Welcome to: The Real Swing Podcast Real People. Real Life. Real Swingers. We are just your average, small-town, middle-aged married couple, sharing our journey into the lifestyle of swinging. Come along with us while we share our sexy adventures, wild experiences, and questionable decisions with you. Want to share some of your questions or stories with us? We love to share. Email us at therealswingpodcast@gmail.com.
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Swingers Lifestyle education with Mizzy Bender. The truth, transparency and what to expect when entering Ethical Non-Monogamy.
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Click here to text us a comment or question! Welcome back to "part 2" of our Naughty in N'awlins 2025 recap! It's the last official day of Naughty, but before we head out for the festivities we want to update you what we have been up to the past 48 hours! In this episode we update our first time to Naughty with a dive in days 3 and 4. We are having…
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Send us a text Hi, its me, Mizzy Bender, self-described as a "swinger's ethical non-monogamy overall lifestyle bracket, influencer, educator" and I'm here to discuss the importance of creating boundaries in the swingers lifestyle. Mizzy shares her personal experiences and insights to provide guidance on how couples can establish healthy boundaries …
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Click here to text us a comment or question! In this episode we come to you live from Naughty in N'awlins to talk about our first official day here! Great food, new friends, topped off with a lot of sexy fun! Don't forget to take a listen to our favorite podcasters that are with us at Naughty! The Accidental Swingers - with Tristan and Myrina Humpd…
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Send us a text Key Topics and Summaries of what to expect to learn: Navigating the Swinger's Lifestyle as a Beginner Recommends that newcomers to the lifestyle observe and experience different types of swinger events (house parties, club settings, hotel takeovers, etc.) for at least 6 months before actively participating. Be aware of event rules, d…
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Click here to text us a comment or question! In this episode we talk about our last minute decision to attend Naughty in N'awlins 2025! We take a glimpse into the parties, classes, and all the things Naughty at this year's event. We also answer and discuss a few questions from listeners. We need your help!! Send us your NIN challenge suggestions! W…
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Swingers: Learn How to Communicate Effectively | Communication in the Swingers Lifestyle
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49:10Send us a text Mizzy Bender discusses the importance of communication in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. The key topics covered are: *Setting Boundaries Before Events *Communicating Expectations and Desires *Honesty with Yourself and Your Partner *Communication Challenges and Strategies For more behind the scenes and closer interact…
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Swingers Lifestyle: Is it Really Just the Single Guys? Part 4 of 4
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44:29Send us a text It's a reoccurring topic that single guys in the swingers lifestyle get such a bad wrap. But why? I did some research by posting the question of .. What are some things single men in the swingers lifestyle do, that just irks you so much. The answers that came back really can apply to everyone, not just single men. I thought it would …
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Swingers Lifestyle: Is it Really Just the Single Guys? Part 3 of 4
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35:44Send us a text It's a reoccurring topic that single guys in the swingers lifestyle get such a bad wrap. But why? I did some research by posting the question of .. What are some things single men in the lifestyle do, that just irks you so much. The answers that came back really can apply to everyone, not just single men. I thought it would be a grea…
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Swingers Lifestyle: Is it Really Just the Single Guys? Part 2 of 4
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44:20Send us a text It's a reoccurring topic that single men in the swingers lifestyle get such a bad wrap. But why? I did some research by posting the question of .. What are some things single men in the lifestyle do, that just irks you so much. The specific talking points for today's show are below. Single guys that grab. I can’t stand that! When the…
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Swingers Lifestyle: Is it Really Just the Single Guys? Part 1 of 4
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39:51Send us a text Really Just the Single Guys? It's a reoccurring topic that single men in the swingers lifestyle get such a bad wrap. But why? I did some research by posting the question of .. What are some things single men in the lifestyle do, that just irks you so much. The answers that came back really can apply to everyone, not just single men. …
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Send us a text In this empowering episode, I dive deep into one of the most common — yet rarely talked about — emotions in ethical non-monogamy: jealousy. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, jealousy can pop up in unexpected ways. But here's the truth: it doesn’t make you weak or “bad” — it makes you human. You’ll learn: How …
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Questions to Ask New Play Partners | Questions for Swingers
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1:07:59Send us a text Mizzy Bender discusses the important questions to ask potential new play partners in the swinging lifestyle to avoid awkward or uncomfortable situations. She shares her personal experiences and insights on navigating the lifestyle as a newcomer, and provides a framework for vetting potential partners. Key Topics Mizzy's Journey in th…
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Send us a text When it comes to swinging, communication and consent are the foundation—but health and safety are just as critical. In this vlog, we break down the realities of STDs in the swingers lifestyle world: the ownership, how to stay protected, and how to normalize honest conversations about testing and treatment. Let’s make sexual health pa…
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[EP 18] - Interview with "Vita-Sirena" - Lifestyle Event Host including the Tampa area, Fantasy Fest exclusive events, and everything in between!
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1:04:06Click here to text us a comment or question! In this episode we get the chance to interview Cristy and Jefe of The Vita Sirena Elite Lifestyle Group. They give us a look into their background as a couple, and how they ventured into the world of swinging and event hosting. They also talk about some events coming up that include our favorite time of …
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[EP 17] - One Year Anniversary of "The Real Swing Podcast!"
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45:08Click here to text us a comment or question! Happy 1 Year Anniversary to "The Real Swing Podcast!" In this Episode we talk about a few exciting things coming up, some local LS news, and answer a few questions from our listeners. We end the episode with a question for you! Click the link in the beginning of the description to send us your answer....…
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[EP 16] - A Mardi Gras birthday and.....a bounce house orgy?
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42:48Click here to text us a comment or question! In this episode we take the podcast on the road for the first time. Ride along as we head to a Mardi Gras Party for a birthday weekend celebration; and celebrate we did! We take an email question from a listener to discuss some of our fantasies, experiences, and more. Shout out to the Humpday Quickies Po…
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Click here to text us a comment or question! In this episode we recap 2024 with some things we have liked, what we have learned, and some of the years highlights. We take a look at our plans and goals for 2025, along with some fresh ideas for the future of our podcast. Support the show저자 The small town couple next door.
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[EP 14] - Fantasy Fest Recap and Review. **Disclaimer - Tequila was involved in the making of this episode.
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1:37:27Click here to text us a comment or question! In this episode we finally give a recap and review of our first Fantasy Fest Experience. ................and we get a sexy surprise call-in midway through! We decided it would be a great idea to record this ep while enjoying a few adult beverages (which may or may not have been a great idea). So in order…
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[EP 13] - Key West - Travel Lifestyle - Fantasy Fest Last Call. What you need to know before you go!
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32:59Click here to text us a comment or question! In this episode we will pack last minute plans, details, and info for anyone who may be going or looking to learn more about the Party. We will touch on Groups, Official Events, Private Parties, and meetups. Join our telegram group to stay in touch with everything happening while you are there and stay c…
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[EP 12] - Looking ahead at Fantasy Fest 2024 - Interview with "Key West Lifestyle"
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53:45Click here to text us a comment or question! Welcome back! We are less than three weeks away from Fantasy Fest!! In this episode we had the pleasure of chatting with the founding members of "Key West Lifestyle", Mike and Tim. They give us a peek into the Key West lifestyle scene and what they are doing to take it to the next level. We take a shallo…
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Click here to text us a comment or question! In this episode we talk to the owner of the Syracuse Speakeasy just ahead of the much anticipated "Hot for Teacher" event. We hear about the history of the club, the journey of he and his wife into the lifestyle, as well as some great stories along the way. If you are interested in attending one of their…
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Click here to text us a comment or question! Episode #10!!!! We are having such a blast sharing this with all of you! In this episode we recap our recent trip to Key West! We met some new friends and checked off some of those "F-IT" list items with a little help!! ...And did we just get talked into going to Fantasy Fest?? From the show: 20% off you…
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Click here to text us a comment or question! In this episode we introduce our new Group on the Telegram app. If you would like to join our group, email us at therealswingpodcast@gmail.com. We also talk about our upcoming trip to Key West (aka The Conch Republic). We have come up with a list of fun, sexy challenges to complete while we are there, BU…
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[EP 8] - Let's get "Tangled Up" with Chad and Brittany
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49:38Click here to text us a comment or question! It's Pride Month 2024! We get the opportunity to catch up with new friends Chad and Brittany from the "Tangled Up Together" Podcast. We discuss their origin story and how their journey into the lifestyle has allowed Brittany to explore another side of her sexuality. They give us a peek into their experie…
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Click here to text us a comment or question! We are back! In this Episode we will recap our recent trip to Syracuse to an amazing Eyes Wide Shut themed party. We met so many great new friends, including the hosts to one of our favorite podcasts! We also kicked off summer with a last minute overnight trip to the ROC, to check out a new outdoor venue…
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Click here to text us a comment or question! Welcome back to: The Real Swing Podcast, Episode 6. A quick update on our podcast journey so far, and some exciting things we have coming up. We also answer an email from a listener regarding one of those uncomfortable issues we face in the lifestyle. Interested in joining us at an event or a trip? Have …
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Click here to text us a comment or question! In this episode, we do a live Q&A with our chat group. We discuss and give our thoughts and opinions on some "common," and "not so common" lifestyle questions and concerns. We also touch on a few hot button issues. Email: therealswingpodcast@gmail.com SLS Group link: SDC Group Link: Kasidie Group Link: S…
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Click here to text us a comment or question! In this episode we will discuss our first full weekend hotel takeover experience and all of the things that come with it. We also talk about a communication breakdown. And of course, no birthday weekend would be complete without.......... Hotel Takeover groups mentioned in this episode: https://secretsin…
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[EP 3] - "Expect nothing, but prepare for everything."
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48:54Click here to text us a comment or question! Welcome back to another episode of The Real Swing! In this episode we talk about a wild trip to Key West which included our first experience in the lifestyle. Shannon has her first female encounter.....and a 5am walk of......HELL YES WE DID! We also touch on rules and boundaries. What's the difference? S…
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Click here to text us a comment or question! In this episode we will meet a couple who have been married and in the lifestyle for one year. They talk about their first event.....which ended in an orgy! They give us their perspective on events, the people, and of course the party. They have also co-founded a new lifestyle group in Upstate, NY that h…
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Click here to text us a comment or question! Welcome to The Real Swing Podcast! In this episode, we introduce ourselves and give a brief look into our lives and why we decided to get into the lifestyle. It is our hope to feature our listeners on future episodes. Please reach out to us with any question, stories, or information you would like to sha…
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