Stop People Pleasing with TONY SCHMALTZ

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Tony has his own movement and tasks “The Be Schmaltzy Movement” whereas you let go of your fears and stop people pleasing to find your happiness and success. The German translation of his last name is to be “sappy and cheesy”. Tony has committed himself to working with others to create freedom to connect to their authentic self for the past two decades.

Tony’s Past History of Abuse

Tony’s parents started arguing when he was about 10 years old, and that aggression spilled over to Tony and his siblings. Besides, his parents were always telling Tony and his younger siblings that they needed to be more like his brother Chris, going to university on scholarship.

He wasn’t able to move past his resentment until he went to coaching and realized that he needed to confront his brother. “I had to finally tell my brother that he was my biggest limiting belief.”

Schmaltzy Method Origins

In high school, he went to Germany for a school trip and was able to drink as he was 16 at the time. As he drank, he started flirting more with the girls at the bar, and the locals began calling him “Schmaltzy” as he was throwing out cheesy one-liners to the girls around him.

Why People Stop from Being their True Selves

Many people will stop from being their true selves and not let their authentic light shine. As Tony woke up one morning, dreaming about Germany, he realized he wanted to start a movement to help others become their authentic selves as well.

How to Break the Cycle of People Pleasing

Find out what is causing your anxiety with the person or persons you are people-pleasing. Breaking yourself out of your comfort zone isn't an easy choice, but it's a choice you have to make and take action on to ensure you stop the people-pleasing. Making a decision on the fly will feed into your people's pleasing. Take a step back and think about what you really need to do with your day that's a priority.

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