, as well as why …

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Responsive ROMANCE! 16:19

1M ago16:19

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Remember, more women have sex when they don't want to than men are romantic when they don't want to be... because men more are avoidant. So here's what to think about if you think romance should be "organic"... based on what I've already taught you about responsive desire in women! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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If Your Wife Finds You Attractive It Doesn't Really Matter (In This Sense) 16:41

1M ago16:41

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It doesn't really matter how hot your wife thinks you are, although you can certainly be hoodwinked by an entire industry looking to tell you that becoming hotter will lead to more sex. Here's why and how attraction doesn't matter... and the case where it does. Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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Sex Positive/High Libido Women May Feel MORE Of A Drop Hormonally With Age 20:17

1M ago20:17

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Whenever I post about the incendiary idea that humans age and drives decline, some women say they are more comfortable now than when younger, which can compensate. In this episode, I discuss high vs low libido women over time, and drive over time as well. As usual, join my Facebook group if you want to see where some of these podcast topics origina…

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Don't "Try To Be More Interesting" To Make People Interested In You 16:26

1M ago16:26

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Many preoccupied attachment people think they need to develop extra hobbies or travel more or make themselves "more interesting" in order to attract people or maintain the interest of their spouse. This is not accurate. Do things you want to do if you want to attract people who value you for you! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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Fighting About Loading The Dishwasher? Listen To This 23:24

2M ago23:24

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This is a huge waste of the only time you have on this planet. Listen up for what you're really fighting about and how to think about it differently. This went longer as expected as I touched on individual-level, couples-level, and even societal-level reasons for these types of arguments!! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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"I Just Want To Be Alone" Is Now Considered A Healthy Female Ideal 16:51

2M ago16:51

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It's the era of no touch! Women who feel this way are now extolled in the media. Why this hurts marriages... but also individuals, and how to situate this in the context of social trends. Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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Why Being A Good Stepdad Gets Men A Lot Of Love And How To Approximate This Effect If You're Not A Stepdad 18:37

2M ago18:37

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I have long noticed that guys who remarry women with kids get a lot of love from their wives, and this topic just came up in my Facebook group as well. And it's my own situation, fwiw! What is the reason, and how can you understand it in a way that helps you get the same love from your wife if you aren't remarried? Subscribe if you love the DPM sho…

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Nostalgia For Your "Prime" And How This Impacts Men And Women 16:42

2M ago16:42

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The prime years of your life can look different based on your personality, gender, and values. Here is how nostalgia for your "prime" looks for many men and women I see in my practice, and how this impacts their relationship in different stages. Also, what if you didn't feel you had a prime? Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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Why Men Nowadays Don't Know That Drive Drops For Men After The Honeymoon Stage And With Age 22:59

2M ago22:59

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Men in earlier generations admitted this freely. Here's why they don't anymore! Included: The Coolidge Effect, testosterone, porn, and more! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all…

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Yes, Sex Is A Proxy For Connection. But, Connection Shouldn't Be Your Central Obsession Either! 14:43

2M ago14:43

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Sometimes preoccupied attachment guys use my podcasts to tell their wives how it is normal for them to be super invested in their sex lives because sex is a proxy for intimacy and connection. But keep in mind that connecting with your wife ALSO shouldn't become a central and defining obsession! NO EXCEL SPREADSHEETS ARE HEALTHY, whether you're docu…

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Why You Can't Find A Partner After Divorce 15:19

2M ago15:19

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If you're finding this very difficult, then here's a breakdown of why and what to do! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode:…

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"Gaming" or "Hacking" Your Wife Makes Her Respect You Much, Much Less 17:58

2M ago17:58

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Some guys go beyond "working on their marriage" and think they can somehow "hack" their wife to make her constantly desire them. This is silly and makes your wife think of you like a child. Here's how this dynamic plays out and why it is one of the worst things you can do! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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Should Your Husband "Be Happy With What He Gets" In Bed? 18:27

2M ago18:27

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Well, I guess you'd have to ask yourself... what is he getting in bed? This episode includes a whole bunch of extra info and includes various situations where your husband might want to think deeper about why he is unhappy! (And some situations where almost anyone would be unhappy.) Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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What To Say To Your Husband When You Don't Want Sex... Instead Of Mean Stuff 15:32

2M ago15:32

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Someone asked, "As the higher drive spouse in my marriage I do most of the initiating and hear “no” pretty frequently. Some no’s feel a lot more like a rejection than others. This is usually when they are accompanied by “we just had sex 4 days ago, you’re insatiable,” “you just have a one-track mind,” “you should just take care of things yourself,”…

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Happy Valentine's Day... Here's How To Make It Good! 19:05

2M ago19:05

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What can you do RIGHT NOW to make this an awesome Valentine's Day, and why "Hallmark holiday" is a foolish term that translates to "I'm closed minded, difficult, and avoidant." Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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When in Rome... Have Sex! (The Impact Of Confident Momentum) 16:45

3M ago16:45

16:45

If you use confident momentum, your wife will have sex... You're cultivating that culture! When in Rome... Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscrib…

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The Words To Look Out For To Avoid Women Who Will Stop Liking Sex 16:17

3M ago16:17

16:17

Listen to this episode to save you from later heartache!! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why Your Partner Sends You So Many M…

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What Does It Mean When Women On Dating Apps Don't Share Their Phone Numbers? 16:38

3M ago16:38

16:38

I'll tell you what they think it means... but why if I were your therapist, I would tell you to watch out! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber…

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Doing Chores Doesn't Turn Women On, But... 15:15

3M ago15:15

15:15

Doing chores may not literally act as foreplay, but it certainly does turn women on in one sense. Listen and learn! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent sub…

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Should You Wait To Have Sex With New Partner Because Of Oxytocin Being Released Or Whatever BS Theory You Read Online? 15:17

3M ago15:17

15:17

You may be able to tell what I think of this from the title but listen up to hear why waiting months to have sex with a new partner is not very smart if you value sexual compatibility long term! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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Who Are The Men Who Get Treated Like Kings? 15:11

3M ago15:11

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In a post about why some women get "treated like princesses" (https://www.drpsychmom.com/treated-like-a-princess/) I discuss how some women feel that it is random and unlucky that they don't get treated well by men, or that women who do get treated well by men are somehow exploiting these men. In fact, people get treated well if they are good partn…

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When Your Mental Health Improves... And It Tanks Your Marriage 17:59

3M ago17:59

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This is very common, although people tend to be surprised by it. One person works on their anxiety, anger, depression, or anything else, and instead of the marriage getting better... it implodes! Here's why this happens, the movie I recommend about it, and what to do about it. Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http…

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Does Couples Therapy Really Improve Sex Lives? 19:40

3M ago19:40

19:40

It sure does! I see this in my virtual office every day. But, this is not linear progress, and it's based on a whole bunch of variables. Listen and see if you and your partner would potentially be good candidates for this... or if you should save your money! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spot…

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When Women Are Scared To Be Alone With Kids 16:19

3M ago16:19

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This is very common in women who have undiagnosed or unrecognized depression, anxiety, and/or childhood trauma. Listen to see if it may resonate with you more than you would guess! And if you're a husband... listen if you have come to realize that your wife is extremely uncomfortable or angry about any time spent in "solo parenting"... or if everyo…

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The Empathic Rupture Of Never Getting To Stay Home With Kids 17:07

3M ago17:07

17:07

This is more common than you think! In many couples, the woman deeply regrets not having been able to stay home with babies and small kids. In this episode, I discuss why and how this regret forms, and what to do about it in various stages, including after this is impossible to change! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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"Spirit Week" And Constant School Emails Are Unfair To Kids And Parents Alike 16:26

3M ago16:26

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I see constant school contact and need for parental involvement massively stress many marriages in the clients I work with. And, if you're a child in a dysfunctional or poor family, you get screwed over time and time again when your parents cannot get their shit together to get you a special outfit or don't have the money to do so. If you're stress…

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"Why Can Hookers Do It Multiple Times A Day And Your Wife Can't?" 15:32

4M ago15:32

15:32

This is a real question I got on social media. I answer it because some guys don't understand the differences. For female listeners... this question can show you how little some men understand basic stuff about women, and how you may need to explain to your husband a LOT more about your sexuality than you ever imagined! Also covered: the rates of s…

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If Your Husband Takes Over The Emotional And The Physical Labor... Why? 17:50

4M ago17:50

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This is something I wonder about constantly when I see some young men on social media talking about taking over the emotional and physical labor of parenting. Quite honestly, I often see the woman doing as little of the gruntwork as possible, which flips the same toxic script as when men opted out of gruntwork and engaged with parenting only on a d…

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Financial Values And How They Affect Your Relationship 13:49

4M ago13:49

13:49

Many couples struggle with understanding their own and/or their partner's larger financial values, and with communicating these in a way that can increase understanding and closeness. Here, I'll take you through a few ways I see this manifest in the couples I work with and walk you through how to have a discussion about this interesting topic! Subs…

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What Depression Looks Like In Men 17:41

4M ago17:41

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When men are depressed, it often doesn't look like sadness or tearfulness. What does it look like, why your wife isn't "the problem," how to get your husband to address it, when meds are appropriate, and more! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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The More Successful A Guy Is, The More Coachable He Is 19:53

4M ago19:53

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What I have learned from working with highly successful guys... and how this can impact the average guy and his marriage! Defensiveness is BAD and affects your relationships, your career, and your ability to learn and grow as a person! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomsho…

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Do Cute Parenting Stuff With Your Wife Before It's Too Late! 15:49

4M ago15:49

15:49

The cute parenting activity era is finite, although it doesn't feel that way when you're in it. Here is what your wife likely wants from you, why, and what older guys tend to think about this phase when it's over. Also: watching the game every weekend while she hangs out with the kids isn't usually a good thing for the marriage later on! Subscribe …

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Younger Working Husbands Are Condescended To The Way Stay At Home Moms Used To Be 18:51

4M ago18:51

18:51

In younger, more liberal couples, I have been seeing the inverse of the prior sexist view where stay at home moms were condescended to. Instead, the men are doing more than half the housework and childcare while being the sole provider, without sex! Here, I discuss what's going on for these couples and what to do if you're in this situation! Subscr…

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What's Your Flexibility Quotient? 19:02

4M ago19:02

19:02

I came up with this construct in my secret Facebook group (join us, info below!) and I discuss what it is and why it's so important to think about this in context of evaluating how good of a partner you really are! FQ: Rate yourself 1-10 with 10 being the best at: doing stuff you don't want to do, being open minded when discussing new ideas, abilit…

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Nobody Wants To Be The Asshole.... AKA Why Couples Counseling Works 16:06

4M ago16:06

16:06

In my most recent subscriber episode, I discussed how "nobody wants to be the asshole" is a major reason that couples counseling works. Here, I discuss why your spouse may well be embarrassed not to try hard in the relationship if you're trying hard, and how this can help you get into a virtuous cycle of relationship repair and connection! Subscrib…

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You May Miss Your Wife Pursuing You To Spend More Time With Her... When She Stops 16:33

4M ago16:33

16:33

Men who are avoidant attachment and are on the younger end, e.g. under 35, tend to feel very stifled and irritated by their preoccupied attachment wife's desire to hang out and spend time together. However, they may regret this when she hits midlife, especially her 40's, because this is often when she grows sick of asking for attention and decides …

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Why Blowjobs Fall Off In Later Marriage 18:15

4M ago18:15

18:15

Most men have no idea why this happens, or think it's due to the woman just caring less about them than she did at first. Today's episode dispels these myths and gives you the real deal on why this occurs for so many! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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Benefits Of Perimenopause and Menopause 17:20

5M ago17:20

17:20

In this episode, I discuss the positives of this natural life transition, how hormones affect women at these stages, which men are more vs less accepting about it, and how a man's own insecurity can come into play at this time! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠…

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Wish Lists For Holiday Gifts: Good Idea Or Dumpster Fire? 16:59

5M ago16:59

16:59

Does your partner want you to just buy stuff off their wish list for the holidays? Do you wish they just bought you stuff you ask for instead of trying to be creative? Do you yearn for a present that is personally hand picked out and shows that your partner really understands you? Here's all you need to understand gift giving in relationships, just…

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