최고 Reconciliation 팟캐스트 (2025)

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E193// Why is it easier to talk to my bestie than my husband? 12:16

6d ago12:16

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In this episode, I share insights gained from my recent experiences in therapy training, highlighting the importance of emotional safety in relationships. I discuss how a clinician's listening approach influenced my willingness to share and how this relates to fostering emotional intimacy in marriage. I further explore how being a safe spouse means…

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104 - Marriage Questions Answered with Kylene and Patrick 1:06:02

6d ago1:06:02

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In today's episode we answer questions ranging from how we met to how we navigate conflict, and how we help each other through tough times. We have included the questions with a link below in case you would like to use them in a conversation with your partner! Questions in today's episode: https://tinyurl.com/9kjca7m9 If you are a betrayed partner …

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Ep. 21 - Jim Wallis "Faith and Justice" 37:46

7d ago37:46

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In this episode we welcome Jim Wallis, a writer, teacher, preacher and justice advocate who believes the gospel of Jesus must be emancipated from its cultural and political captivities. He is a New York Times bestselling author, public theologian, preacher and commentator on ethics and public life. He is the inaugural holder of the Chair in Faith a…

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103 - Recognizing and Releasing Destructive Patterns for the Addict and Betrayed 48:03

13d ago48:03

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It’s always easier to identify negative patterns in someone else. In today’s episode, Kylene shares four common patterns that can show up in both the addicted partner and the betrayed partner — but in different ways: Qualifying and Comparing Using Absolutes like “Always” and “Never” Looking Outward Instead of Inward Dehumanizing Thoughts or Behavio…

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102 - Supporting Your Betrayed Partner: 4 Tools That Will Help You Help Her 22:40

20d ago22:40

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In today's episode, Patrick shares four ways a recovering addict can show up for their betrayed partner while demonstrating consistency, sincerity and healing: Make an effort to understand Focus on your own healing Practice your responses Don't seek her external validation We often mention the "Help Her Heal" workbook and encourage you to utilize t…

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101 - 3 Tools Every Betrayed Partner Can Use Today! 41:23

27d ago41:23

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Erin Stretar (pronounced Streeter) shares three powerful tools she recommends to all her clients navigating betrayal recovery in this week’s RecoverU episode. Discover how journaling, self-soothing techniques, and building a strong support system can empower your healing journey. Erin provides practical tips and real-life applications you can start…

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100 - Using a Polygraph for Recovery - What You Need to Know 58:20

1M ago58:20

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In this episode, Kylene and Patrick walk through how to use a polygraph (lie detector test) as part of recovery, reconciliation and trust building after betrayal and discovery. Some questions they answer are: Why use a polygraph? How to find a polygrapher What to look for in a polygrapher- interview questions to consider Best practices for creating…

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99 - 4 Years After Discovery 13:49

1M ago13:49

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Congratulations to Patrick on 4 years in recovery! I'm so proud of you.In this episode, Kylene briefly shares what it feels like to be hitting the 4 year mark of recovery together, and why the intense and purposeful effort they made has truly been worth it. If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support…

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98 - Divorce After Betrayal? You are not alone. How to Navigate it with Strength. 33:25

1M ago33:25

33:25

Divorce feels similar to being widowed. You've lost your partner, you've lost the life and the future you thought you had, and you experience a significant amount of grief. Divorce after betrayal can feel isolating and overwhelming. This is why Kim Hansen Petroni has written her workbook: "Not a Casserole Widow" to provide education and cultivate s…

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97 - Living the Fruit: Why the Fruits of the Spirit are Important During Recovery 49:03

2M ago49:03

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Life can be stressful on its own, but navigating recovery after addiction and betrayal adds layers of tension, overwhelming emotions, and uncertainty. In today’s episode, Kylene and Patrick explore how the fruits of the Spirit can serve as a powerful self-reflection tool to guide growth and healing in your recovery journey. By focusing on cultivati…

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96 - Sobriety vs. Recovery, What's the Difference? 54:58

2M ago54:58

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Is there a difference between sobriety and recovery? Is recovery just a longer version of sobriety? In this episode of RecoverU Kylene and Patrick share their perspective on the differences between sobriety and recovery and the type of actions and behaviors it takes to move into a life of recovery, and ultimately freedom, after a life of sex or por…

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Ep. 20 - Bishop Michael Curry "The Way of Love" 32:44

2M ago32:44

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In this episode, we welcome a very special guest, the dynamic and inspirational Bishop Michael Curry, 27th Presiding Bishop and Primate of The Episcopal Church. Known worldwide for his passionate proclamation of "The Way of Love," Bishop Curry's ministry centers on the transformative power of God’s unconditional love to heal, unite, and renew. With…

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E192// Why I scrapped my most popular episode and what's new for 2025! 8:46

2M ago8:46

8:46

In this episode, I address my hiatus from the podcast and the reasons behind it. I discuss my evolving perspective on marriage therapy, shaped by both personal experiences and professional training. Join me as I share insights from my journey, touching on the importance of working on personal issues before tackling couples therapy. This year, my go…

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95 - Choosing Who You Want to be so You Don't Stay Stuck in 2025 46:44

2M ago46:44

46:44

Feeling stuck and not sure how to move forward? In today’s episode, Kylene and Patrick discuss choosing who you want to be so you don’t stay stuck in 2025. They provide five practical tips and actionable resources to help you align with your values and vision for the future. Their approach emphasizes digging deeper than surface-level goals, empower…

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Ep. 19 - Curtis Chang "The After Party: Toward Better Christian Politics" 32:30

3M ago32:30

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It's an honor to welcome new guest Curtis Chang to Reconciliation Roundtable to discuss his efforts to bridge partisan divides through his work on the The Good Faith Podcast and The After Party project. In this episode, we delve into the importance of addressing spiritual dysfunctions in the Church and fostering meaningful dialogues across differen…

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94 - Reflection & Projection - A personal exercise for continued growth at the end of the year 19:48

3M ago19:48

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Do you feel discouraged in your recovery journey? We encourage you to take some time to reflect on the past year. Often, when we feel stuck or frustrated, if we compare where we are today to where we were 6 months ago, or a year ago, we have a better perspective of how far we've truly come! the end of the year offers us a natural point to review wh…

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93 - Feeling Disconnected? A Quick Conversation Starter for Couples During the Holidays 13:50

3M ago13:50

13:50

Do you and your partner feel LESS connected when things get busy? Do you notice that you have less time for each other and fewer conversations? Communication is a top priority during recovery and we want to encourage you to prioritize it MORE when you're busy, tired or stressed instead of less. When we get busy and communicate less, it becomes a br…

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92 - Having Trouble Declining Invitations? 3 Polite Ways to Say No This Holiday Season 12:08

3M ago12:08

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Are you a people pleaser? Saying NO is hard, and we can feel extra pressure around the holidays. In today's episode, Kylene and Patrick offer 3, succinct and specific ways to politely decline invitations if you need some extra down time for recovery. If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, pleas…

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91 - Feeling Stressed? Three Ways to Support Your Mind & Body Through Betrayal 38:54

3M ago38:54

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Discovery is one of the most stressful experiences for both the sex/porn addict and the betrayed partner. Stress takes a significant toll on the body in this episode Kylene breaks down how stress impacts the body and 3 specific pillars of support we can bring in to support our mental and physical health through recovery. Kylene has some links below…

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90 - How can my husband love me, and be a sex/porn addict? 41:50

4M ago41:50

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Are you a betrayed partner who has asked the question - how could my husband engage in such hurtful behaviors and still love me? If so, you're not alone! In this episode Kylene and Patrick talk about how this questions is really a form of communicating the pain that has been caused, the feelings of insecurity, the fear of comparison, and the reiter…

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89 - I have so much Anxiety - What do I do? 51:38

4M ago51:38

51:38

Are you stuck in an anxiety loop after betrayal? If so, you are NOT alone. Anxiety is one of the primary emotions that surface after discovering your husband is a sex or porn addict. Not sure if you feel anxious? In this episode Kylene and Patrick break down some signs and symptoms of anxiety, why safety is important, and how we can support our hea…

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88 - I'm so MAD! When anger is healthy, when it's not, and how to process it! 50:42

4M ago50:42

50:42

My husband CHEATED - so it's ok to be angry right? I'm so ANGRY and I just can't get over it. I will never get over it. I'm not allowed to be angry - it's a sin. Anger is a natural emotion and an important feeling to be respected and acknowledged. However, when left unchecked it can turn into bitterness and it can begin to take control of your life…

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Ep. 18 - Dr. Ryan Burge "Beyond Party Lines: America's Religious Landscape" 36:05

4M ago36:05

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In this episode, I welcome new guest Dr. Ryan Burge, an associate professor of political science at Eastern Illinois University. He is the author or co-author of four books including The Nones, 20 Myths about Religion and Politics in America, and The Great Dechurching. He has written for the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal and POLITICO. He …

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87 - 3 Lies That Can Keep Us Stuck 1:01:57

4M ago1:01:57

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I can do this on my own! They hurt me, therefore I can hurt them. Porn isn't infidelity! In today's episode, Kylene and Patrick address these 3 lies. Both recovering addicts and betrayed partners can get caught up in these beliefs and it can dramatically impact long term healing. Let's shift these beliefs together to find deep, long lasting freedom…

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25 - The Reconciliation 13:00

4M ago13:00

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A new MP3 sermon from Audiobooks by Horatius Bonar is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: 25 - The Reconciliation Subtitle: Light and Truth - Vol 4 Speaker: Horatius Bonar Broadcaster: Audiobooks by Horatius Bonar Event: Audiobook Date: 1/25/1800 Bible: Colossians 1:20 Length: 13 min.…

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86 - When Will My Spouse Get Over My Betrayal? Living Amends 44:32

5M ago44:32

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Are you a recovering sex/porn addict who is frustrated that your spouse still has questions about your previous behavior? Or maybe you are a betrayed spouse who has brought up a trigger only to be replied to with "when will you get over this? Why is this still coming up for you?" All couples navigating recovery long for the day when they will never…

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85 - 4 Questions to Deepen Intimacy during Recovery 44:28

5M ago44:28

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How can I connect more deeply with my partner - especially after betrayal? Communication is the foundation for life long intimacy and growth with your partner. AND it happens to be one of the top struggles most couples have. In today's episode, Kylene and Patrick suggest 4 questions to discuss with your partner to open conversation and to connect m…

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84 - Difficulties and Benefits of True Intimacy after Betrayal 43:34

5M ago43:34

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INTIMACY? or sex? Are they the same? How can you reconnect intimately with your partner if they have hurt you in the past? For many partners, true intimacy (into -me-you-see) is first established through the recovery journey as they learn new skills for communication, trust, empathy and connection together. Intimacy requires safety and sex addictio…

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83 - Empathy From and FOR the Betrayed and Addicted 1:11:37

5M ago1:11:37

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What is empathy? At its core, it's the ability to understand someone else's experience and perspective. When a couple chooses to stay together, empathy is a critical skill for both individuals to learn. YES it's learnable! We must practice things that don't come naturally before they become second nature. In today's episode, Kylene and Patrick disc…

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E191// How to be accountable for change in your marriage WITHOUT being a doormat! 14:16

5M ago14:16

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Understanding Grace, Boundaries, and Wisdom in Marriage In this episode, we revisit episode number two, where I discuss how we can't change our husbands, only ourselves, and the importance of offering grace. Taking it a step further, I address common concerns about feeling like a doormat and emphasize the difference between silence and wisdom. Sile…

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82 - What Now? - FAQs for the Betrayed Partner 55:35

6M ago55:35

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Betrayal HURTS and it feels overwhelming. Today, Kylene answers some of the most common questions a betrayed partner may have after discovering that her husband is a sex or porn addict. Questions like: Is it possible to heal and if so, HOW? What does the process of reconciliation look like? How long does recovery take? Can I speed it up? What do I …

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E190// How to regulate your emotions and be less reactive w. Samantha Skelly 39:41

6M ago39:41

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Harnessing the Power of Breathwork to Regulate Emotions and Trauma This week's episode features an enlightening conversation with Samantha Skelly, founder and CEO of Paws Breathwork. Samantha shares her journey from battling anxiety and an eating disorder to discovering the transformative potential of breathwork. She explains how breathwork can hel…

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81 - 4 Challenges to Forgiving After Betrayal - Understanding the Hurdles 44:39

6M ago44:39

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Forgiveness after betrayal? What keeps us stuck from moving forward with forgiveness? In today's episode, Kylene and Patrick define forgiveness, discuss different types of forgiveness, and what might keep us stuck from moving forward with forgiveness. Is it always appropriate to forgive? Or is there a right time? Do I always have to tell the person…

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E189// Is that normal? Discerning through marital disappointment vs. destructive abuse 19:22

6M ago19:22

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Understanding Emotional Abuse: Disappointing vs. Destructive Marriages In this episode of the Grace Fueled Wife Podcast, I'm delving into the critical difference between disappointing and destructive marriages. Building on last week's discussion about emotional abuse, I reference Leslie Vernick's book, 'Emotionally Destructive Marriage,' to provide…

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E188// I want to go to marriage counseling but he refuses. What should I do? 23:20

6M ago23:20

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Navigating Marriage Therapy: Tips for Encouraging Your Spouse to Participate This week, we dive into communication strategies, using 'I-statements,' and how to approach the topic with your spouse in a way that makes them feel safe and understood. I'll also share insights on clarifying what you want to achieve in therapy and the common issues couple…

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Ep. 17 - Rev. Adam Hamilton "A Campaign for Kindness" 39:23

6M ago39:23

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Reverend Adam Hamilton is the founding Senior Pastor of the Church of the Resurrection in Kansas City, the largest Methodist church in the U.S. Adam grew up in the Kansas City area, earned a Bachelor’s degree in Pastoral Ministry from Oral Roberts University and a Master of Divinity degree from Southern Methodist University. He is the author of num…

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80 - Renewed by Grace: A Journey of Healing and Leadership with Nick and Michelle Stumbo 57:27

6M ago57:27

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Is it possible for GOOD to come from all the pain of sex addiction and betrayal trauma? Nick and Michelle Stumbo are examples of how good CAN come from the pain we have experienced. A former pastor and now head of Pure Desire ministries, Nick shares his personal story of transformation along with his wife Michelle who talks about what it was like b…

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Ep 16 - Rabbi Matthew Gewirtz "Faith and Friendship" 31:31

6M ago31:31

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Rabbi Matthew D. Gewirtz joins me to discuss his journey towards becoming a rabbi, the challenges faced in his role, and his deep involvement in interfaith work. The discussion also covers the Hebrew concept of machloket (disagreeing without rancor), its relevance in the current crisis between Israel and Gaza, and the importance of interfaith dialo…

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79 - How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex with Rodney and Traci Wright 59:30

6M ago59:30

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How do we navigate conversations about sex with our children? Whether you are a couple going through recovery after betrayal and sex addiction, or you are just parents trying to raise healthy kids, healthy sexuality is something they should learn about from you. But it's often a very uncomfortable topic for many of us and we just don't know how to …

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78 - Shattered Trust, the Emotional Landscape of Betrayal 1:05:52

7M ago1:05:52

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What does it feel like to discover your husband is a sex/porn addict without any warning? How do you navigate those first few months? In today's episode, Patrick asks Kylene questions about her experience including: What was going through your head the first 2 weeks after discovery? What seemed to help the first few weeks/months? What behaviors fro…

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Genesis 18:1-15 - Is there anything to hard for the Lord? 48:00

7M ago48:00

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A new MP3 sermon from Willowbrook Park Baptist Church is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Genesis 18:1-15 - Is there anything to hard for the Lord? Subtitle: Genesis Speaker: Dr. Christopher Turpin Broadcaster: Willowbrook Park Baptist Church Event: Sunday Service Date: 8/18/2024 Bible: Genesis 18:1-15 Length: 48 min.…

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David Judged 50:00

7M ago50:00

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A new MP3 sermon from Redeemer Presbyterian Church is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: David Judged Subtitle: Topical Speaker: Chris Dorn Broadcaster: Redeemer Presbyterian Church Event: Sunday - PM Date: 8/25/2024 Bible: 2 Samuel 11:26-12:13 Length: 50 min.

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Christ Our PEACE 45:00

7M ago45:00

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A new MP3 sermon from Grace Baptist Church is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Christ Our PEACE Subtitle: Studies In John Speaker: Richard Warmack Broadcaster: Grace Baptist Church Event: Sunday Service Date: 8/25/2024 Bible: John 14:27 Length: 45 min.

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Sermon On The Mount, Pt.7 44:00

7M ago44:00

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A new MP3 sermon from Grace Baptist Church is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Sermon On The Mount, Pt.7 Subtitle: Sermon On The Mount Speaker: Richard Warmack Broadcaster: Grace Baptist Church Event: Sunday School Date: 8/25/2024 Bible: Matthew 5:8 Length: 44 min.

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The Satisfaction of Our Only High Priest, for Us - BCF 21 14:00

7M ago14:00

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A new MP3 sermon from Salem Ebenezer Reformed Church is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: The Satisfaction of Our Only High Priest, for Us - BCF 21 Subtitle: Belgic Confession of Faith Speaker: James Grossmann Broadcaster: Salem Ebenezer Reformed Church Event: Sunday Service Date: 8/25/2024 Bible: Hebrews 7:11-25; 2 Co…

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Denial of Sin Brings Death 46:00

7M ago46:00

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A new MP3 sermon from Gateway Bible Baptist Church is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Denial of Sin Brings Death Subtitle: Book of 1 John Speaker: Christopher Lowe Broadcaster: Gateway Bible Baptist Church Event: Sunday - AM Date: 8/25/2024 Bible: 1 John 1:8-10 Length: 46 min.…

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Redeeming Love 39:00

7M ago39:00

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A new MP3 sermon from City of Faith Christian Fellowship is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Redeeming Love Subtitle: Romans Speaker: Pastor Frank Bertossi Broadcaster: City of Faith Christian Fellowship Event: Sunday Service Date: 8/25/2024 Bible: Romans 5:6-11 Length: 39 min.…

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Reconciliation 38:00

7M ago38:00

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A new MP3 sermon from Tyler Presbyterian Church (OPC) is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Reconciliation Subtitle: Genesis Speaker: John H. Johnson Broadcaster: Tyler Presbyterian Church (OPC) Event: Sunday - PM Date: 8/18/2024 Bible: Genesis 33 Length: 38 min.

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Reconciliation: The Last Word 47:00

7M ago47:00

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A new MP3 sermon from Columbia Presbyterian Church is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Reconciliation: The Last Word Subtitle: Summer Series Speaker: Pastor Robert Bjerkaas Broadcaster: Columbia Presbyterian Church Event: Sunday Service Date: 8/25/2024 Bible: Philemon 25 Length: 47 min.…

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77 - Love After Healing: A Redemption Story 1:27:41

7M ago1:27:41

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Can a spouse recovery from betrayal? Can an addict recovery? Can we actually live healthy lives? These are some of the questions Kylene's client Katherine* experienced after discovering her husband was hiding a secret sex addiction. After doing some of their own work and then coming to Kylene for continued healing work, Katherine is here today to s…

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