최고 Dont Forget 팟캐스트 (2024)

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Episodes 2.06 & 2.07: "Don't I Look Hot?" 1:05:33

9d ago1:05:33

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We stand in full support of Palestinian liberation and believe that Israel should end its genocidal violence and occupation. If you don’t agree, please fuck off. We cover episodes 2.06, “Never Letting Go”, and 2.07, “Surface Tension”. This episode not only introduces Jessica DiLaurentis, but also gives us our first hint of Wine Moms! We discuss lac…

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Episodes 2.04 & 2.05: "Nosey Bitches Die!" 1:10:29

23d ago1:10:29

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We stand in full support of Palestinian liberation and believe that Israel should end its genocidal violence and occupation. If you don’t agree, please fuck off. In this episode we cover 2.04, “Blind Dates”, and 2.05, “The Devil You Know”. We start with the most dramatic shit and then work our way through the rest. We discuss Mona’s jealousy and ti…

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Episodes 2.02 & 2.03: "Your Family Has the Worst Apples" 50:10

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We stand in full support of Palestinian liberation and believe that Israel should end its genocidal violence and occupation. If you don’t agree, please fuck off. This week, we cover 2.02, “The Goodbye Look”, and 2.03, “My Name is Trouble”! We discuss apologies, ableism, Ali flashbacks, whether there’s anyone buried in the DiLaurentis yard yet, and …

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Season 2 Premiere: "Miss Me?" 1:10:48

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Once again, because it unfortunately still needs to be said: we stand in full support of Palestinian liberation and believe that Israel should end its genocidal violence and occupation. If you don’t agree, please fuck off. We’re back, bitches! Today we cover episode 2.01 “It’s Alive”. We discuss women’s sports films in India, therapist Anne, Pretty…

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Season 1 Finale: "Pretty Girls Make Graves" 1:04:35

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Content notes: Apart from stuff in PLL itself, which we don’t usually warn for, we discuss age of consent laws and sexual abuse of minors from 14:55 to 20:50, including specifically the show Broadchurch beginning at 17:40 that includes discussion of murder of a child in the show by his abuser. And once again: we stand in full support of Palestinian…

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Episodes 1.20 & 1.21: "I Used to Love Algebra" 1:14:57

9M ago1:14:57

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Once again: we stand in full support of Palestinian liberation and believe that Israel should end its genocidal violence and occupation. If you don’t agree, please fuck off. Today we’re covering episodes 1.20, “Someone to Watch Over Me” and 1.21, “Monsters in the end.” We discuss dolls, ableist violence, dentist gossip, and being “allies” in our hi…

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Episodes 1.18 & 1.19: "Who's Evil and Who's Just Naughty?" 1:09:18

9M ago1:09:18

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Content notes: we don’t warn for things that happen in PLL, but from 6:15 to 14:04 we talk about the plot of The Bad Seed, which has murder (including of children), suicide, serial killers, and a cruel reference to capital punishment by electric chair. Also, once again: we stand in full support of Palestinian liberation and against Israel's settler…

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Episodes 1.16 & 1.17: "I Like Complicated" 1:31:16

9M ago1:31:16

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Content notes: we don’t usually warn for things that happen in PLL itself, but from 27:30 to 31:35, our special guest talks about homophobic and transphobic bullying and assault that he faced in high school, especially playing water polo. Also: this podcast was recorded months ago, but we stand strongly in support with Palestinian liberation and ag…

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Episodes 1.14 & 1.15: "The Rich Girls Steal and the Pretty Girls Lie" 1:14:26

10M ago1:14:26

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Today we discuss episodes 1.14 “Careful What U Wish 4”, and 1.15 “If at First You Don’t Succeed, Lie, Lie Again”. We get extremely excited about the arrival of a new character (zero guesses who), compare PLL to like five other teen dramas from around the world, reference Tiktok memes that are years-old now because Deepa hasn’t been on Tiktok since …

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Episodes 1.12 & 1.13: "It's Only a Felony If They Find Out" 1:16:11

10M ago1:16:11

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This is a very special episode because we recorded it in person!! (We sort of apologize that the laughs are louder than usual.) We cover episodes 1.12, “Salt Meets Wound”, and 1.13, “Know Your Frenemies”, where we discuss lasagna box money, Pam being horrible, where Toby’s sweater came from, how many times Ian dies, and the only time Cameron has ev…

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Episodes 1.10 & 1.11: "I'm Sixteen, and I'm Tired" 1:22:00

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In today’s pod, we cover PLL episodes 1.10 “Keep Your Friends Close” and 1.11 “Moments Later”! We discuss how much we love Camp Mona, Ashley’s unauthorized loan, Ali as a candy striper, why the patriarchy is okay with women playing field hockey, and the worst poem we’ve read in our entire lives. Episode Transcript: Read it on Buzzsprout! Chickpea R…

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Episodes 1.08 & 1.09: "You Should Never Disappoint a Ghost" 1:11:04

11M ago1:11:04

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In today's episode we cover PLL episodes 1.08, “Please Do Talk About Me When I’m Gone”, and 1.09, “The Perfect Storm.” We discuss the SATs, gender in high school and the show's horrible intersexism, Alison's gay literary references, people needing to eat food, completely unrelated musicals, and jewelry in coffins. We attempt to play High/Low and sp…

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Episodes 1.06 & 1.07: "Lions and Tigers and Bitches, Oh My!" 1:18:40

12M ago1:18:40

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In this episode, we covered all things Homecoming: 1.07, “There’s No Place Like Homecoming”, and 1.08, “The Homecoming Hangover”. We discuss Ella missing lacrosse games, Melissa potentially poisoning former Homecoming Queens, and Deepa’s extensive literary analysis of two books referenced in the show. We also go on some truly unnecessary tangents, …

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Episodes 1.04 & 1.05: "Different Is Good" 1:10:43

1y ago1:10:43

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In this episode, we covered 1.04, “Can You Hear Me Now”, and 1.05, “Reality Bites Me”. We get our first Alex (yay!) and a new dad (boo). We discuss Toby’s masculinity, Mona’s love for Hanna, shoes on furniture, and strategies to cope with watching Ezra’s scenes. We also spend way too much time talking about Homecoming even though the dance doesn’t …

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Episodes 1.02 & 1.03: "Sometimes the Truth Is Worse" 1:14:00

1y ago1:14:00

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In this episode, we covered episodes 1.02, “The Jenna Thing”, and 1.03, “To Kill A Mocking Girl”, featuring a whole lot of ableism, a bunch of new characters showing up (and one immediately leaving), the first of many parties at Noel Kahn’s cabin, us being forever angry about abusers and the carceral nature of this show, whether sports are about wi…

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Pilot: "Maybe a Little Too Much, Em" 58:34

1y ago58:34

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Welcome to Don’t Forget the Chickpeas, a Pretty Little Liars rewatch podcast about the things we love & hate about the show, everything queer we can possibly discuss, the best & worst outfits, the best & worst parents, our love for Heather Hogan, and chickpea recipes! In this episode, we discuss the pilot episode of Pretty Little Liars. This podcas…

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Episode 8 - The Bipolar Doc 18:47

2y ago18:47

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The Bipolar Doc has asked to remain anonymous. Hers is a story about mental illness as a doctor. Working in a system where she was caring for patients but wasn’t being cared for herself. It’s a story about feeling broken, about leaving medicine and then about gaining a deeper understanding of what she needs in her professional life and as a human.…

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Episode 7 - Veevek 20:00

2y ago20:00

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저자 Don't Forget The Bubbles

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Episode 6 - Sameera 20:30

2y ago20:30

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Sameera’s is a story not only about gender identity but about acceptance of self and acceptance by others. As a child in India, Sameera could only ever be herself in secret. Would she ever be able to be honest with the people she loved and feel accepted for who she really is? This is a journey of discovery across continents and time. It’s a story o…

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Episode 5 - Dinesh 16:02

2y ago16:02

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저자 Tessa

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Episode 4 - Simon 18:35

2y ago18:35

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Simon’s is a story about being broken. What’s it like as an ED consultant when you lose your ability to keep all the plates spinning? This is a story about how our professional identities inform how we view ourselves as humans. And does being fixed mean that you have to be able to spin all the plates again?…

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Episode 3 - Emily 19:43

2y ago19:43

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Emily’s is a story about being a patient as a healthcare professional. It’s about our reluctance to accept illness in ourselves, the comfort we find in keeping our professional roles and the perceptions of other professionals about what we need when the roles are reversed. Through being a patient, Emily has learned that it’s the human touches that …

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Episode 2 - Caoimhe 19:47

2+ y ago19:47

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Caoimhe’s is a story about existing at the interface of clinician and family member during a moment of exquisite trauma. Caoimhe and her father shared a love of cycling. She shares a story that is about both experiencing and bearing witness to an unforgettable moment in a loved one’s life.저자 Don't Forget The Bubbles

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Episode 1 - Liz 22:02

2+ y ago22:02

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Liz’s story starts when she goes for her 12-week scan and hears there’s a problem. Faced with the question of whether to terminate the pregnancy, Liz and her husband made a decision to keep the baby, Amy. But what would this mean for her family and friends and for any subsequent children? This is a story about loss, adjustment, the judgments and pr…

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S2/E19-Season 2 Wrap up 11:32

2+ y ago11:32

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This is our warp up of Season 2 and a look forward to Season 3.저자 Bruce Barker

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S2/E18-Support for the Holidays 28:32

2+ y ago28:32

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Rena and Bruce look at another layer of the Holiday Sandwich, and talk about more personal experiences and offer resources, help lines and text lines to have close if you feel overwhelmed during the Holidays.저자 Bruce Barker

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S2/E17-Holiday Sandwich 1:04:36

2+ y ago1:04:36

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We find ourselves in the Holiday Sandwich; the space between Thanksgiving and Christmas. In this episode, Bruce talks very candidly about the Thanksgiving experience he just had, his STERB of anger and what comes next.저자 Bruce Barker

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S2/E16-The Holidays Are Coming 1:00:13

2+ y ago1:00:13

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With the Holidays upon us, we discuss the impact the Holidays have had on them, along with what's coming up this year. We talk about the necessity of allowing yourself to do and feel what comes up for you during an especially emotional time of the year. We also put out a call for you to send a message to the loved ones who won't be with you this se…

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S2/E14-Doing The Work 35:50

3y ago35:50

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In this episode, we try to explain what it means by "Doing the Work". And by doing do, Rena gets very open and personal about a loss she experienced this week, and how she is doing the work.저자 Bruce Barker

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S2/E13-Other Forms of Grief 43:36

3y ago43:36

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The word "grief" has typically been associated with death. In this episode, Rena and I discuss the actual meaning of Grief, and begin talking about the 40 different forms of Grief. In a world full of trauma and loss, you will encounter many people in your daily life that are grieving. Let's talk about that and the need to create space for Grief.…

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30 - Pitch Perfect 1:22:31

3y ago1:22:31

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Grab your USB sticks full of mashups and get ready to join an acapella group, we’re heading back to college for all of our thoughts on Pitch Perfect!Was the music of 2012 the least timeless music ever made? Who made the choice to cast Ben platt & Skylar Astin, two identical white men as friends/roommates? Why are college freshman the absolute worst…

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S2/E12-Wedding Season Pt. 2 30:20

3y ago30:20

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In this episode, Rena and I continue our "unperson" session from Nashville, as we discuss finding your joy during celebratory events, all the while you continue your journey through grief. We talk about some specific tools that can help you navigate the invitations that may or may not come.저자 Bruce Barker

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S2/E11: Wedding Season 40:28

3y ago40:28

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Can you experience joy at a special occasion when you are in your journey of grief? Is it even ok to feel joy? What will people think of your tears? Does it mean you are "moving on"? Rena and Bruce dive into this subject and discuss those questions in this special episode recored just a few days before Bruce's Son's wedding.…

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S2/ E10: When The Chips Talk 28:06

3+ y ago28:06

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Have you been in the grocery aisle, maybe near your child's favorite snack or food; maybe it was a certain brand of chips? And you could hear your child asking for their favorite; really hear their voice in your mind? Rena and I dive into those moments when the chips start to talk in the grocery aisle.…

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After The Show - Vol 1 32:24

3+ y ago32:24

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After The Show is a series of conversations Rena and I have after we’ve stopped recording the podcast. We noticed that we spend a great deal of time talking after the shows, continuing our conversations about grief and recovery or sometimes just talking about our experiences, thoughts and ideas. And then we realized that some of what we talk about …

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S2/ E9: Did You Really Just Say That 43:56

3+ y ago43:56

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As parents who have experienced the death of your child, we have all had things said to us that make us say...inside..."Did you really just say that to me?" We have internal explosions or gasps of disbelief. In this episode, we expose and share some of the things that have been said to us and said to friends that leave us shaking our heads. We are …

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S2/ E8: Survivor's Guilt...or just Grief 47:37

3+ y ago47:37

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We are diving into a few ways survivors feel a sense of guilt, or is it just another form of grief. We talk about how that can manifest itself into a sense of not allowing yourself to feel joy, and if you do have a moment of joy, it might be immediately followed with a sense of guilt. That guilt can be debilitating and lead you to anger, sadness, a…

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S2 / E7: Rena's Story 34:35

3+ y ago34:35

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In the first season of our podcast, you got a very clear view of who I am by me telling my story. Now that we've added a Co-Host, I think it’s important for you to get to know her and hear her story as well. Rena is a Certified Grief Specialist, but so much more...저자 Bruce Barker

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Season 2 Preview: I Welcome a Co-Host! 6:36

3+ y ago6:36

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We begin Season 2 by adding a very special co-host, Rena Ooi, a Certified Grief Specialist. Rena has walked in your shoes in a powerful way. She will share her story in Season 2, Episode 7. In this Preview, we talk about some of the subjects we will discuss this season and how we hope to help you navigate your grief and recovery.…

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S1/ E6: A New Year's Message 7:38

3+ y ago7:38

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This will be a really short chat; I didn’t plan on doing an episode for a couple of weeks, but this thought popped up and I wanted to share it. This will be short, but hopefully, you will find something in it that might help. The big theme of my New Year’s Message…YOU MADE IT!저자 Bruce Barker

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S1/ E5: The First Time Since 20:40

3+ y ago20:40

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In the midst of the Holidays, The First Time Since talks about those events, favorite places and special occasions that we experience for the first time since losing a child, or anyone close to us. Simply living life day by day will reveal moments of remembrance that can trigger sorrow, pain, anger and more. But this can feel overwhelming during th…

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S1/ E4: A Randomly Planned Tapestry 29:55

3+ y ago29:55

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I believe that during the course of our lives, both individually and collectively, our daily activities, experiences and relationships are woven together to eventually form an amazing and complex tapestry; our very own life’s tapestry. A tapestry is made up of so many threads, each with its own purpose and distinct place in the pattern being create…

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S1/ E3: Don't Forget To Breathe 39:06

4y ago39:06

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It was time to go back to Denver; time to get out of Louisiana; time to leave behind the horrible experience of burying my daughter. There was nothing to live for any longer. I was cloaked in despair; a walking death-wish. But someone had another plan for my life. This is the story of a divine encounter that changed everything.…

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S1/ E2: The Funeral Home Experience 15:40

4y ago15:40

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From the moment I entered the Funeral Home until the time I exited, I was left with a lasting impression of the "business" of funerals. On top of being there because my child had died, the experience was one that I hope no parent will need to go through, even though I know it happens every single day to someone.…

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S1/ E1: Shock and Awe 20:52

4y ago20:52

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So on a day like any other, I got the call no parent ever wants to get, or ever really imagines they will, and one they never should. My daughter was dead. This episode covers the moment my life changed forever, and the living nightmare that began the next chapter of my life.저자 Bruce Barker

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Introduction 4:02

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Don’t Forget To Breathe is a podcast that follows the journey of a father who suddenly lost his 20 year old daughter, and his life after a tragedy that no parent should ever endure. In these podcast episodes, I’ll talk about the last 14 years, my grief, my anger, my depression, my emptiness, and even those moments of joy, of happiness, of learning …